RULES FOR WHITE BOYS

[rocuck]

There are so many aspects to the interracial lifestyles that are on this site. Interracial relationships have gone from taboo to accepted to preferred. White boys play a role in all of this but most of the time the white boys are a problem or actually interfere. I thought it would be helpful to write down some rules for white boys that are reasonable and reflect reality. I would welcome any additions or criticisms of this. White boys need help and guidance and I thought this might help.

1. BE A BETA BOY. As a white boy you are naturally a beta boy. You are less masculine than black men. You are less attractive to women. You are inferior only in those cases where you try to be anything other than a beta boy. Accept your true nature. Do not interrupt or contradict black men or women. Defer to black men on a day to day basis. Offer to help get black men and white women together. Do not expect thanks or respect. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

2. BE A FRIEND. As a white boy you are not meant to be a lover for a white woman or even a partner. This is unnatural and it is especially important to remember it if you are married. You need to be a friend. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to be open and sexual. Take her shopping at the mall. While there comment on the black men looking at her. Buy clothes for her and always emphasize how sexy they look and how they will attract some stares. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to flirt with black men and make it clear that the ultimate compliment for her would be to have a black man hit on her. Remember that she may be the center of your life but you are not the center of her life. You want to be her best friend as a beta boy. She needs to feel comfortable in making a black man her lover and HER center of everything.

3. BE A SERVANT. Beta boys are hard wired to serve. This is often enjoyable as it encourages a submissive mind set that goes along with your wife or girlfriend cuckolding you. Do the housework. Tell your wife or girlfriend that this allows her to have more time to get ready for a date, talk to a black man online, or go out to a club with friends. Ask her permission to do the housework and explain that you feel guilty about it because it turns you on to think what she is doing while you do the housework. Offer to help the black man or men in her life with mundane chores. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

4. BE A CHEERLEADER. You need to constantly compliment your wife or girlfriend on how she looks and what she does. Constantly encourage her to be sexy and to flirt with black men. Mention at all times how black men are looking at her. Do not encourage any interest in white men but rather encourage any and all relationships with black men. If she starts to have sex with black men tell her how much you hold her in awe for this and how wonderful this is. Constantly tell her that her happiness is what makes you happy and her sexuality with black men is what motivates you to love her more. You should always make comments that it is not possible for a white woman to be too dirty or too sexual as long as it is with a black man. Celebrate her the kinkier she is.

5. BE SEXUALLY APPROPRIATE. You want your wife or girlfriend to be happy. This cannot happen if she is worrying about sex with you. You should abstain from sex with her. Explain that she is above you and you do not want her to diminish herself by having sex with any white boy. Oral servitude is proper but only if she is on the receiving end. Licking her ass while she watches romantic interracial porn is ideal. Encourage her use of a black dildo. It has been said many times before but she needs to associate her sexual release with someone who is better and darker than you.

6. BE A FAN. White boys need release but this should not do anything to interfere with their white women or girlfriends. Watch porn daily but only porn that features black men. Masturbate frequently with the hope that you would not be able to erect if called to do so. Reach out to other white boys to watch porn together and get off. Use this as a chance to discuss ways you can really commit to being the best beta boy possible. Try to watch porn with your wife or girlfriend. Always be positive on the women and men in these interracial scenes. Your sexual release should be separate from your wife or girlfriend unless she wants to watch you masturbate. If so always put on porn that features a woman who looks like your wife and tell your wife you were thinking of her with black men. Be a fan of interracial porn, interracial mainstream scenes on tv or movies and interracial relationships in the real word. REALLY be a fan of your wife and her men.

7. BE LESSER. One way white boys can be a positive factor is to remove themselves from competition. A small dick helps. If erections are limited or stopped this is a plus. Feminization can help in many ways. Wearing panties will be a reminder that you cannot be with a woman. Shaving body hair will do the same. Dressing can help provide a source for black men and white women to get a laugh and to disregard you. Hormones, supplements and full feminization really makes things clear. The important point is that you want your wife or girlfriend to know in no uncertain terms that you will not be a source of sexual release for her. Once again your goal is not to be her lover or her partner. You want to be her beta boy friend, servant, and cheerleader.

8. BE OBEDIENT. Being a beta white boy can lead down some unexpected roads. Your wife or girlfriend may no longer want you to see her nude body. She may want you to sleep on the couch or in the guest bedroom. She may want to take that special week of vacation and have you stay home working while she goes out of town with her black lover. She or he may tell you to drop everything and fix dinner or go to the store or anything else that helps them. Sometimes these things will be tough but remember to BE OBEDIENT. Your goals are the same as your wife or girlfriend's and also the same as the black man or men that will become the center of her life AND the center of your life. Get rid of false pride. Serve with a smile.

9. BE HONEST. At the very beginning you need to be honest with your wife or girlfriend and also honest with any and all black men. She is entitled to your thoughts. You are not entitled to hers. This is not an equal relationship. Black men are on top followed by white women followed by beta white boys. A natural progression. If she wonders about you or what you are thinking or hurting you she needs ABSOLUTE confidence that you are honest. She also needs to know that you want the needs of her and her black man or men to come first, second, and always. In fact she needs to feel comfortable that denying you or going against what you may secretly want is healthy natural and positive as long as it benefits the black men in her life or her. A truly healthy relationship involving a beta white boy has to get to this point. This is the point where he is honest about everything and it does not matter AT ALL. The happiness of your wife or girlfriend and the black man or men in her life is what matters and it is what will make you a complete beta cuckold. This is what you were born to be.

