My wife did it

[LawlessD]

Found out that my wife slept with another man almost 2 years ago and i found out last month. Feels weird knowing it happened and she never said anything

 

[Silky_n_myzzy]

I know you say it feels weird but are you excited or upset?

 

[LawlessD]

A little bit of both I wish she was honest and told me about it which upsets me but knowing she did it with someone else is kinda exciting

 

[Silky_n_myzzy]

Mixed emotions are all part of it. How did you find out? Did she confess or was it some other way?

 

[LawlessD]

She told me one night after I told her that i flirted with a old co-worker

 

[lee1972]

this was not playing .. this was not something you did together .. she cheated .. dump her ass on the the side of the road !!!!

 

[forher789]

Now is your chance to tell her it turns you on......go for it!

 

[Silky_n_myzzy]

That doesn't sound good. Flirting is one thing but cheating well that's something totally different and not something I'm sure i could cope with. Whatever path a couple take it should be mutually agreed beforehand in my opinion. Whatever the reason she had for doing it, she should have tried talking to you about it if it hadn't been discussed before. Waiting two years to come clean and only after you had admitted to flirting, which seems to me the perfect time to tell you as she can throw back at you aren't entirely innocent, isn't a good starting point for this lifestyle. Honesty and trust should come first.