Slowly Getting Younger GF Into IR Cuckolding

UPDATE: Not that this post ever gained any traction, but I thought I would provide an update. Two weekends ago, I came clean to her. Initially I had told her I desired a MMF three sum, but I just couldn't take it anymore and revealed to her about my cuckold fantasy. A lot of the reason is because sex had grown so frustrating - I have trouble staying hard and also cum fast. She had mentioned that she doesn't think that she attracts me or something, and I thought it was time to be honest. I was nervous as fuck telling her, unsure how she would react or how weird it would make her feel (this isn't your average thing in my opinion and not for everyone).

I told her that instead of MMF, I desire to watch her get pleasure like I am unable to give her. She was a bit taken back at first and had no idea what cuckolding was. I did a bit more of explaining to her and she seemed to understand...I kind of told her that what would give me the most pleasure is watching her get the most pleasure she can..I think that played pretty well on her. She kinda came around on it overnight because when we woke up she seemed genuinely interested and googled to find out more (lol). Anyway, since then, things have progressed slowly but positively. She is still learning more about it and we have even started to introducing porn into our sex, which makes me very hard. She has watched a couple cuckold things, and it's starting to get her more wet and more wet.

This seems that this is really going to come to fruition, and I'm partly in disbelief to be honest. It's so relieving to stop living in a lie like I had been, and to have her open to it makes it so much fucking better. That being said, she has never been with a black man before and is a little bit intimidated by that. I am treading lightly, but things have been moving along fantastically...so far.
That is fantastic and you did a great thing by coming clean. My advice to you is to continue to proceed slowly. She now knows your feelings and hasn't left you so she is intrigued but you can't push her. You can guide her but she needs to go at her own pace and be comfortable. It can be a scary thing for her and the more she reads about it and figures out you are not "weird" and there are others like you, the more chance she will see it as a win-win-win ! Keep us posted !!!
 
UPDATE: Not that this post ever gained any traction, but I thought I would provide an update. Two weekends ago, I came clean to her. Initially I had told her I desired a MMF three sum, but I just couldn't take it anymore and revealed to her about my cuckold fantasy. A lot of the reason is because sex had grown so frustrating - I have trouble staying hard and also cum fast. She had mentioned that she doesn't think that she attracts me or something, and I thought it was time to be honest. I was nervous as fuck telling her, unsure how she would react or how weird it would make her feel (this isn't your average thing in my opinion and not for everyone).

I told her that instead of MMF, I desire to watch her get pleasure like I am unable to give her. She was a bit taken back at first and had no idea what cuckolding was. I did a bit more of explaining to her and she seemed to understand...I kind of told her that what would give me the most pleasure is watching her get the most pleasure she can..I think that played pretty well on her. She kinda came around on it overnight because when we woke up she seemed genuinely interested and googled to find out more (lol). Anyway, since then, things have progressed slowly but positively. She is still learning more about it and we have even started to introducing porn into our sex, which makes me very hard. She has watched a couple cuckold things, and it's starting to get her more wet and more wet.

This seems that this is really going to come to fruition, and I'm partly in disbelief to be honest. It's so relieving to stop living in a lie like I had been, and to have her open to it makes it so much fucking better. That being said, she has never been with a black man before and is a little bit intimidated by that. I am treading lightly, but things have been moving along fantastically...so far.
Buy her a medium sized black dildo first. Start watching interracial porn and lick her pussy while watches and fucks herself. Show her how submissive you'll be and jerk off when she squirts on her new toy. If you want her to feel like it pleasures you just as much, make yourself cum when she does, but let her keep going and go back to eating her out.
 
Hello. I've been a member here for quite some time now and haven't had much luck getting my partner(s) into the cuckolding lifestyle. I've had a couple GFs since I first joined here and now have another recent one that I truly love and enjoy being around. But the sex is lackluster on my end. She's definitely more conservative in public, but between the sheets is a pretty big nympho, I've found out.

I've been into the idea of interracial cuckolding for multiple years and haven't yet made it happen. Gotten close, but it didn't last. My current GF has never been with a black man before, and yes, I desperately desire to see her with one -- still. My issue is that I have a lot of trouble performing sexually. I haven't really experienced this in the past, but I cum pretty damn fast and it's frustrating for both me and her. I've slowly been trying to get her into the idea of interracial cuckolding, but it's not as easy as just straight up telling her that. So I've been very slow moving toward it.

I've drunkingly told her that I have a fantasy of a MMF three sum, to which she seemed rather intrigued. But that's about it right now and I'm not sure where to go next without weirding her out and having this blow up in my face again. Like I said, she's never fucked a black man but I know that she would enjoy it. She's the sheltered type, but has briefly mentioned about how she finds select few black men sexy.