10. BE HUMBLE. There is a reason that you feel intimidated around black men. They are better than you. It is just that simple. Accept this fact and humble yourself. The same thing applies to your wife or girlfriend. She is also above you and should be treated that way. Do not have false pride or embarrassment if your wife or girlfriend go out publicly or make public displays of affection or go to family outings. Celebrate this and make it clear to all who want to know that you totally support your wife or girlfriend and have nothing but respect for her black man or men. You can be a role model for other white boys.

As mentioned I would appreciate any comments on this. This is meant to be a real roadmap for many, if not most, on this site. I hope it helps.

 

[DOMBULL1061]

LMAO! This is hilarious!???

 

[kylt]

I do my Job where I can. Rules one and seven. I am a single small penis beta

 

[MacNfries]

"strictly medicinal" mind you ...

 

[MOcuck2be]

Right....

 

[SandyPark]

There are so many aspects to the interracial lifestyles that are on this site. Interracial relationships have gone from taboo to accepted to preferred. White boys play a role in all of this but most of the time the white boys are a problem or actually interfere. I thought it would be helpful to write down some rules for white boys that are reasonable and reflect reality. I would welcome any additions or criticisms of this. White boys need help and guidance and I thought this might help.

1. BE A BETA BOY. As a white boy you are naturally a beta boy. You are less masculine than black men. You are less attractive to women. You are inferior only in those cases where you try to be anything other than a beta boy. Accept your true nature. Do not interrupt or contradict black men or women. Defer to black men on a day to day basis. Offer to help get black men and white women together. Do not expect thanks or respect. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

2. BE A FRIEND. As a white boy you are not meant to be a lover for a white woman or even a partner. This is unnatural and it is especially important to remember it if you are married. You need to be a friend. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to be open and sexual. Take her shopping at the mall. While there comment on the black men looking at her. Buy clothes for her and always emphasize how sexy they look and how they will attract some stares. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to flirt with black men and make it clear that the ultimate compliment for her would be to have a black man hit on her. Remember that she may be the center of your life but you are not the center of her life. You want to be her best friend as a beta boy. She needs to feel comfortable in making a black man her lover and HER center of everything.

3. BE A SERVANT. Beta boys are hard wired to serve. This is often enjoyable as it encourages a submissive mind set that goes along with your wife or girlfriend cuckolding you. Do the housework. Tell your wife or girlfriend that this allows her to have more time to get ready for a date, talk to a black man online, or go out to a club with friends. Ask her permission to do the housework and explain that you feel guilty about it because it turns you on to think what she is doing while you do the housework. Offer to help the black man or men in her life with mundane chores. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

4. BE A CHEERLEADER. You need to constantly compliment your wife or girlfriend on how she looks and what she does. Constantly encourage her to be sexy and to flirt with black men. Mention at all times how black men are looking at her. Do not encourage any interest in white men but rather encourage any and all relationships with black men. If she starts to have sex with black men tell her how much you hold her in awe for this and how wonderful this is. Constantly tell her that her happiness is what makes you happy and her sexuality with black men is what motivates you to love her more. You should always make comments that it is not possible for a white woman to be too dirty or too sexual as long as it is with a black man. Celebrate her the kinkier she is.

5. BE SEXUALLY APPROPRIATE. You want your wife or girlfriend to be happy. This cannot happen if she is worrying about sex with you. You should abstain from sex with her. Explain that she is above you and you do not want her to diminish herself by having sex with any white boy. Oral servitude is proper but only if she is on the receiving end. Licking her ass while she watches romantic interracial porn is ideal. Encourage her use of a black dildo. It has been said many times before but she needs to associate her sexual release with someone who is better and darker than you.

6. BE A FAN. White boys need release but this should not do anything to interfere with their white women or girlfriends. Watch porn daily but only porn that features black men. Masturbate frequently with the hope that you would not be able to erect if called to do so. Reach out to other white boys to watch porn together and get off. Use this as a chance to discuss ways you can really commit to being the best beta boy possible. Try to watch porn with your wife or girlfriend. Always be positive on the women and men in these interracial scenes. Your sexual release should be separate from your wife or girlfriend unless she wants to watch you masturbate. If so always put on porn that features a woman who looks like your wife and tell your wife you were thinking of her with black men. Be a fan of interracial porn, interracial mainstream scenes on tv or movies and interracial relationships in the real word. REALLY be a fan of your wife and her men.

7. BE LESSER. One way white boys can be a positive factor is to remove themselves from competition. A small dick helps. If erections are limited or stopped this is a plus. Feminization can help in many ways. Wearing panties will be a reminder that you cannot be with a woman. Shaving body hair will do the same. Dressing can help provide a source for black men and white women to get a laugh and to disregard you. Hormones, supplements and full feminization really makes things clear. The important point is that you want your wife or girlfriend to know in no uncertain terms that you will not be a source of sexual release for her. Once again your goal is not to be her lover or her partner. You want to be her beta boy friend, servant, and cheerleader.

8. BE OBEDIENT. Being a beta white boy can lead down some unexpected roads. Your wife or girlfriend may no longer want you to see her nude body. She may want you to sleep on the couch or in the guest bedroom. She may want to take that special week of vacation and have you stay home working while she goes out of town with her black lover. She or he may tell you to drop everything and fix dinner or go to the store or anything else that helps them. Sometimes these things will be tough but remember to BE OBEDIENT. Your goals are the same as your wife or girlfriend's and also the same as the black man or men that will become the center of her life AND the center of your life. Get rid of false pride. Serve with a smile.

