Hi,
By way of Introduction, I’m a mid-40s Middle Class American married woman who considers myself average looking; (5’4” 130 pounds, brown hair and eyes). Our ‘adventure’ began when I allowed a Black local to mount me while we were on vacation in the Bahamas a few years ago. It wasn’t the best sex I had ever had, but I will say that it was probably the most intense!
After that single event, my husband and I kind of put it on the back burner, thinking it was simply a vacation fling – but you know, I couldn’t get it out of my mind! I found myself thinking about it in the most inappropriate places (company meetings, church, dinner with in-laws).
Frustrated, one day about six months after the trip I just screwed up the courage and told my husband about my ‘obsession’. Lots of discussions followed until we both decided that having a ‘playmate’ periodically would be the best way to scratch the itch.
I have had a few playmates since then. Low key, about once a month, nothing crazy. I still have a wonderful relationship with my husband and we have sex all the time. He always watches as I feel safer when he does and there aren’t any secrets. Also, there is never a hint of humiliation stemming from this activity.
Looking forward to interacting with this community. If you have reasonable questions, please feel free to ask. But please don’t ask for pictures – high visibility job that would result in termination if my interests became known.
Take care
Donna
By way of Introduction, I’m a mid-40s Middle Class American married woman who considers myself average looking; (5’4” 130 pounds, brown hair and eyes). Our ‘adventure’ began when I allowed a Black local to mount me while we were on vacation in the Bahamas a few years ago. It wasn’t the best sex I had ever had, but I will say that it was probably the most intense!
After that single event, my husband and I kind of put it on the back burner, thinking it was simply a vacation fling – but you know, I couldn’t get it out of my mind! I found myself thinking about it in the most inappropriate places (company meetings, church, dinner with in-laws).
Frustrated, one day about six months after the trip I just screwed up the courage and told my husband about my ‘obsession’. Lots of discussions followed until we both decided that having a ‘playmate’ periodically would be the best way to scratch the itch.
I have had a few playmates since then. Low key, about once a month, nothing crazy. I still have a wonderful relationship with my husband and we have sex all the time. He always watches as I feel safer when he does and there aren’t any secrets. Also, there is never a hint of humiliation stemming from this activity.
Looking forward to interacting with this community. If you have reasonable questions, please feel free to ask. But please don’t ask for pictures – high visibility job that would result in termination if my interests became known.
Take care
Donna
