Cuthach
Couple
I have often wondered what constitutes having sex compared to making love? For example vaginal intercourse even though intimate may not be making love. Mainly because the man derives pleasure from choosing when he wants to orgasm. However a blowjob or cunnilingus is can be more intimate because one person is pleasuring the other without their own regard. And visa versa. Or is it as simple as saying the L word to the other person and Wala it's no longer sex you are no making love.