I asked this on another thread, but thought I'd make this the subject of its own thread. For the black gentlemen...when you're out in public (i.e. - bar, beach, mall, etc.), and you see an attractive woman who has a 'Queen of Spades Tattoo' (i.e. - like on her ankle), do make more of an effort to try and start up a conversation with her? Would it make any difference if she has a wedding ring on? Would it make any difference if her husband was with her? Once you make initial contact with the wife, and you've gotten a favorable response (i.e. - a smile; eye contact), does the fact that she has the tattoo, make you more assertive? I ask as I've gotten a temporary tattoo, but haven't shown my wife. I was hoping to get some feedback on guys' reactions, before doing so. Thanks!