I'm starting to get similarly frustrated. I'm only playing now on special nights and trying to plan our next meet. I've been trying to find a UK black guy with a large BBC, who's happy with bareback, hubby watching and taking pics.
I'm on here, and we're on other meeting sites. The last few guys who have come close have turned out to be fake. Even up to yesterday there was supposedly a 'very well endowed' guy with 'genuine' meets etc, pictures etc. I'd chatted with him online and talking about dates etc. I went on last night, surprise, surprise, he's deleted his account.
I get lots of white guys, Asian/middle eastern guys wanting to meet up, but finding genuine black guys with BBC who want to meet up is becoming quite hard.
I'm beginning to think that they don't need to as they're probably getting enough sex without looking on line!