I perfer cream in my coffee

Hello, I'm a Firefighter who is married, but looking to spice things up again in a discrete long term relationship with someone who is passionate , open minded, and loves romance. Someone who can appreciate a gentlemen....but NOT in the bedroom (smile) I work crazy works being a firefighter, but can get away for whatever. I prefer cream in my coffee because there's nothing hotter, or more sensuous. This is my first dating site and hopefully I'll meet that special someone who will make this my last dating site. I enjoy romantic dinners, the outdoors, the casino, and just being together doing "US" I am honest , up front, and will tell you what I'm thinking. I don't want drama, nor will I cause any.