What was it that held you back from taking your first bbc? What was it that made you finally decide to try it? We’re you already into the lifestyle at all prior? What did you like about it and were there any regrets? Please help.. working on getting my wife to try but she’s not like most so I can’t follow the standard steps(doesn’t use dildos, doesn’t (or at least says she doesn’t) watch or like any porn) …