9. BE HONEST. At the very beginning you need to be honest with your wife or girlfriend and also honest with any and all black men. She is entitled to your thoughts. You are not entitled to hers. This is not an equal relationship. Black men are on top followed by white women followed by beta white boys. A natural progression. If she wonders about you or what you are thinking or hurting you she needs ABSOLUTE confidence that you are honest. She also needs to know that you want the needs of her and her black man or men to come first, second, and always. In fact she needs to feel comfortable that denying you or going against what you may secretly want is healthy natural and positive as long as it benefits the black men in her life or her. A truly healthy relationship involving a beta white boy has to get to this point. This is the point where he is honest about everything and it does not matter AT ALL. The happiness of your wife or girlfriend and the black man or men in her life is what matters and it is what will make you a complete beta cuckold. This is what you were born to be.

10. BE HUMBLE. There is a reason that you feel intimidated around black men. They are better than you. It is just that simple. Accept this fact and humble yourself. The same thing applies to your wife or girlfriend. She is also above you and should be treated that way. Do not have false pride or embarrassment if your wife or girlfriend go out publicly or make public displays of affection or go to family outings. Celebrate this and make it clear to all who want to know that you totally support your wife or girlfriend and have nothing but respect for her black man or men. You can be a role model for other white boys.

As mentioned I would appreciate any comments on this. This is meant to be a real roadmap for many, if not most, on this site. I hope it helps.

Don't forget being put in chastity!

 

[rocuck]

Thank you Sandy. I agree chastity is a plus. I think it is better if the white boy is unable to get an erection. There is another thread on hormones that goes over this. But many would worry about side effects. There are natural supplements available There is also frequent masturbation to the point where a white boy cannot erect. I think feminization helps in that it eliminates the white boy as competition. I have great respect for the white boys who have adequate penis size and erect but understand that the women are "hands off" for them. This requires discipline. It would be helped if more women would become more dominant with white boys. They should feel comfortable in saying no to white boys and expecting that wish to be followed. Not some of the time but all of the time. Married or single or dating. It is the new normal. If all fails a chastity device is a right thing to do. I appreciate the support of many regarding this topic. I continue to be disappointed in the white boys that fight back and seem to want to use all of this as a means for them to have sex. It is very simple. White women and black men are the desired combination. White boys are best as support people.

 

[randomuser5099]

There is also frequent masturbation to the point where a white boy cannot erect.

Can you explain it?

 

[rocuck]

Thank you for your question. What I was referring to is a white boy masturbating, or trying to, frequently. This would be several times a day with hard pressure. This should always be done to images or stories involving black men. It also helps to see interracial images with women who look like your wife or an old girlfriend or someone you admire at work. The idea is that you physically and mentally associate your release with the release of black men and the women being exclusively with black men. Not with ideas of your own sexual interactions as a man. That makes no sense for white boys. There is a point where you get sore and where you will not erect. You may mentally be turned on but you have emasculated yourself. You will then flail at a limp penis. If one does this regularly you will not be able to perform if you find yourself with a white woman who could be your wife or someone else. It goes without saying that if you combine a limp penis and a submissive beta boy attitude with images of strong black men -that even a reluctant woman or wife will at least think about what she should be doing. Your failure is her success.
Black men should not need to masturbate if they do not want to. The partners are out there for them. The obstacles are white boys trying to act like men and white women who have been conditioned to think it is wrong to be with a black man. White boys can do their part by feminizing or at least emasculating themselves. You make yourself an impossibility as a sex partner. The reluctance of white women continues to be the main obstacle in society. This is why it is so important for white boys to help her with that first encounter. Get her to think about it by providing a contrast between yourself and the real men. Tell her how wonderful she is to be able to attract black men. The ultimate compliment for a woman. Celebrate your inability to erect or perform but somehow get her to understand it is not because she is not attractive or sexual. It is because you are a beta white boy trying to find an appropriate place in her life. Be positive about any encounters she has with black men. Sometimes a casual meeting at a store will lead somewhere. Jealousy and envy should never apply to white boys.
This is kind of an overlong answer to your question but it got me thinking. I think chastity devices have a role but I have always thought it is better for the white boy to be voluntarily accepting his status. The image of small and limp for a white boy just seems more powerful to me. What is in it for a white boy? If you are going to be a supportive beta boy you will get pleasure from the pleasure of others. You actually become a friendly servant if you want an image. This is all a process and people go through stages. The goal is for white women to never think of white boys as sex partners, for black men to not feel reluctant to approach and seduce any white woman-married or not, and for white boys to work at being the person who is behind the scenes. Once a white woman has been with a black man one time the process will usually continue. Again your failures are her successes and the succeses of the black men who are just better than you.

 

[bbcworship2013]

Aaaand, what do you hotwives have to say about this - do you agree?

 

[Subman312]

It's a bit different in our poly-type Family group. Over the past eight years of being "transformed" into a bisexual, cuckold husband, I have got very good at pleasing our Men.....we white husbands are no longer allowed sex with Women.....and many of our Masters enjoy puttting us on our knees for them on a daily basis.....I have accepted my place, and have grown to love serving our Black Masters in this capacity. Most of us husbands are now being "sissified" as well (me included), and we are beginning to enjoy our new "feminine selves". Several of our Masters (due to my eight years of experience) say that my oral skills are better than a lot of the Women in the Family, and I always try to make every blowjob I give the best blowjob they have ever had......just my two cents, take it or leave it....