Does anyone have any advice on how I can move this forward slowly, how I can perform better sexually and/or how to get her into this idea? It's frustrating for me. I am masculine and try to be dominant, but I have a lot of trouble bringing that side out of me -- I'm definitely more submissive, I've found out. Thanks in advance for the help.
Message me, we have similar stories and interests
 
Thanks a lot for the advice. Yes, I have been taking it slow but now that I can see a potential finish line, I've gotten pretty excited and have to remember to take it slower because this is all new to her. So far, so good though.



Thank you for the tips. Haven't delved into the dildo thing yet, reluctant to because she doesn't have toys (that I know of ). We have started to watch some porn together, which has really helped.
I think the porn thing is a GREAT idea. If I may suggest, of course try to find porn with a black bull and white wife/gf. Maybe some cuck porn ? Also, I found that eating her pussy while she is watching the porn is a great thing too. It re-inforces your role as her pussy eater and lets face it, eating pussy is always incredible. Has she mentioned anything more to you after you watch porn or gets more used to the idea ? Once you can get the conversation to how would you find someone, how would it work, etc then you are definitely there !
 
ANOTHER UPDATE: Hey all again..figured I'd provide another update on the situation, which just continues to progress!! We were together the last couple days and spoke more about this last night -- specifically about the cuckold aspect. I've found that watching porn has significantly spiced up our sex life more than anything, and we watched two separate amateur cuckold-type videos while getting intimate. It went incredible.

First one I turned on was a semi-pro clip from a porno that was pretty much a MMF three sum with a black dude and a white guy and a chick. Had it on in the background while getting into it..once that ended, I had a major boner and she was getting pretty wet. Then I turned on the infamous amateur cuckold porn of the "redhead Jewish GF" fucking a black bull (not sure if you know what I'm talking about but it's pretty famous). That was the one that did it. It worked like a charm and she was soaking wet and I was uber hard lol. She got on top of me during it and at times I could see her eyes focused on the video more than me. I think for the first time she finally grasped what I desire and how it would play out.

However, I may or may not have came pretty fast into it, lol. Frustrating but then again kind of showed her how into it I am. She was even more horny and getting more into it but took me a while to get hard again. But while trying to do so, I fingered her soaking wet pussy and started licking her. All the while her eyes were on the computer screen! She loved it and really really worked as a way to get her around on the idea. I truly never thought introducing porn like this would work so well. She is into and understands the cuckold desire a lot more now.

Next, as some people suggested, I was going to buy her a BBC dildo. I had mentioned buying her a toy several times (she doesn't have one that works) and I think I'm going to follow through. I didn't tell her it'd be a BBC dildo, though, but she was into the idea of me gifting her one. Does anyone have any tips on the BEST BBC dildos for newbies? She's never been with a black man before and is fresh into the idea but very curious about it.

Also, does anyone have any more advice? Am I moving things in the right direction?
Youre doing great. Now, get her one or two of these. I have two that I pound myself with from time to time https://www.amazon.com/Beauty-Molly-Superior-Realistic-Suction/dp/B01MFG9LU1?th=1
 
Hello. I've been a member here for quite some time now and haven't had much luck getting my partner(s) into the cuckolding lifestyle. I've had a couple GFs since I first joined here and now have another recent one that I truly love and enjoy being around. But the sex is lackluster on my end. She's definitely more conservative in public, but between the sheets is a pretty big nympho, I've found out.

I've been into the idea of interracial cuckolding for multiple years and haven't yet made it happen. Gotten close, but it didn't last. My current GF has never been with a black man before, and yes, I desperately desire to see her with one -- still. My issue is that I have a lot of trouble performing sexually. I haven't really experienced this in the past, but I cum pretty damn fast and it's frustrating for both me and her. I've slowly been trying to get her into the idea of interracial cuckolding, but it's not as easy as just straight up telling her that. So I've been very slow moving toward it.

I've drunkingly told her that I have a fantasy of a MMF three sum, to which she seemed rather intrigued. But that's about it right now and I'm not sure where to go next without weirding her out and having this blow up in my face again. Like I said, she's never fucked a black man but I know that she would enjoy it. She's the sheltered type, but has briefly mentioned about how she finds select few black men sexy.

Does anyone have any advice on how I can move this forward slowly, how I can perform better sexually and/or how to get her into this idea? It's frustrating for me. I am masculine and try to be dominant, but I have a lot of trouble bringing that side out of me -- I'm definitely more submissive, I've found out. Thanks in advance for the help.
Great that she starts young, BBC is the best and she should know it
 
Once she progresses to the bbc dildo, she will be talking dirty to you about fucking a bbc while jerking you off. It’s heaven when that happens. Even better is once she starts fucking bbc in front of you and he has her in the missionary position and her eyes are rolling into the back of her head. She will be moaning and when you ask her if she loves it, she’s emphatically cries “yes”. All the while while you beat off in the corner. And when she opens up her eyes and sees you beating your little pathetic dicklett, that’s when it’s all over. You are cuckolded and seen as lesser sexually in her eyes. It will NEVER be the ever be the same again between you two.
 
