There are lots of online dating platforms.
B2w can be helpful too. Try the "
Search by location" feature and look for verified members in the result list. Your chances will be better if you have something meaningful on your profile, so
fill in your profile first! This should include at least your
location,
age, what you are searching for in an additional player, your
likes and dislikes. But don`t give any personally identifiable information.
Verification is a big plus! You need not show face pictures or tattoos or anything that could identify you.
If you are really into this lifestyle and your woman has expressed her consent, you should do everything to make the first experience a good one. In order to achieve this it is advantageous to involve
her in the selection process! Don`t select a guy who you think would best fit into
your own fantasy scenario, but a guy
she is attracted to. Also a selection process with both of you involved and having conversations about the other guy and the event to come helps bring you closer together as a couple and supports the characteristic of the lifestyle as a couple`s lifestyle.
Don`t select a guy on your own and surprise her with a "present" in a way like
"Look, i got you a bull. Now fuck him and enjoy!" This is almost
guaranteed to ruin it!
Best luck and success!