When I first started swinging with my wife in our early 50s, my ability to only get it up twice in an evening made me much more accepting of the fact that she wanted more and that there were other cock(s) willing to fill in. That turned into me loving to watch her get fucked by other men, etc.Older men with ED are most willing to have you fuck their wives, while they watch. To tell the truth, older women are juicier and fuck so much better.