Need help convincing wife

White women don’t need convincing about our desire for black men but we need help regaining our allure
Yes my wife is very high maintenance, with regard to Hair, manicures, pedicures, beauty treatments etc So on the same page with the allure part!
 
hi as I stated I am new to this and trying to convince my girl to go black I’m in need of a little help or ways to convince her as she is hesitant check out my other post for pics
You gotta go on her phone and open the browser to interracial porn and leave it up so next time she goes on her browser it’s the first thing to pop up. Don’t say anything but that night eat her pussy and get her going then tell her your gunna play some porn and ask her what she wants to watch. You’ll have your answer
 
hi as I stated I am new to this and trying to convince my girl to go black I’m in need of a little help or ways to convince her as she is hesitant check out my other post for pics
Ok dm me i will help u and go see my thread or My bio and show that to ur wife and she will be convince 😏
 
You don’t need help convincing her of wanting a black man, she already does. You need to start convincing her she is desirable.

Interesting that you say this. We were in couples counseling and keep in mind that we are also contemplating sex therapy. She’s telling our therapist how she just feels uncomfortable about my fantasy and always feels like she is letting me down. She isn’t comfortable with the sex talk or role play. I told the therapist that she is uncomfortable with ALL sex talk, ALL role play….. all things sexual not just my fantasy which my wife didn’t deny. The therapist at one point said, “You know after going to a sex therapist you might find that she’s over here and you’re over there, and she’s still not able to satisfy you.” I told her I realize that but as long as she uncovers and is comfortable with her true sexual self (because she clearly is not comfortable with any part of her sexuality right now) that would still be a huge gift and progress to then determine what we do next. I also said that it would be really sad because there have been a handful of times where she got past her uncomfortableness and we were absolutely on the same page and had an amazing time, so I know she’s capable at some level. Then I recounted a story about a staycation we were on where we were very much enjoying my fantasy related sex talk, role playing and toys. She was a very turned on and in-to-it partner. “Then I said to her, ‘God I wish when I went to go get drinks and you were alone in the jacuzzi that a good looking black guy hit on you and was totally flirting with you,’ then she says, ‘No black guy would hit on me, black guys don’t find me attractive.’”

Right after I shared this story, our therapist asked my wife, “Is part of your reluctance that you don’t feel attractive, and don’t feel good about your body.” And after nervously stammering for a bit, she said, “Yeah, definitely some of it.” Whoa!
 
True. But paying for impromptu beauty items like getting her nails done, gym appointments and clothes shopping is going to do WAY more to build her confidence than a pep talk.

Especially if she has given you children, you need to help restore her body image
Really true, the first concerns from my wife was: I’m not confortable been naked in front of stranger, it’s dirty.
My her feel sexy and tell her it’s safe as what happen will be under protections.
 
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