White boys jerking off to what they will never ever get into again...knowing Black Cock rules white pussy!
Here's the other bit of information I try not to make every single thread about: there are MANY white men whose wives continue to desire them, even after sex with "superior" black men.
I don't get to fuck my wife whenever I want, but that's mostly because fucking her whenever I want would require that she never do anything but have sex with me every minute I'm awake. But even after fucking black men with huge cocks and chiseled physiques, who can fuck her for literally hours and leave her a sputtering, sweaty, panting heap of nerves on our soaked bed, she has no desire to cut me off from sex with her completely. She didn't arrive at this conclusion that she should adopt some grandiose plan to feminize me, or replace me as the man in her life and the partner she married, like so many threads here say she "must." After several years of indulging in extremely enjoyable sex with anyone she chooses, and maintaining total control of my orgasms, none of the "future for all whitebois," or "new world order," stuff has turned out to have any merit.
Moreover, being able to maintain her control in our relationship while also being submissive to others, and seeing how many men who make her drool also want to fuck her so badly, she's got a far stronger libido and far lower inhibitions. I get far MORE sexual attention from her this way, not less. It's usually not traditional, penetrative sex (though it is when that's what she wants, and that's her right whether online "wannabes" think we're breaking some rule or not), but usually it's some form of teasing, keeping me in a constantly worked up state of desire for her, so that making her happy is on my mind every second, instead of my own gratification. One would think the fact that we can both be happier and stronger together would be GOOD news to people who wish they had a cuckold relationship.
I thought most cucks were into ideas like tease and denial. Does it stop being hot when there's teasing to go along with all the denial you prescribe? For me, it very quickly stops being hot when it's all denial and no tease. All take and no give. We're playing with power inversions and traditional role reversals and challenging assumed norms like male dominance and white, straight, male privilege, but we're also a couple who's very much in love and taking this journey very much together for what it offers to both of us. Relationships stop being realistic when they become 100% about one person.
I like all the different perspectives here. I don't like sounding like the couples who brag about being stags and vixens who "aren't into that cuckold bullshit," because they are calling the way my wife and I choose to make each other happy "bullshit," and assume they're doing it better than we are or have stronger relationships than the one we have. So I'm trying very hard not to preach or act like my own path is the one way to do it or anyone else's approach is invalid. But I can't lie, it's absolutely baffling to me that single "cucks" want other peoples' relationships to be about making one person asexual, and supremely ironic that so many of them jerk off while proclaiming that white men don't deserve sex. If I supposedly "need" to accept what they've all decided is "my place as an inferior whiteboi" and it's "essential" that my wife is never supposed to be allowed to have and enjoy sex with her own husband ever again, in her own marriage in which SHE is the boss, why don't all the sad little wankers out there have to stop watching porn and wanking?
Embracing some scripted "natural order" of things takes power away from dominant women, and removes any of the variety, spontaneity and unpredictability that makes a female led relationship exciting. So I don't feel TOO bad if someone decides I'm being too hard on men who can't please a partner, but think that men with happy partners should live by stricter rules than they do themselves. As someone who realizes how very fortunate he's been, I don't like flaunting what I have in front of those who don't. But as someone in a healthy, happy cuckold relationship, it's nearly impossible not to call bullshit on people who aren't in one, and still blast forums with their nihilistic vision of what a cuckold's life should or shouldn't look like. So "to each his own" and all that, but when people say things like, "we all must give ourselves orgasms to show that white men don't deserve sexual enjoyment from their marriages," or use being white as justification for an inability to make a woman happy and proclaim their own reality as some universal truth, like "this is all any white man should aspire to," my immediate response is, "you're wrong. I'm one counterexample right here."