 

[rocuck]

I appreciate the comments and some continued interest in this topic. I personally do not see white boys servicing black men or eating creampies or other acts as gay or bi. They are really acts of submission and acceptance. I see it as a way for a white boy to continue to elevate black men by diminishing white boys. Starting with himself. Emasculation and feminization will do the same thing. Women are more likely to be liberated when they see white boys really commit to things. The purpose, as I see it, is not to make the white boy "inferior". It is to make the white boy "appropriate". The "appropriate" white boy is less than the black man and less than the white woman. But that is ok. It is natural and this site is proof of it all. I love to see the mainstream interracial relationships that are promoting this on tv and in movies. But I really feel vindicated when I see more and more white women in the real world with black men. The use of this "fetish" by some white boys to try and "top from the bottom" and get sex from their wives or girlfriends is the real injustice. I would like to think some rules for the white boys would help. Thanks to all who more or less support this idea. I especially thank black men and white women who care enough about the white boys to try and give some guidance.

 

[Bigfunfun]

There are so many aspects to the interracial lifestyles that are on this site. Interracial relationships have gone from taboo to accepted to preferred. White boys play a role in all of this but most of the time the white boys are a problem or actually interfere. I thought it would be helpful to write down some rules for white boys that are reasonable and reflect reality. I would welcome any additions or criticisms of this. White boys need help and guidance and I thought this might help.

1. BE A BETA BOY. As a white boy you are naturally a beta boy. You are less masculine than black men. You are less attractive to women. You are inferior only in those cases where you try to be anything other than a beta boy. Accept your true nature. Do not interrupt or contradict black men or women. Defer to black men on a day to day basis. Offer to help get black men and white women together. Do not expect thanks or respect. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

2. BE A FRIEND. As a white boy you are not meant to be a lover for a white woman or even a partner. This is unnatural and it is especially important to remember it if you are married. You need to be a friend. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to be open and sexual. Take her shopping at the mall. While there comment on the black men looking at her. Buy clothes for her and always emphasize how sexy they look and how they will attract some stares. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to flirt with black men and make it clear that the ultimate compliment for her would be to have a black man hit on her. Remember that she may be the center of your life but you are not the center of her life. You want to be her best friend as a beta boy. She needs to feel comfortable in making a black man her lover and HER center of everything.

3. BE A SERVANT. Beta boys are hard wired to serve. This is often enjoyable as it encourages a submissive mind set that goes along with your wife or girlfriend cuckolding you. Do the housework. Tell your wife or girlfriend that this allows her to have more time to get ready for a date, talk to a black man online, or go out to a club with friends. Ask her permission to do the housework and explain that you feel guilty about it because it turns you on to think what she is doing while you do the housework. Offer to help the black man or men in her life with mundane chores. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

4. BE A CHEERLEADER. You need to constantly compliment your wife or girlfriend on how she looks and what she does. Constantly encourage her to be sexy and to flirt with black men. Mention at all times how black men are looking at her. Do not encourage any interest in white men but rather encourage any and all relationships with black men. If she starts to have sex with black men tell her how much you hold her in awe for this and how wonderful this is. Constantly tell her that her happiness is what makes you happy and her sexuality with black men is what motivates you to love her more. You should always make comments that it is not possible for a white woman to be too dirty or too sexual as long as it is with a black man. Celebrate her the kinkier she is.

5. BE SEXUALLY APPROPRIATE. You want your wife or girlfriend to be happy. This cannot happen if she is worrying about sex with you. You should abstain from sex with her. Explain that she is above you and you do not want her to diminish herself by having sex with any white boy. Oral servitude is proper but only if she is on the receiving end. Licking her ass while she watches romantic interracial porn is ideal. Encourage her use of a black dildo. It has been said many times before but she needs to associate her sexual release with someone who is better and darker than you.

6. BE A FAN. White boys need release but this should not do anything to interfere with their white women or girlfriends. Watch porn daily but only porn that features black men. Masturbate frequently with the hope that you would not be able to erect if called to do so. Reach out to other white boys to watch porn together and get off. Use this as a chance to discuss ways you can really commit to being the best beta boy possible. Try to watch porn with your wife or girlfriend. Always be positive on the women and men in these interracial scenes. Your sexual release should be separate from your wife or girlfriend unless she wants to watch you masturbate. If so always put on porn that features a woman who looks like your wife and tell your wife you were thinking of her with black men. Be a fan of interracial porn, interracial mainstream scenes on tv or movies and interracial relationships in the real word. REALLY be a fan of your wife and her men.

7. BE LESSER. One way white boys can be a positive factor is to remove themselves from competition. A small dick helps. If erections are limited or stopped this is a plus. Feminization can help in many ways. Wearing panties will be a reminder that you cannot be with a woman. Shaving body hair will do the same. Dressing can help provide a source for black men and white women to get a laugh and to disregard you. Hormones, supplements and full feminization really makes things clear. The important point is that you want your wife or girlfriend to know in no uncertain terms that you will not be a source of sexual release for her. Once again your goal is not to be her lover or her partner. You want to be her beta boy friend, servant, and cheerleader.

8. BE OBEDIENT. Being a beta white boy can lead down some unexpected roads. Your wife or girlfriend may no longer want you to see her nude body. She may want you to sleep on the couch or in the guest bedroom. She may want to take that special week of vacation and have you stay home working while she goes out of town with her black lover. She or he may tell you to drop everything and fix dinner or go to the store or anything else that helps them. Sometimes these things will be tough but remember to BE OBEDIENT. Your goals are the same as your wife or girlfriend's and also the same as the black man or men that will become the center of her life AND the center of your life. Get rid of false pride. Serve with a smile.

