In a pickle

[IrishBoyNY]

Hey all, need advice. My wife knows i love interracial sex (black men/white women) and the odd time we do watch porn, thats all we watch. I'll let her pick the movies when we do watch, and she always picks BBC ones. Over the weekend, she was feeling extra horny and loved the idea of me watching her pleasure herself with a dildo (white one ) we had purchased some time back. I also suggested watching a bit of porn for her pleasure which she agreed to and went on to put on a few interracial ones. After we had our fun, she told me the interracial thing didn't do it for her. That she prefers big white schlongs to view. Am i at a loss with this? Nothing gets me hotter or more turned on then seeing a strong black stud with a huge package banging away on a white woman. My wife knows my ultimate fantasy is to see her getting utterly satisfied from a black stud in ways i never could, but i guess its just not her thing. Should i just leave it alone and keep it as my fantasy or do you think over time she might just come around to liking the possibility of having a BBC take care of her. Thanks all.

 

[Dequan Thomas]

If she knows ya fantasy try askin her to try it, if it's still a no then it's loss

 

[Marc williams]

I dated an Indian woman from Guyana, she wanted a threesome bad, Two Men and her! But she would not under no circumstances let the other man be
black! I tried and tried and tried, but to no avail she would not change her mind! Ugh! Some women just do not find a black man attractive, and they only find sexual attractiveness with their eyes, so if they prefer blonde hair and light eyes like me, then that is all that they're going to sleep with. Unfortunately I do not think that she will change her mind but if she is your wife you have no choice but to keep trying! Good luck! My suggestion would be to have a black guy come over and hang out with the two of you let her have a few drinks get her loose get her dancing and then once he's in her it's all over with!

 

[pienman]

Hey all, need advice. My wife knows i love interracial sex (black men/white women) and the odd time we do watch porn, thats all we watch. I'll let her pick the movies when we do watch, and she always picks BBC ones. Over the weekend, she was feeling extra horny and loved the idea of me watching her pleasure herself with a dildo (white one ) we had purchased some time back. I also suggested watching a bit of porn for her pleasure which she agreed to and went on to put on a few interracial ones. After we had our fun, she told me the interracial thing didn't do it for her. That she prefers big white schlongs to view. Am i at a loss with this? Nothing gets me hotter or more turned on then seeing a strong black stud with a huge package banging away on a white woman. My wife knows my ultimate fantasy is to see her getting utterly satisfied from a black stud in ways i never could, but i guess its just not her thing. Should i just leave it alone and keep it as my fantasy or do you think over time she might just come around to liking the possibility of having a BBC take care of her. Thanks all.

Go for it

 

[MacNfries]

she told me the interracial thing didn't do it for her. That she prefers big white schlongs to view. Am i at a loss with this?

Look, the goal, at least initially for you should be to give her what turns HER on, not you. If she'll take a few well hung white guys on and allow you to be there, give her what she wants. At some point, she may agree to include a few black guys in a small gangbang ... and if she receives a pleasurable experience from them, you'll be off to the races, if not, you know what HER preferences are, and its all about seeing her pleasured better than you can do it yourself. What if SHE wanted to see you peed on by a bunch of guys ... would you agree even if it was a turnoff for you? Everyone tends to broaden their interests over time ... maybe that's all she needs is a bit more time.

 

[jdflacpl]

Look, the goal, at least initially for you should be to give her what turns HER on, not you. If she'll take a few well hung white guys on and allow you to be there, give her what she wants. At some point, she may agree to include a few black guys in a small gangbang ... and if she receives a pleasurable experience from them, you'll be off to the races, if not, you know what HER preferences are, and its all about seeing her pleasured better than you can do it yourself. What if SHE wanted to see you peed on by a bunch of guys ... would you agree even if it was a turnoff for you? Everyone tends to broaden their interests over time ... maybe that's all she needs is a bit more time.
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Mac really has it right that's how we started a MFM 3 some with white guys she got disappointed most times. My goal was to she her take bigger than me. and PS not all blk guys are big

 

[Kyra]

Look, the goal, at least initially for you should be to give her what turns HER on, not you. If she'll take a few well hung white guys on and allow you to be there, give her what she wants. At some point, she may agree to include a few black guys in a small gangbang ... and if she receives a pleasurable experience from them, you'll be off to the races, if not, you know what HER preferences are, and its all about seeing her pleasured better than you can do it yourself. What if SHE wanted to see you peed on by a bunch of guys ... would you agree even if it was a turnoff for you? Everyone tends to broaden their interests over time ... maybe that's all she needs is a bit more time.
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Take this advice and see if she wants a hung white guy, since it seems that is what she is open to. It will open her up to the idea of other men and down the road she may be willing to fuck a black guy, especially if she knows it's your fantasy. No point forsing the issue and making her feel pressured into fucking a BBC, which may lead to a less than stellar experience for all involved.

