You know I get a totally different perspective from a BBC. I feel that I would control them rather than the other way around. I would use them for my sexual pleasure and then tell them goodbye. So I guess with some of us "white wives" we aren't your typical submissive airheads, but yet someone who has much more intelligence that we are given credit for. I know this because its my mental makeup. Its something i have been trying to get my husband to understand for the past year. Before I was married all my sexual encounters, no matter how mind blowing ( for the both of us might I add ), I was always the one who told them bye bye, see you later. My husband never saw that side of me because I fell in love with him and things were totally different. Still are today. I could sleep with another guy, with my husbands approval and no matter how much I cum, in the end I would be like. Thanks I enjoyed it but bye bye. Thats just me. So hope you guys understand that all women aren't like the norm expected here. Mu husband says I should have been a man lol because of my attitudes towards sex I guess.