Hubbies scared

Don't get in the lifestyle just stay vanilla. Most people here want serious folks here anyways. No wishy washy stuff
 
if hubby is not into it maybe you and him should go to a marriage counselor. if you get a counselor that has a progressive outlook you will be told what i was told. my wife kept saying she wanted to date. the counselor told us that lots of women date and still stay married. i brought up that she might have sex with her dates. he told me that adult dating usually included sex and she would probably have sex with any man she dated. he then told me i should just accept it and let my wife have her fun
 
if hubby is not into it maybe you and him should go to a marriage counselor. if you get a counselor that has a progressive outlook you will be told what i was told. my wife kept saying she wanted to date. the counselor told us that lots of women date and still stay married. i brought up that she might have sex with her dates. he told me that adult dating usually included sex and she would probably have sex with any man she dated. he then told me i should just accept it and let my wife have her fun

LOL it sounds like she is banging the therapist ??
 
I would say communicate with him and find out why he went cold on the idea since he brought it up. He might be feeling a little bit in secure Certainly can't blame him seeing how sometimes it goes badly and you can read about that. It is a scary thought for us. So I would say communicate and reassure him of your love
 
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Will try sit and talk to him. We have a black toy we play with, but he has pulled away from the role play and IR porn. We are strong but don't want to damage that.
Not that I need to know but was your response to the black toy way different from your normal interaction with him. It might have scared him if you in his mind or he thought was having too much fun or liking it too much. What would he do if you went thru with it and he could not handle it and you wanted more.
 
I would say communicate with him and find out why he went cold on the idea since he brought it up. He might be feeling a little bit in secure Certainly can't blame him seeing house sometimes it goes badly and you can read about that. It is a scary thought for us. So I would say communicate and reassure him of your love
Good recommendation!
 
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