9. BE HONEST. At the very beginning you need to be honest with your wife or girlfriend and also honest with any and all black men. She is entitled to your thoughts. You are not entitled to hers. This is not an equal relationship. Black men are on top followed by white women followed by beta white boys. A natural progression. If she wonders about you or what you are thinking or hurting you she needs ABSOLUTE confidence that you are honest. She also needs to know that you want the needs of her and her black man or men to come first, second, and always. In fact she needs to feel comfortable that denying you or going against what you may secretly want is healthy natural and positive as long as it benefits the black men in her life or her. A truly healthy relationship involving a beta white boy has to get to this point. This is the point where he is honest about everything and it does not matter AT ALL. The happiness of your wife or girlfriend and the black man or men in her life is what matters and it is what will make you a complete beta cuckold. This is what you were born to be.

10. BE HUMBLE. There is a reason that you feel intimidated around black men. They are better than you. It is just that simple. Accept this fact and humble yourself. The same thing applies to your wife or girlfriend. She is also above you and should be treated that way. Do not have false pride or embarrassment if your wife or girlfriend go out publicly or make public displays of affection or go to family outings. Celebrate this and make it clear to all who want to know that you totally support your wife or girlfriend and have nothing but respect for her black man or men. You can be a role model for other white boys.

As mentioned I would appreciate any comments on this. This is meant to be a real roadmap for many, if not most, on this site. I hope it helps.

“You need to constantly compliment your wife or girlfriend on how she looks and what she does. Constantly encourage her to be sexy and to flirt with black men. Mention at all times how black men are looking at her.”
I have always done this and it’s a must as a white cuckold I believe.

 

[Bigfunfun]

There are so many aspects to the interracial lifestyles that are on this site. Interracial relationships have gone from taboo to accepted to preferred. White boys play a role in all of this but most of the time the white boys are a problem or actually interfere. I thought it would be helpful to write down some rules for white boys that are reasonable and reflect reality. I would welcome any additions or criticisms of this. White boys need help and guidance and I thought this might help.

1. BE A BETA BOY. As a white boy you are naturally a beta boy. You are less masculine than black men. You are less attractive to women. You are inferior only in those cases where you try to be anything other than a beta boy. Accept your true nature. Do not interrupt or contradict black men or women. Defer to black men on a day to day basis. Offer to help get black men and white women together. Do not expect thanks or respect. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

2. BE A FRIEND. As a white boy you are not meant to be a lover for a white woman or even a partner. This is unnatural and it is especially important to remember it if you are married. You need to be a friend. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to be open and sexual. Take her shopping at the mall. While there comment on the black men looking at her. Buy clothes for her and always emphasize how sexy they look and how they will attract some stares. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to flirt with black men and make it clear that the ultimate compliment for her would be to have a black man hit on her. Remember that she may be the center of your life but you are not the center of her life. You want to be her best friend as a beta boy. She needs to feel comfortable in making a black man her lover and HER center of everything.

3. BE A SERVANT. Beta boys are hard wired to serve. This is often enjoyable as it encourages a submissive mind set that goes along with your wife or girlfriend cuckolding you. Do the housework. Tell your wife or girlfriend that this allows her to have more time to get ready for a date, talk to a black man online, or go out to a club with friends. Ask her permission to do the housework and explain that you feel guilty about it because it turns you on to think what she is doing while you do the housework. Offer to help the black man or men in her life with mundane chores. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

4. BE A CHEERLEADER. You need to constantly compliment your wife or girlfriend on how she looks and what she does. Constantly encourage her to be sexy and to flirt with black men. Mention at all times how black men are looking at her. Do not encourage any interest in white men but rather encourage any and all relationships with black men. If she starts to have sex with black men tell her how much you hold her in awe for this and how wonderful this is. Constantly tell her that her happiness is what makes you happy and her sexuality with black men is what motivates you to love her more. You should always make comments that it is not possible for a white woman to be too dirty or too sexual as long as it is with a black man. Celebrate her the kinkier she is.

5. BE SEXUALLY APPROPRIATE. You want your wife or girlfriend to be happy. This cannot happen if she is worrying about sex with you. You should abstain from sex with her. Explain that she is above you and you do not want her to diminish herself by having sex with any white boy. Oral servitude is proper but only if she is on the receiving end. Licking her ass while she watches romantic interracial porn is ideal. Encourage her use of a black dildo. It has been said many times before but she needs to associate her sexual release with someone who is better and darker than you.

6. BE A FAN. White boys need release but this should not do anything to interfere with their white women or girlfriends. Watch porn daily but only porn that features black men. Masturbate frequently with the hope that you would not be able to erect if called to do so. Reach out to other white boys to watch porn together and get off. Use this as a chance to discuss ways you can really commit to being the best beta boy possible. Try to watch porn with your wife or girlfriend. Always be positive on the women and men in these interracial scenes. Your sexual release should be separate from your wife or girlfriend unless she wants to watch you masturbate. If so always put on porn that features a woman who looks like your wife and tell your wife you were thinking of her with black men. Be a fan of interracial porn, interracial mainstream scenes on tv or movies and interracial relationships in the real word. REALLY be a fan of your wife and her men.

7. BE LESSER. One way white boys can be a positive factor is to remove themselves from competition. A small dick helps. If erections are limited or stopped this is a plus. Feminization can help in many ways. Wearing panties will be a reminder that you cannot be with a woman. Shaving body hair will do the same. Dressing can help provide a source for black men and white women to get a laugh and to disregard you. Hormones, supplements and full feminization really makes things clear. The important point is that you want your wife or girlfriend to know in no uncertain terms that you will not be a source of sexual release for her. Once again your goal is not to be her lover or her partner. You want to be her beta boy friend, servant, and cheerleader.

