Thanks for starting this discussion / question.
Cuckold husband here.
I hear a lot of people raising the issue of men / cuckold husbands having unverified profiles on here and potentially being fakes / catfishes. Absolutely valid, not trying to diminish that risk.
However, my wife and I have a situation which perhaps other cuckold husbands are in the same boat on, and would love to share my take on.
For what it's worth on the internet, we are a cuckold couple, been in the lifestyle for a few years now, and every time except one play date we met the Bull online (Fetlife, Doublelist, Kik group) before meeting in person (the outlier was her play date with her ex).
How my wife and I like to operate is I will engage Bulls online, have a quick chat, share her pictures, and then if I think we're a good match and if no red flags appear, I'll pass along his pictures to her, and if she is attracted, she will allow me to send the Bull her phone number, where they can text / call / video chat and setup a date and time for a play date.
Our profile does read couple, but 98% of the time I am behind the keyboard. She is sadly not comfortable with verifying in a public forum, but has verified in Kik groups / with Kik contacts.
I guess what I'm trying to say, could there be a way for everyone to verify as a real person in a more private manner? I think that would help her with her comfort level. And, yes, I agree, huge red flags for people that can't verify - but that's our situation.