polishedpearl4
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I think my wife...
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billdikk28
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do you want her too get some really big guy to take care of her for you
or just fantasy
This is called transposition of your fantasy. Its rempant here.
Some things we will never know for sure.
But i'd say probably not. Just because she uses a toy does not mean anything really.
One of my ex girlfriends has cheated on me several times (as i was made aware of by others). Well, of course that could have been lies but i have strong reasons to doubt that. First, she told me about one time herself. The guy (who was white BTW) had a wife and chi!dren which she wasn't aware of when it "happened", or so she said. After they finished - he had bent her over a front seat of a car and taken her doggy-style - she told him that she would have a boyfriend (me!) and she would not be interested in further meetings. He put on a grin and said "no problem".
She would pump into that guy unexpectedly one day while i was there with her. They said 'hello' and had a chit-chat. When i asked her who he was, she became quite nervous and said, she would tell me later. (We were in company then, not alone.) Only in the evening of that day she would tell me he was the guy she had cheated on me with.
She also cheated on me with a Black man that she didn't tell me about. She didn't have to mention it because i knew
about a year later when we pumped into him at a concert. While briefly, friendly talking with him she behaved in the exact same shy-ish, nervous way like she did with the other guy she had cheated with. That was the moment i knew it. While she wasn't usually bad at lying she was very bad at controlling her body language. polishedpearl4
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It's not really a fantasy I mean it'd be cool to do,but the point was we discussed it and she denied it,but I just don't buy it
What did you say to her and how exactly did she react?
And no wasting time with fantasy stories please!
polishedpearl4
Male
I asked her how she felt about it,she said it wasn't for her,but before me she hung out with all African Americans and grew up in an all African American church.anyway it is a little bit of a fantasy to see her stretched by one so I got a BBC dildo it's about 11" and thick,she squirts everytime we use it,plus when we dirty talk she gets drenched when we speak on it.and also one last thing was I heard through the grapevine she had
So is your post meant as an "announcement" or are you needing "your next direction?"
polishedpearl4
Male
Yes next direction
polishedpearl4
Male
And also opinions I guess,do you think she has or its in my head?
Well, I'd use caution in accusing or implying to her that she is or has been with a BBC.
Wishful thinking on your part, I imagine. If you saw her even talking to a black male your imagination would probably run amok.
I usually go to one's profile/background page first before offering any advice or suggestions. Yours is currently "blank". It helps readers know a little more about your marriage & cuckold history in order to provide their best suggestion.
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How is your communications with her? Can you talk about anything openly?
What background/history does she have of being with any other men at all?
Does she have sexual fantasies and what are her normal topics of interests? Will she share her deepest, most personal sexual fantasies? Usually having a few tasty mixed drinks or a few glasses of wine will help you lower her defenses to these.
Has or will she look at bi-racial porn and if so, what are her thoughts of it?
I suggest you don't push her on doing this. It needs to be because she's decided to try it. If you have young ******* in the house you might expect her to be more reluctant as she will be protective of her marriage to you.
Wishful thinking on your part, I imagine. If you saw her even talking to a black male your imagination would probably run amok.
I usually go to one's profile/background page first before offering any advice or suggestions. Yours is currently "blank". It helps readers know a little more about your marriage & cuckold history in order to provide their best suggestion.
(things like)
How is your communications with her? Can you talk about anything openly?
What background/history does she have of being with any other men at all?
Does she have sexual fantasies and what are her normal topics of interests? Will she share her deepest, most personal sexual fantasies? Usually having a few tasty mixed drinks or a few glasses of wine will help you lower her defenses to these.
Has or will she look at bi-racial porn and if so, what are her thoughts of it?
I suggest you don't push her on doing this. It needs to be because she's decided to try it. If you have young ******* in the house you might expect her to be more reluctant as she will be protective of her marriage to you.
SanDiegoBlack
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Opinions don't count. She is the only one who knows. Have the two of you swung as a couple? If not, chances of your first swinging experience being with a black man are slim. Even if she is interested, she doesn't know how you'll react (and frankly, I don't think you do either). Most likely, this is just a fantasy post, but if you're real, you have your work cut out for you, as you're starting from scratch.
polishedpearl4
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It's real and I appreciate the advice
For sure she had had sex with a Black man before. Or she hadn't. Who cares?
Most Women are not virgins when they get into marriage. It's no secret. But usually they have been socially preprogrammed to believe in monogamy. So just having had other boyfriends or lovers before does not really mean a thing. If you want to open her mind to the possibility of a sexually (half-)open marriage you will have to put a lot of work into normalizing that idea and explaining the benefits such a lifestyle could bring to both of you by making baby steps one after the other. Create a fundament for your relationship that's made of open communication, honesty and trust. - Just listen to what Mac has said because that's good advice.