8. BE OBEDIENT. Being a beta white boy can lead down some unexpected roads. Your wife or girlfriend may no longer want you to see her nude body. She may want you to sleep on the couch or in the guest bedroom. She may want to take that special week of vacation and have you stay home working while she goes out of town with her black lover. She or he may tell you to drop everything and fix dinner or go to the store or anything else that helps them. Sometimes these things will be tough but remember to BE OBEDIENT. Your goals are the same as your wife or girlfriend's and also the same as the black man or men that will become the center of her life AND the center of your life. Get rid of false pride. Serve with a smile.

9. BE HONEST. At the very beginning you need to be honest with your wife or girlfriend and also honest with any and all black men. She is entitled to your thoughts. You are not entitled to hers. This is not an equal relationship. Black men are on top followed by white women followed by beta white boys. A natural progression. If she wonders about you or what you are thinking or hurting you she needs ABSOLUTE confidence that you are honest. She also needs to know that you want the needs of her and her black man or men to come first, second, and always. In fact she needs to feel comfortable that denying you or going against what you may secretly want is healthy natural and positive as long as it benefits the black men in her life or her. A truly healthy relationship involving a beta white boy has to get to this point. This is the point where he is honest about everything and it does not matter AT ALL. The happiness of your wife or girlfriend and the black man or men in her life is what matters and it is what will make you a complete beta cuckold. This is what you were born to be.

10. BE HUMBLE. There is a reason that you feel intimidated around black men. They are better than you. It is just that simple. Accept this fact and humble yourself. The same thing applies to your wife or girlfriend. She is also above you and should be treated that way. Do not have false pride or embarrassment if your wife or girlfriend go out publicly or make public displays of affection or go to family outings. Celebrate this and make it clear to all who want to know that you totally support your wife or girlfriend and have nothing but respect for her black man or men. You can be a role model for other white boys.

As mentioned I would appreciate any comments on this. This is meant to be a real roadmap for many, if not most, on this site. I hope it helps.

“You should always make comments that it is not possible for a white woman to be too dirty or too sexual as long as it is with a black man. Celebrate her the kinkier she is.”
I always did this from the start and it gave her and the black men who have her to do anything with her and it has made her sex so amazing. If a white guy or guys did to my wife what black guys have and do I’d be pissed, but with black guys it makes me proud of her and horny as hell.

 

[Sambr]

I love it and agree, as a white boy, it's my place

 

[geekycouple30s]

There are so many aspects to the interracial lifestyles that are on this site. Interracial relationships have gone from taboo to accepted to preferred. White boys play a role in all of this but most of the time the white boys are a problem or actually interfere. I thought it would be helpful to write down some rules for white boys that are reasonable and reflect reality. I would welcome any additions or criticisms of this. White boys need help and guidance and I thought this might help.

1. BE A BETA BOY. As a white boy you are naturally a beta boy. You are less masculine than black men. You are less attractive to women. You are inferior only in those cases where you try to be anything other than a beta boy. Accept your true nature. Do not interrupt or contradict black men or women. Defer to black men on a day to day basis. Offer to help get black men and white women together. Do not expect thanks or respect. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

2. BE A FRIEND. As a white boy you are not meant to be a lover for a white woman or even a partner. This is unnatural and it is especially important to remember it if you are married. You need to be a friend. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to be open and sexual. Take her shopping at the mall. While there comment on the black men looking at her. Buy clothes for her and always emphasize how sexy they look and how they will attract some stares. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to flirt with black men and make it clear that the ultimate compliment for her would be to have a black man hit on her. Remember that she may be the center of your life but you are not the center of her life. You want to be her best friend as a beta boy. She needs to feel comfortable in making a black man her lover and HER center of everything.

3. BE A SERVANT. Beta boys are hard wired to serve. This is often enjoyable as it encourages a submissive mind set that goes along with your wife or girlfriend cuckolding you. Do the housework. Tell your wife or girlfriend that this allows her to have more time to get ready for a date, talk to a black man online, or go out to a club with friends. Ask her permission to do the housework and explain that you feel guilty about it because it turns you on to think what she is doing while you do the housework. Offer to help the black man or men in her life with mundane chores. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

4. BE A CHEERLEADER. You need to constantly compliment your wife or girlfriend on how she looks and what she does. Constantly encourage her to be sexy and to flirt with black men. Mention at all times how black men are looking at her. Do not encourage any interest in white men but rather encourage any and all relationships with black men. If she starts to have sex with black men tell her how much you hold her in awe for this and how wonderful this is. Constantly tell her that her happiness is what makes you happy and her sexuality with black men is what motivates you to love her more. You should always make comments that it is not possible for a white woman to be too dirty or too sexual as long as it is with a black man. Celebrate her the kinkier she is.

5. BE SEXUALLY APPROPRIATE. You want your wife or girlfriend to be happy. This cannot happen if she is worrying about sex with you. You should abstain from sex with her. Explain that she is above you and you do not want her to diminish herself by having sex with any white boy. Oral servitude is proper but only if she is on the receiving end. Licking her ass while she watches romantic interracial porn is ideal. Encourage her use of a black dildo. It has been said many times before but she needs to associate her sexual release with someone who is better and darker than you.

