IS HUMILATION DEAD

[Broc lee]

My husband and I were talking about that the other day. I've been fucking black men for many years. My husband said he never felt humiliated. He had no idea it was suppose to be humiliating!

Fucking black men in itself has nothing to do with humiliation or anything else and should be construed as such. I have many swinger friends and I play with there wives and we are like tag team partners. But they are a hotwire stag/vixen dynamic. He looks at her like his personal porn star and himslef sorta of a pimp. Cuckolding is different often based on feeling of inadequacy in the bed Or ****** leadership roles at work or at home that distress submissive beta Males in day to day life. From my observations these men have a strong desire to serve their womans every need since they cant serve the one tou need every woman has with is to have a alpha man take them and thoroughly satisfy them sexually. From there the wife learns how to use those needs to cultivate the perfect cuck for them. Often the wife enjoys having her straight husband do things that demonstrate he isnt straight ( eat cum. Dress like a sissy, suck dick) to test the cucks resolve to serve her and often has home do things (wear cuck cages as a reminder of servitude to her and a training device

 

[Acorn]

I think where early on in relationships this dimension is overt, something you play with and discuss. Over time however there are only so many ways you can say "they fucked me better than you" before it loses some of its sting and sounds rote. I think there is a subtlety that happens over time where things are implied, or just understood as subtext without needing to be thrown in your face.

I mean when you see her cum with that other dick, do you really need her to verbally say it? isnt it obvious to you, her and her guy? So i think what you might be perceiving is a maturation beyond the "wow, would you look at that!" to a more low key, understood subtext.

Its like moving from action movies where you have explosions and corny catch phrases, to more artistic films where all of the intensity and emotion is implied.

 

[aande319]

To each their own. We don’t think cuckolding is about humiliation per se.
we involve some humiliation when we feel like it.
He is very well endowed, so the small penis thing doesn’t work for us. But he is submissive to me at heart and I enjoy inflicting some humiliation. It usually involves some form of me flirting with other men when we are out or arriving together and leaving him at the bar and I have drinks with someone else nearby etc. It is usually some form of public flirting or abandonment .

 

[paulj93]

When I started in the lifestyle some 10 years ago cuckolding was about sexually INADEQUATE husbands that couldn't please their wifes, the perverse enjoyment of the humiliation that comes with knowing you can satisfy your woman and the willingness to serve and be humiliated all for tne pleasure of nis woman since they cant please her in the bed.
Fast forward 10 years later and cucks are enjoying the fruits of BBC labor just as much as the wives, and bulls rarely humiliate or put cucks in their place(naked blindfolded on your hands and knees in a corner.
So my question is " is humiliation dead in the cuckold community ?"

I hope not

 

[cuckoboi]

I would have loved to be send outside to wash the Bulls car while both of them were having fun inside, imagine what the neighbors would be thinking.

 

[Broc lee]

I would have loved to be send outside to wash the Bulls car while both of them were having fun inside, imagine what the neighbors would be thinking.

Lol that's is a great idea . I'm in the south so mudding is a big thing here might have to go mudding and then while he cleaning the truck take the wife inside and go mudding again hhaahha but you got to have your swimming trucks on and a bikini top for exposure

 

[paolacpl]

Humiliating wives seems to me much more appropriate and sufficient.
The husband takes the role of making her recover to be more broken and beaten in the next

Interesting point. Actually I'm not very much in humiliation, I think of myself more as a helper to make something beautiful happen between bull and wife. I'm a friend and an ally of the bull and cuddle my wife before and after their encounters

 

[cuckoboi]

Lol that's is a great idea . I'm in the south so mudding is a big thing here might have to go mudding and then while he cleaning the truck take the wife inside and go mudding again hhaahha but you got to have your swimming trucks on and a bikini top for exposure

Sounds like I'd have a lot of car washing to do while your cock works overtime pleasing pussy, I suppose we all find something that we all good at.

 

[StevieGirl]

The very essence of cuckolding is humiliation. Any man who willingly allows his wife to have sex with other guys is already humiliated. What type of manly husband would stand for it? None. But cucks aren't manly, in the truest sense of the world. The blacks who are fucking the wives are manly. Big time. Would never allow to their significant other to be with another man. Fight that one to the death.

