Please, Advice guidance help needed....

Here is a suggestion and an offer to help. We are an odd couple, but not threatening. I'm old as dirt and I appear harmless. Oxana is young and effervescent. We could meet for lunch one day and you could introduce us as... an old friend... new friends. (we could strategize before). Both of us prefer to be honest, but that could spell disaster for you. Oxana is charming. Despite her limited English vocabulary and accent, she could recruit your wife to go shopping with her. (There is a very inexpensive Victoria's Secrets type shop in NYC, in Chinatown Mott St & Canal area). She could open up about her experiences (the tamer ones). We could invite you to one of our parties as observers. She could ask your wife for 'moral support' or immoral support. Just a thought. Frank 862.244.5252 we are in NJ
 
Frank and Oxana said:
Here is a suggestion and an offer to help. We are an odd couple, but not threatening. I'm old as dirt and I appear harmless. Oxana is young and effervescent. We could meet for lunch one day and you could introduce us as... an old friend... new friends. (we could strategize before). Both of us prefer to be honest, but that could spell disaster for you. Oxana is charming. Despite her limited English vocabulary and accent, she could recruit your wife to go shopping with her. (There is a very inexpensive Victoria's Secrets type shop in NYC, in Chinatown Mott St & Canal area). She could open up about her experiences (the tamer ones). We could invite you to one of our parties as observers. She could ask your wife for 'moral support' or immoral support. Just a thought. Frank 862.244.5252 we are in NJ
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Really like your idea and sure we can figure out the best angle to get her intoduced in public with you guys. Please message me directly so we can talk more directly
 
mw29 said:
white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us.. I have more pictures of my white wife..

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*yawn*

Talk to your wife about it. See you in month, when you post about it again without having talked to your wife about it.

Again, for the record, I'm rooting for you, but it doesn't work the way you seem to imagine it working.
 
jrdestiny54 said:
Unaware wife is a diffixult place to start. Springing something like this on her could backfire. It took quite a while for my wife to be willing to try. Just keep talking to her. Buy some black didlos. Take pictuee of her using them and tell jer how hot she looks. It all adds up.
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Great thoughts we do have a black dildo
 
Here are things a REAL Bull can do for your wife
1. He will help your wife discover her deep seeded desires
2. He will not "compete" with the bf/husband for her love
3. He will focus on her needs
4. He will not "rush" sex
5. He will discuss and negotiate limits and boundaries before having sex (consent and negotiation is a REQUIREMENT for healthy sex)
6. He will make your woman "anticipate" being fucked good before she feels him penetrate her
The mental game of a bull is MORE important than the sexual game. Any guy with a big cock can fuck for 30-60 minutes. But "vanilla" guys pretending to be bulls, cannot mindfuck your woman.
 
WetNwild57 said:
i dont know about other white wives but me I do not like porn either But i do love my husband more than anything in this world and all it took was him to ask me to do it was i nervous absolutely but 1st time was with a firend of hubbys and that helped a lot he was slow and helped me ease into it Good luck and enjoy its a lot of fun if there is no jealously involved
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perfect! Much like my wife and I and how we got into this lifestyle. We have absolutely a deep love for one another, childhood sweethearts, have built a great life together. She knew when I really brought this to a head and was serious, she wanted to do it for me to make me happy. She has been surprised how happy it makes her too, although she knew she would enjoy it, she just didn’t know she would enjoy it as much as she does and it would be life altering sex.

it is a tremendous amount of fun, high energy and I’ve never been made to feel jealous by my wife or threatened in our relationship.
 
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