6. BE A FAN. White boys need release but this should not do anything to interfere with their white women or girlfriends. Watch porn daily but only porn that features black men. Masturbate frequently with the hope that you would not be able to erect if called to do so. Reach out to other white boys to watch porn together and get off. Use this as a chance to discuss ways you can really commit to being the best beta boy possible. Try to watch porn with your wife or girlfriend. Always be positive on the women and men in these interracial scenes. Your sexual release should be separate from your wife or girlfriend unless she wants to watch you masturbate. If so always put on porn that features a woman who looks like your wife and tell your wife you were thinking of her with black men. Be a fan of interracial porn, interracial mainstream scenes on tv or movies and interracial relationships in the real word. REALLY be a fan of your wife and her men.

7. BE LESSER. One way white boys can be a positive factor is to remove themselves from competition. A small dick helps. If erections are limited or stopped this is a plus. Feminization can help in many ways. Wearing panties will be a reminder that you cannot be with a woman. Shaving body hair will do the same. Dressing can help provide a source for black men and white women to get a laugh and to disregard you. Hormones, supplements and full feminization really makes things clear. The important point is that you want your wife or girlfriend to know in no uncertain terms that you will not be a source of sexual release for her. Once again your goal is not to be her lover or her partner. You want to be her beta boy friend, servant, and cheerleader.

8. BE OBEDIENT. Being a beta white boy can lead down some unexpected roads. Your wife or girlfriend may no longer want you to see her nude body. She may want you to sleep on the couch or in the guest bedroom. She may want to take that special week of vacation and have you stay home working while she goes out of town with her black lover. She or he may tell you to drop everything and fix dinner or go to the store or anything else that helps them. Sometimes these things will be tough but remember to BE OBEDIENT. Your goals are the same as your wife or girlfriend's and also the same as the black man or men that will become the center of her life AND the center of your life. Get rid of false pride. Serve with a smile.

9. BE HONEST. At the very beginning you need to be honest with your wife or girlfriend and also honest with any and all black men. She is entitled to your thoughts. You are not entitled to hers. This is not an equal relationship. Black men are on top followed by white women followed by beta white boys. A natural progression. If she wonders about you or what you are thinking or hurting you she needs ABSOLUTE confidence that you are honest. She also needs to know that you want the needs of her and her black man or men to come first, second, and always. In fact she needs to feel comfortable that denying you or going against what you may secretly want is healthy natural and positive as long as it benefits the black men in her life or her. A truly healthy relationship involving a beta white boy has to get to this point. This is the point where he is honest about everything and it does not matter AT ALL. The happiness of your wife or girlfriend and the black man or men in her life is what matters and it is what will make you a complete beta cuckold. This is what you were born to be.

10. BE HUMBLE. There is a reason that you feel intimidated around black men. They are better than you. It is just that simple. Accept this fact and humble yourself. The same thing applies to your wife or girlfriend. She is also above you and should be treated that way. Do not have false pride or embarrassment if your wife or girlfriend go out publicly or make public displays of affection or go to family outings. Celebrate this and make it clear to all who want to know that you totally support your wife or girlfriend and have nothing but respect for her black man or men. You can be a role model for other white boys.

As mentioned I would appreciate any comments on this. This is meant to be a real roadmap for many, if not most, on this site. I hope it helps.

You watch and read way too much porn. Thanks for the laugh this morning. ?

 

[Glitzpit]

I appreciate the comments and some continued interest in this topic. I personally do not see white boys servicing black men or eating creampies or other acts as gay or bi. They are really acts of submission and acceptance. I see it as a way for a white boy to continue to elevate black men by diminishing white boys. Starting with himself. Emasculation and feminization will do the same thing. Women are more likely to be liberated when they see white boys really commit to things. The purpose, as I see it, is not to make the white boy "inferior". It is to make the white boy "appropriate". The "appropriate" white boy is less than the black man and less than the white woman. But that is ok. It is natural and this site is proof of it all. I love to see the mainstream interracial relationships that are promoting this on tv and in movies. But I really feel vindicated when I see more and more white women in the real world with black men. The use of this "fetish" by some white boys to try and "top from the bottom" and get sex from their wives or girlfriends is the real injustice. I would like to think some rules for the white boys would help. Thanks to all who more or less support this idea. I especially thank black men and white women who care enough about the white boys to try and give some guidance.

I agree white bois aren't meant to touch Black Gods, only serve. We are only meant to be subservient to the Black man and White women relationship. We are meant to be nothing more than house maids and a wallet for white women to allow them maximum opportunities to fuck superior black men. Black semen in a white vagina is one of the most beautiful things on this planet, if not the most beautiful. The goal of the white boi is to make sure that happens as much as possible, it's our nature. In the natural world it's obvious black men would be reproducing with every white women while white bois would become genetic dead ends and slaves. The natural order is happening now, I'm pussy free and addicted to IR porn, this is natural, watching REAL men fuck women is natural.

 

[BBCsuboi]

There are so many aspects to the interracial lifestyles that are on this site. Interracial relationships have gone from taboo to accepted to preferred. White boys play a role in all of this but most of the time the white boys are a problem or actually interfere. I thought it would be helpful to write down some rules for white boys that are reasonable and reflect reality. I would welcome any additions or criticisms of this. White boys need help and guidance and I thought this might help.