 

[FW wife Benefit]

the only thing that is never dead is the inability to accept other's preferences. I remember 20 year ago being surprised to find that gays could be as incapable to accept that other people had other preferences as heterosexuals could be, despite the stigma and all the fight they had to do to be accepted. With this, it is the same. Is common that humiliation kink plays in a cuckold relationship? heck yes! it is necessarily implicit? by no means. it is true that husbands into cuckolding can't please their wives and need "a real men" to do it? as far as I know, only for a small but very vocal community.

 

[tomtomjim]

most cucks do not know they are cucks and many of the ones that knew have nothing to do with the other men and then there are the guys who are involved with the other men and off these a few may be into forms of humiliation but some of those will go to bds and m . Trying to label sexual behavior is almost pointless. In my experience most so called bulls are just cuckolds without a wife

 

[StewM]

most cucks do not know they are cucks and many of the ones that knew have nothing to do with the other men and then there are the guys who are involved with the other men and off these a few may be into forms of humiliation but some of those will go to bds and m . Trying to label sexual behavior is almost pointless. In my experience most so called bulls are just cuckolds without a wife

Interesting way of looking at it.

 

[LoveBbcCouple]

WE USE IT IN A FUN N FLIRTY WAY....ADDS NICELY TO THE WHOLE DYNAMIC

 

[tomtomjim]

Interesting way of looking at it.

if you share a woman sexually and she is the one who decides who gets to fuck then all the men are cuckolds to an extent

 

[mw29]

The very essence of cuckolding is humiliation. Any man who willingly allows his wife to have sex with other guys is already humiliated. What type of manly husband would stand for it? None. But cucks aren't manly, in the truest sense of the world. The blacks who are fucking the wives are manly. Big time. Would never allow to their significant other to be with another man. Fight that one to the death.

Well said on every level and so true

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

The very essence of cuckolding is humiliation. Any man who willingly allows his wife to have sex with other guys is already humiliated. What type of manly husband would stand for it? None. But cucks aren't manly, in the truest sense of the world. The blacks who are fucking the wives are manly. Big time. Would never allow to their significant other to be with another man. Fight that one to the death.

That's just stupid. There is no humiliation per se in willingly sharing a partner. Those who are overly possessive are the ones who lack confidence. There's nothing "manly" about that at all.

 

[tj loser boy]

The very essence of cuckolding is humiliation. Any man who willingly allows his wife to have sex with other guys is already humiliated. What type of manly husband would stand for it? None. But cucks aren't manly, in the truest sense of the world. The blacks who are fucking the wives are manly. Big time. Would never allow to their significant other to be with another man. Fight that one to the death.

You are always right on point!

 

[tj loser boy]

I love it and I am completely addicted to it... but it’s not really that easy to find people who truly enjoy dishing it out. I think there are a lot more women that do but don’t like to admit it

 

[OCRAW]

Not in my house

 

[luvs2watchhishotwife]

The humiliation of knowing my wife loves and prefers big black cocks to my white dick is a huge turn on for me. Just today, fucking a 24 year old black guy almost all day in our house, she told me when I took them drinks and snacks in between fucking how much she loved his cock. Literally held his spent cock which is still really big, shook it a me and said, look how awesome his cock is honey, bent down and kissed the head of his cock and just let out a little squeal and said, god, I swear, this is one of the best cocks I’ve ever had in me....then with a light pause said...honey, don’t think your one that would compare, your little dick doesn’t even come close to doing in me what this cock here does.

Now, she says that partly because of two things. 1. She knows that’s little bit of teasing drives me wild, I love humiliation and knowing or thinking I know in my mind, she greatly prefers black cock to me. 2. Partly because although she tries to somewhat deny it later on, she knows it’s also true. I can see the difference, how much larger his cock is. I see and hear how she reacts when they fuck, it’s an animalistic intensity she doesn’t have with me, it’s FUCKING! I love to watch and hear her get FUCKED AND CUM AND CUM AND CUM! She isn’t faking it, the only way I can begin to almost make her cum as hard as they do is when I get between her legs and lick her swollen, well fucked and sensitive pussy clean after they’ve used it all they wanted and have left. She loves to humiliate me too when I’m doing my deed and cleaning her well fucked pussy.