Is a connection a requirement?

Call me crazy/oldshool but I require some level of connection before fucking, a vibe of some sort. Is this odd? Or is it expected?
There absolutly has to be some form of connection between Robin and a black man before she will fuck him. We always meet for a ******* prior to any clothes falling off and he well knows in advance that fucking Robin isnt a sure thing until some form of chemistry between them is created. Robin loves a good conversation and is very easy to talk with and she can tell alot about a guy during conversation. If she feels comfortable with him and visa versa then she decides if she moves on the the bedroom with him. And theres always the possibility that the black man were meeting doesnt have interest in Robin after meeting so its a two way street.
 
This is not hard to answer UNLESS ITS ******* (criminal)not approved *******,the 800 lb gorilla in the room people ignore in this is: a woman has to feel something for the man in order to tell herself "ok body go ahead and let this 6"240 lb hairy leg man pound all our holes anyway he wants to".
To unlock these" most valuable "words ALL men wanted you to hear He can't fuck empty and must bring then equipment.
Yes there must be a connection in order fuck your brains out ,call you dirty names,pull hair,tie u up and go make a sam_mitch"...
 
This is not hard to answer UNLESS ITS ******* (criminal)not approved *******,the 800 lb gorilla in the room people ignore in this is: a woman has to feel something for the man in order to tell herself "ok body go ahead and let this 6"240 lb hairy leg man pound all our holes anyway he wants to".
To unlock these" most valuable "words ALL men wanted you to hear He can't fuck empty and must bring More then equipment.
Yes there must be a connection in order to fuck your brains out ,call you dirty names,pull hair,tie u up and go make a sam_mitch"...
 
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I am a 6'3 237 pound clean cut attractive alpha who's married.
When I vibe with a married women it usually doesn't take a lot of conversation.
Specially when we're both professionals with stable families.
Time is very valuable to a lot of professional types...
 
This is not hard to answer UNLESS ITS ******* (criminal)not approved *******,the 800 lb gorilla in the room people ignore in this is: a woman has to feel something for the man in order to tell herself "ok body go ahead and let this 6"240 lb hairy leg man pound all our holes anyway he wants to".
To unlock these" most valuable "words ALL men wanted you to hear He can't fuck empty and must bring then equipment.
Yes there must be a connection in order fuck your brains out ,call you dirty names,pull hair,tie u up and go make a sam_mitch"...


Well said, you have to feel comfortable and safe to fully enjoy sex. That is why the best sex always came in relationships but this lifestyle is fucking that whole narrative up because the cuck is allowing the wife to feel safe and she is able to fully let go to the bull.

The cuck is creating the environment for great sex; with his support, cheerleading, and sexual lead up to the event. The bull doesn’t have to be good in relationships - just the cuck. Matter of fact, it’s better for the bull to not have relationships - just fuck a lot and bring their expertise back to others.

That’s why this lifestyle fucks with my brain. The only reason why the wife can have the best sex of her life is because she feels safe - which is what a relationship used to provide. A man had to be good at sex and the relationship for their to be good sex.

A bull can now fuck anytime he wants, not have to deal with wive’s bullshit, emotions, complaining, or night sex rejections because she’s stressed. The bull also gets to share some relationship connection during sex (look deeply into each other’s eye, stroking and caressing, laughing and giggling like high school love birds, tell each other how great they are, Talk about how they miss each other and look forward to seeing each other) AND the cuck gets to clean up afterwards.

It saddens me to know the MVP cuck can’t get those connection activities because a lot of it is tied to how you feel after sex.

This lifestyle makes me wonder:

If you are black with a big dick - why wouldn’t you just be a bull? If you are a woman in her 40s, why wouldn’t you push your man to be a cuck - so you can intensify your sex life? And white dudes - all you are doing is jacking off to Lex, Mandingo, and blacked.com - why not make the porn real and be a cuck?

You can see why an intelligent person can have a little difficult time with this.

Thanks for letting me voice my mental anguish.

I’m happy for y’all. I hope it works out for all of you guys but give that Cuck the damn credit. He’s the reason all this ******* can happen.
 
Well said, you have to feel comfortable and safe to fully enjoy sex. That is why the best sex always came in relationships but this lifestyle is fucking that whole narrative up because the cuck is allowing the wife to feel safe and she is able to fully let go to the bull.

The cuck is creating the environment for great sex; with his support, cheerleading, and sexual lead up to the event. The bull doesn’t have to be good in relationships - just the cuck. Matter of fact, it’s better for the bull to not have relationships - just fuck a lot and bring their expertise back to others.

That’s why this lifestyle fucks with my brain. The only reason why the wife can have the best sex of her life is because she feels safe - which is what a relationship used to provide. A man had to be good at sex and the relationship for their to be good sex.

A bull can now fuck anytime he wants, not have to deal with wive’s bullshit, emotions, complaining, or night sex rejections because she’s stressed. The bull also gets to share some relationship connection during sex (look deeply into each other’s eye, stroking and caressing, laughing and giggling like high school love birds, tell each other how great they are, Talk about how they miss each other and look forward to seeing each other) AND the cuck gets to clean up afterwards.

It saddens me to know the MVP cuck can’t get those connection activities because a lot of it is tied to how you feel after sex.

This lifestyle makes me wonder:

If you are black with a big dick - why wouldn’t you just be a bull? If you are a woman in her 40s, why wouldn’t you push your man to be a cuck - so you can intensify your sex life? And white dudes - all you are doing is jacking off to Lex, Mandingo, and blacked.com - why not make the porn real and be a cuck?

You can see why an intelligent person can have a little difficult time with this.

Thanks for letting me voice my mental anguish.

I’m happy for y’all. I hope it works out for all of you guys but give that Cuck the damn credit. He’s the reason all this ******* can happen.
I have no idea what you interrupted ,I said nothing about comfort to fully enjoy??? It's about the woman submit her body for the act of sex to happen and thats the same rather u or I are around plus there has to be some value to a degree of chemistry and that's feeling something.Womens power is she can get it with or without support.
 
IET, you don’t think women need a man to help them feel safe so they can fully let go. They can just do that on their own?

All I was saying is that relationships help women feel safe so they can let go fully

I think we might just disagree on this

I don’t think a woman can let go and fully enjoy sex with a dude she hardly knows unless she’s got a husband cheering her on

Or I should say most women

Maybe cats feel like if you just have that sexual chemistry women will be able to let go fully but I think you need more
 
I don’t think a woman can let go and fully enjoy sex with a dude she hardly knows unless she’s got a husband cheering her on

It doesn’t have to be the husband cheering them on; it can be the bull building connection with them also but then you walk the thin line of fucking or making love - the more connection - the more it becomes love making instead of fucking. That’s not me speaking; that’s biology
 
All us men want is to properly connect, but all these women want is to just fuck, count numbers and send clit pix...the struggle is real my brothers
I have to connect in some way, I have pics yes but if I'm not feeling it with the guy it's not happening
 
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