1. BE A BETA BOY. As a white boy you are naturally a beta boy. You are less masculine than black men. You are less attractive to women. You are inferior only in those cases where you try to be anything other than a beta boy. Accept your true nature. Do not interrupt or contradict black men or women. Defer to black men on a day to day basis. Offer to help get black men and white women together. Do not expect thanks or respect. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

2. BE A FRIEND. As a white boy you are not meant to be a lover for a white woman or even a partner. This is unnatural and it is especially important to remember it if you are married. You need to be a friend. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to be open and sexual. Take her shopping at the mall. While there comment on the black men looking at her. Buy clothes for her and always emphasize how sexy they look and how they will attract some stares. Encourage your wife or girlfriend to flirt with black men and make it clear that the ultimate compliment for her would be to have a black man hit on her. Remember that she may be the center of your life but you are not the center of her life. You want to be her best friend as a beta boy. She needs to feel comfortable in making a black man her lover and HER center of everything.

3. BE A SERVANT. Beta boys are hard wired to serve. This is often enjoyable as it encourages a submissive mind set that goes along with your wife or girlfriend cuckolding you. Do the housework. Tell your wife or girlfriend that this allows her to have more time to get ready for a date, talk to a black man online, or go out to a club with friends. Ask her permission to do the housework and explain that you feel guilty about it because it turns you on to think what she is doing while you do the housework. Offer to help the black man or men in her life with mundane chores. Service is your reward. The happiness of others is what makes a beta happy.

4. BE A CHEERLEADER. You need to constantly compliment your wife or girlfriend on how she looks and what she does. Constantly encourage her to be sexy and to flirt with black men. Mention at all times how black men are looking at her. Do not encourage any interest in white men but rather encourage any and all relationships with black men. If she starts to have sex with black men tell her how much you hold her in awe for this and how wonderful this is. Constantly tell her that her happiness is what makes you happy and her sexuality with black men is what motivates you to love her more. You should always make comments that it is not possible for a white woman to be too dirty or too sexual as long as it is with a black man. Celebrate her the kinkier she is.

5. BE SEXUALLY APPROPRIATE. You want your wife or girlfriend to be happy. This cannot happen if she is worrying about sex with you. You should abstain from sex with her. Explain that she is above you and you do not want her to diminish herself by having sex with any white boy. Oral servitude is proper but only if she is on the receiving end. Licking her ass while she watches romantic interracial porn is ideal. Encourage her use of a black dildo. It has been said many times before but she needs to associate her sexual release with someone who is better and darker than you.

6. BE A FAN. White boys need release but this should not do anything to interfere with their white women or girlfriends. Watch porn daily but only porn that features black men. Masturbate frequently with the hope that you would not be able to erect if called to do so. Reach out to other white boys to watch porn together and get off. Use this as a chance to discuss ways you can really commit to being the best beta boy possible. Try to watch porn with your wife or girlfriend. Always be positive on the women and men in these interracial scenes. Your sexual release should be separate from your wife or girlfriend unless she wants to watch you masturbate. If so always put on porn that features a woman who looks like your wife and tell your wife you were thinking of her with black men. Be a fan of interracial porn, interracial mainstream scenes on tv or movies and interracial relationships in the real word. REALLY be a fan of your wife and her men.

7. BE LESSER. One way white boys can be a positive factor is to remove themselves from competition. A small dick helps. If erections are limited or stopped this is a plus. Feminization can help in many ways. Wearing panties will be a reminder that you cannot be with a woman. Shaving body hair will do the same. Dressing can help provide a source for black men and white women to get a laugh and to disregard you. Hormones, supplements and full feminization really makes things clear. The important point is that you want your wife or girlfriend to know in no uncertain terms that you will not be a source of sexual release for her. Once again your goal is not to be her lover or her partner. You want to be her beta boy friend, servant, and cheerleader.

8. BE OBEDIENT. Being a beta white boy can lead down some unexpected roads. Your wife or girlfriend may no longer want you to see her nude body. She may want you to sleep on the couch or in the guest bedroom. She may want to take that special week of vacation and have you stay home working while she goes out of town with her black lover. She or he may tell you to drop everything and fix dinner or go to the store or anything else that helps them. Sometimes these things will be tough but remember to BE OBEDIENT. Your goals are the same as your wife or girlfriend's and also the same as the black man or men that will become the center of her life AND the center of your life. Get rid of false pride. Serve with a smile.

9. BE HONEST. At the very beginning you need to be honest with your wife or girlfriend and also honest with any and all black men. She is entitled to your thoughts. You are not entitled to hers. This is not an equal relationship. Black men are on top followed by white women followed by beta white boys. A natural progression. If she wonders about you or what you are thinking or hurting you she needs ABSOLUTE confidence that you are honest. She also needs to know that you want the needs of her and her black man or men to come first, second, and always. In fact she needs to feel comfortable that denying you or going against what you may secretly want is healthy natural and positive as long as it benefits the black men in her life or her. A truly healthy relationship involving a beta white boy has to get to this point. This is the point where he is honest about everything and it does not matter AT ALL. The happiness of your wife or girlfriend and the black man or men in her life is what matters and it is what will make you a complete beta cuckold. This is what you were born to be.

10. BE HUMBLE. There is a reason that you feel intimidated around black men. They are better than you. It is just that simple. Accept this fact and humble yourself. The same thing applies to your wife or girlfriend. She is also above you and should be treated that way. Do not have false pride or embarrassment if your wife or girlfriend go out publicly or make public displays of affection or go to family outings. Celebrate this and make it clear to all who want to know that you totally support your wife or girlfriend and have nothing but respect for her black man or men. You can be a role model for other white boys.

As mentioned I would appreciate any comments on this. This is meant to be a real roadmap for many, if not most, on this site. I hope it helps.

Wow this is a set of rules to live by !!!!