I believe there are several formed groups, at least there were. You will have to travel in most cases. I gather by what you say about finding guys you have experienced that frustration. Only those who are for real know about that. Setting up a gang bang is not as easy as some boast, bull ******* artist i think. Being out of the lifestyle for years i can't point you to a contact. Wish i could. The swingers adds is where i had the best results but at that time first contact was by mail. I think that was better because not too many set up phony addresses to play word games. Even then there were plenty of talkers mixed in with the real people. Tell your lady dealing with the frustration is not a option she can avoid. If you find a place to run a add you might try black bachelor or occasion parties in Vegas. I did a lot of them there with groups from all over the country and a few from out of the country. I did black, white, mixed a rainbow of men. Of course you have to take what you get . They won't all be hung or handsome.