Long term intimacy with hubby

[jacksmoov]

Question for the wives and enlightened hubbies please,
When it comes to how you feel long term for your husband. I just want to know if it is possible, as a wife, to liberate yourself from traditional thought? Watch your man suck a cock for his first time, feel a new lover for the first time, a much better and bigger lover, and not eventually lose respect for your husband?

I ask because my wife is my soul mate and partner and now my fantasies have started to cause vividly bad dreams for her. She is obviously open and thinking about it but I am quite concerned for the long term outcome of such endeavors. She knows all about my bi curious side but the fact is I LOVE her more than anything and I especially lover her pussy and would never be able to give it up without being extremely upset as a person. I will never do it willingly... and ultimately if this kink means a substantial loss in intimacy I’ll try my best to stop things now.

Thanks ?

 

[jacksmoov]

 

[sheetmusic]

We have been into interracial cuckolding for 10 years and we are closer than ever. We still kiss, hug, cuddle, and say sweet things to each other. Intercourse is not as frequent but that's probably normal in a marriage. I provide her with a lot of oral sex. Just this morning, I was awakened by her sitting on my face. I believe cuckolding can enhance the marriage because the wife gets to have it all and the husband is happy to give. As for the bi activity, there's a good possibility your wife is NOT going to enjoy seeing you suck cock. Let her get addicted to Black cock first and then test the waters with that one.

 

[jacksmoov]

Awesome thank you for that.. I appreciate the advice and I am trying to be cool about everything. I know honesty goes a long way so I’m going to just keep the dialogue open

 

[sheetmusic]

This is just a suggestion and maybe you've already tried this, but if I were trying to gently steer my wife in that direction for the first time, I would do the following:

- Go the extra mile in taking care of her -- Serve her favorite ******* and rub her feet. Get her bath/shower ready. Clean her kitchen or do her laundry. Make her feel special and pampered.

- Find the best quality IR porn -- something a woman would like. Bring her a glass of wine and go down on her while she's watching.

- Surprise her with a BBC dildo/vibrator. Work that into your lovemaking.

- Be patient and never pressure her.

 

[Anthony0542]

We have been into interracial cuckolding for 10 years and we are closer than ever. We still kiss, hug, cuddle, and say sweet things to each other. Intercourse is not as frequent but that's probably normal in a marriage. I provide her with a lot of oral sex. Just this morning, I was awakened by her sitting on my face. I believe cuckolding can enhance the marriage because the wife gets to have it all and the husband is happy to give. As for the bi activity, there's a good possibility your wife is NOT going to enjoy seeing you suck cock. Let her get addicted to Black cock first and then test the waters with that one.

sheet, good post. I’m so glad you and your wife still share intimacy each other. Let me ask you, how often does your wife fuck her bull a month?
Tell you wife - “I’m so glad your wife gives your due respect”

 

[sheetmusic]

sheet, good post. I’m so glad you and your wife still share intimacy each other. Let me ask you, how often does your wife fuck her bull a month?
Tell you wife - “I’m so glad your wife gives your due respect”

Over the last 10 years, the frequency has been pretty random. Recently, however, we have entered into a "Black-owned" relationship with a dominant Bull. He has been fucking her twice a week.

 

[MacNfries]

ultimately if this kink means a substantial loss in intimacy I’ll try my best to stop things now.

Its hard to comment when one doesn't know which part of the "couple" they are talking with. I assume you are the "male" partner in the relationship, but parts of your post elude to you being the wife.
For one, sex shouldn't be made or allowed to become the "center of the universe" in your marriage, jacksmoov. As important as sex is, couples should be able to recognize & enjoy many forms of intimacy, other than sex, which is simply one expression of intimacy. If the intent, ultimately, is to share your wife with other men who you feel can provide her enhanced sexual pleasures, that's great. The two of you set your parameters to doing it, develop a "safe word" which only the two of you know and can be said by either to quickly wrap up an experience.
If, on the other hand, the whole purpose of interracial cuckolding is to all you (as the male) to become intimate with some black male cock, you introduce a situation that should also involve your 3rd party, black male ... maybe HE doesn't want another male sucking his cock, etc. Is it going to damage your wife's perception of YOU.
Over the years, at this site, I've realized that approximately half or more of the white males who desire this experience for their wives, really use it to primarily satisfy their own bisexual curiosities. Thus, as far as the wife & bull are concerned, the white males are in it for "themselves", simply using their wives as bait.
There's always the risk of losing your "love of your life" "soulmate" when a second male, or even female, become sexually involved with your woman; its simply the risk you take.
It would help if you'd express your specific desire & ideas as to how you would WANT this to work, then speak directly with your wife about it. Hear her side ... all involved should have a voice, simple as that.

 

[jacksmoov]

Thank you guys I appreciate the advice. It’s true I tend to centralize sex far too much. Hearing perspectives from the real deal rather than fantasists is certainly thought provoking and helpful...

Everything in life is or should be a balancing act, everything in moderation should be what we aim for. I truly believe my relationship could evolve in a satisfying way for me (male) to explore my bi side and her to actually enjoy sex that she isn’t “doing just for me” as she says

I suppose I need a broader view of intimacy and realize when we cuddle on the couch or kiss or shower together, it’s all intimacy one should be grateful for