Is it just me that would want cuckolding all about her.

[StanleyCush1]

I say would be because I have found my submissive self long after 2 divorces.
I know it is almost impossible for all husbands to feel the same way about cuckolding. We are all different and see true love for a woman through different eyes. As I search out and view porn, I am very disappointed that I can't find more of what cuckolding means to me. First off some black men are wonderful in so many ways. Some are not attractive but often have a big cock, others are all about themselves and the fake personas that they are Thug, tough, stylish, superior and part of a new world order.

I feel so many husbands, wives and black men go into cuckolding for the wrong reasons. Being of a cuckold nature myself I see a great deal of selfishness, mostly by the husbands and sometimes black men. The wives desires are complicated from the start. I find that if a man wants his wife to have sex with another man just so he can get off seeing her get fucked, the whole adventure starts out as selfish and even more so as the need to satisfy his sexual fantasy increases. Many men use their wonderful wives as entertainment for themselves.

The way I feel about cuckolding is how can I back off and give the wife complete sexual freedom because I love her unconditionally and her joy and satisfaction would be my reward by itself. For me that reward would be allowing her to have sex with another man or men as she desirers. I don't enjoy watching a video as much if the husband is even in the room distracting the wife and lover from letting nature take its course. What if they fall in love? What if she wants his baby and needs to be exclusive to her lover. Is any of this a risk a husband who loves his wife with all his heart would submit to? How many men who talk their wives in having sex with other men are willing to lose her either by complete sexual denial of any contact with her. Or she falls in love with another and is no longer happy with her husband and leaves. There is nothing more beautiful than a white wife and her black boyfriend making love without any restrictions at all, when they give each other their everything.

 

[StanleyCush1]

Guess so!

 

[victorsev]

These are my thoughts about the above posts
Cuckold Conundrums

Are these cuckold conundrums or just sexual semantics?
Let me elaborate.

My definition:

• “A cuckold is a man who willingly encourages his wife to sleep with other people because it will bring her sexual satisfaction, brings him pleasure knowing that her desires are being fulfilled”

Cuckolding has come to the fore in the 21st century overshadowing the free love movement of the 60’s and the threesomes of the 70’s and swinging of the 90’s

Today cuckolding has become a powerful sexual fantasy for some men, who get aroused by the idea of their romantic partner engaging in sexual activity with someone else. Women also share this fantasy, but less so than men. This cuckold fantasy has been around as long as marriage and sexuality but we’re hearing more and more about it these days, and more people are rejecting the social stigma against this fantasy. Men are more likely to fantasize about cuckolding, and they do it more often but there are a number of women who have these fantasies as well.

Part of what makes cuckolding arousing for heterosexual men is that they tend to view it as a taboo act. In a society or culture that idealizes monogamy, the cuckold fantasy is available to people to conceptualize their sexual fantasies. It’s a sexual desire that can be easily customized to meet a wide range of sexual needs and desires, whether it’s taboo sex as in interracial, novelty, voyeurism or something else.
The emotions surrounding seeing your partner with someone else can be a huge turn-on. It’s not cuckolding if there isn’t an element of small cock humiliation, degradation or denial. [Agreed] Our erotic imaginations have the ability to turn shame lemons into delicious kink lemonade. [Love the analogy]

Overall, research found that for the most part, cuckolding tends to be a positive fantasy and behaviour. Remember that sometimes just sharing sexy thoughts can be arousing enough.

Cuckolding is often seen from the outside as a kink founded in humiliation and inadequacy of the male partner but the reality is far different and pleasurable for most couples actively involved in cuckolding. Cuckolding takes the foundation of a stable, loving marriage and extends it to include one or more males who play a specific, sexual role within the relationship. Contrary to popular myth sexual inadequacy [as in my case] is only a significant factor in a minority of cuckold couples. For most couples, sharing her is a loving way to expand the boundaries of their relationship and safely explore a more natural approach to human sexuality and relationships.

Cuckolding is a wife-centric rewarding experience for all involved and makes a loving cuckold marriage dynamic. Wife, husband, and boyfriend are all involved. The wife is being touched, reassured, and pleased by both men and in return, is pleasing them both – just in different ways. Inviting another male into the marriage exercises and builds the marital bonds just as physical exercise does for fitness. When practiced properly, cuckolding will bring a couple closer together & greatly increase intimacy despite of and also because of the intimacy the wife now shares with another.