 

[Nymedic81]

I would go with Kyra’s suggestion. I found seeing my ex wife on her knees sucking any color cock was the hottest thing in the world! I shared her with more white guys then black guys. She liked to fuck and didn’t really care if they were black or white. Sometimes you have to pace the fantasy and not rush to the finish line. At least your wife is open to the idea of fucking other men and that’s a good start!

 

[IrishBoyNY]

Thanks for your feedback, you are totally right in what you stated. It did start as a fantasy for me but ultimately its for her satisfaction. She is my sweetheart and would never imply things just for my own kink, if you get me. Thus

Look, the goal, at least initially for you should be to give her what turns HER on, not you. If she'll take a few well hung white guys on and allow you to be there, give her what she wants. At some point, she may agree to include a few black guys in a small gangbang ... and if she receives a pleasurable experience from them, you'll be off to the races, if not, you know what HER preferences are, and its all about seeing her pleasured better than you can do it yourself. What if SHE wanted to see you peed on by a bunch of guys ... would you agree even if it was a turnoff for you? Everyone tends to broaden their interests over time ... maybe that's all she needs is a bit more time.
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[IrishBoyNY]

Thank you all for the replies. It is reassuring that she is open to looking at other cocks while i am present. Some good solid advice, ill start with some big white cock vids, as she has stated is her peference, and see where it leads us. Thanks again all.

 

[IrishBoyNY]

Just wanted to post an update. Last weekend, me and my wife were having a few drinks in the house and of course the convo turned to sex and fantasy (I always steer it this way when we are having drinks as the atmosphere is relaxed and we can both talk openly). She knows my love for interracial sex and all the porn we watch is black male/white female porn. So knowing that, my wife said she would order a BBC dildo and sure enough she did lol. It'll be here in a few days hopefully and I can start using it on her. Hoping this changes her mind as far as black men go, she previously had said she wasn't attracted to black men. The quest is still on to open her mind to having sex with a BBC. I love my wife so much and we are truly each other's best friends so her willingness to act on my fantasies is very reassuring. Have a good weekend all.

 

[GaBlackSnake]

Hopefully it will get her into the darkness

 

[MacNfries]

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[housewifenheat]

Like others have said it is about her pleasure. Start out with the white guys. If she goes for that then this is a plus. Keep watching the interracial porn though. She may find out in time that a sexy Black man is a huge turn on for her. In the meantime keep listening to her and what she says. She knows what turns her on and what doesn't. It may take a while but don't give up.

 

[IrishBoyNY]

So went out for drinks last night with my wife and ended up back at our house watching Mandingo banging the ******* out of a white girl on tv. Wife said she loves getting pounded, which I can't do. I only last 2-3 mins at best and can't give her what she wants sexually outside of eating her out. We are waiting on the BBC dildo that she ordered and will get back to watch young black studs with BBC bang white girls and use dildo on her, I think she is opening up more to the possibility of getting BBC. We are also going to Jamaica soon, I'll keep you all updated.

 

[jdflacpl]

Thats good to hear

 

[cuck4Beth]

Never give up. First step is supporting her desire, then over time she may indulge your fantasy. My wife was with over 100 white men before her first black, now she is black only.

 

[Nyce1]

Real Talk: Not every woman is attracted to a BBC.
So why ******* it?
If it's not her preference then respect it and move on, you'll both be happier in the end.

 

[IrishBoyNY]

Real Talk: Not every woman is attracted to a BBC.
So why ******* it?
If it's not her preference then respect it and move on, you'll both be happier in the end.

Thanks for you reply, I'm not forsing my wife at all. What I have been doing is opening up the possibility that she might be interested. Like I said before, my wife is my best friend and love of my life. I would never do anything to harm her.

 

[Bigdoeboy]

So went out for drinks last night with my wife and ended up back at our house watching Mandingo banging the ******* out of a white girl on tv. Wife said she loves getting pounded, which I can't do. I only last 2-3 mins at best and can't give her what she wants sexually outside of eating her out. We are waiting on the BBC dildo that she ordered and will get back to watch young black studs with BBC bang white girls and use dildo on her, I think she is opening up more to the possibility of getting BBC. We are also going to Jamaica soon, I'll keep you all updated.

Would love to hear about what types of fantasies you two play out while she uses her new dildo