ANOTHER UPDATE: Hey all again..figured I'd provide another update on the situation, which just continues to progress!! We were together the last couple days and spoke more about this last night -- specifically about the cuckold aspect. I've found that watching porn has significantly spiced up our sex life more than anything, and we watched two separate amateur cuckold-type videos while getting intimate. It went incredible.

First one I turned on was a semi-pro clip from a porno that was pretty much a MMF three sum with a black dude and a white guy and a chick. Had it on in the background while getting into it..once that ended, I had a major boner and she was getting pretty wet. Then I turned on the infamous amateur cuckold porn of the "redhead Jewish GF" fucking a black bull (not sure if you know what I'm talking about but it's pretty famous). That was the one that did it. It worked like a charm and she was soaking wet and I was uber hard lol. She got on top of me during it and at times I could see her eyes focused on the video more than me. I think for the first time she finally grasped what I desire and how it would play out.

However, I may or may not have came pretty fast into it, lol. Frustrating but then again kind of showed her how into it I am. She was even more horny and getting more into it but took me a while to get hard again. But while trying to do so, I fingered her soaking wet pussy and started licking her. All the while her eyes were on the computer screen! She loved it and really really worked as a way to get her around on the idea. I truly never thought introducing porn like this would work so well. She is into and understands the cuckold desire a lot more now.

Next, as some people suggested, I was going to buy her a BBC dildo. I had mentioned buying her a toy several times (she doesn't have one that works) and I think I'm going to follow through. I didn't tell her it'd be a BBC dildo, though, but she was into the idea of me gifting her one. Does anyone have any tips on the BEST BBC dildos for newbies? She's never been with a black man before and is fresh into the idea but very curious about it.

Also, does anyone have any more advice? Am I moving things in the right direction?
I did believe the porn thing would work because it certainly worked for me. YES you are definitely going in the right direction. Dont know about which dildo is best but follow through and get her one and use it on her the next time you watch cuckold porn (yes do it again!) that way she will co-relate that big black cock to cuckolding and how much it turns her on. Sounds like you are well on your way to your wish. Keep us posted of course !
 
Hello. I've been a member here for quite some time now and haven't had much luck getting my partner(s) into the cuckolding lifestyle. I've had a couple GFs since I first joined here and now have another recent one that I truly love and enjoy being around. But the sex is lackluster on my end. She's definitely more conservative in public, but between the sheets is a pretty big nympho, I've found out.

I've been into the idea of interracial cuckolding for multiple years and haven't yet made it happen. Gotten close, but it didn't last. My current GF has never been with a black man before, and yes, I desperately desire to see her with one -- still. My issue is that I have a lot of trouble performing sexually. I haven't really experienced this in the past, but I cum pretty damn fast and it's frustrating for both me and her. I've slowly been trying to get her into the idea of interracial cuckolding, but it's not as easy as just straight up telling her that. So I've been very slow moving toward it.

I've drunkingly told her that I have a fantasy of a MMF three sum, to which she seemed rather intrigued. But that's about it right now and I'm not sure where to go next without weirding her out and having this blow up in my face again. Like I said, she's never fucked a black man but I know that she would enjoy it. She's the sheltered type, but has briefly mentioned about how she finds select few black men sexy.

Does anyone have any advice on how I can move this forward slowly, how I can perform better sexually and/or how to get her into this idea? It's frustrating for me. I am masculine and try to be dominant, but I have a lot of trouble bringing that side out of me -- I'm definitely more submissive, I've found out. Thanks in advance for the help.
I’m almost in the same situation lol
 
I did believe the porn thing would work because it certainly worked for me. YES you are definitely going in the right direction. Dont know about which dildo is best but follow through and get her one and use it on her the next time you watch cuckold porn (yes do it again!) that way she will co-relate that big black cock to cuckolding and how much it turns her on. Sounds like you are well on your way to your wish. Keep us posted of course !
This will help tremendously. Positive reinforcement. Have her watch the IR while you eat her out or fuck her so that she associates the images of BBC with orgasms and pleasure.
 
Well I’m in the same situation as in I’m trying to get my girl into fucking bbc and cucking me. She has fucked my friend a few times in front of me but no bbc yet. I got her a bbc dildo to practice on. I think we’ll get there. It’ll just take time.
yeah I agree if she fucked your friend you should have no problem with her doing a black guy. Has she mentioned that she is interested at all ? How did it go when she fucked your friend?
 
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