How to come clean

[mikeanthny3]

So I’m a young white guy in a happy relationship. My girl has no idea that I’m into bbc and cuckold. I always fantasize about telling her but idk if I could really handle her getting into the lifestyle. So a couple questions:

1) do I just keep it a secret fantasy
2) do I tell her what I’m into? And how would I do that without freaking her out
3) do I try getting over this fantasy so it doesn’t ruin my marriage if it doesn’t go well

P.s she’s not really that sexual. We have sex like once a week. Idk I even make her cum tbh

 

[AnnieS]

I dont know if I even make her cum..... Well before you drop that other bomb how about you figure out the basics like how her anatomy works, How to please her nd then maybe you'll have sex more than once a week and you'll know if you please her or not. My god man. C O M M U N I C A T E!!!!

 

[mikeanthny3]

I know and that sounds so easy but she’s not really a sexual person so it’s difficult to have these conversations

 

[willyfun7878]

There with you Mike and trust me I’ve tried communicating about sex In general. Part of me thinks she’s just craving something out of the norm like this and deep down knows I’m into it.

 

[notblackedyet]

first of all, you'll NEVER "get over this fantasy".. sorry man, but from the first time seeing BBC porn, and the compulsion you had to start jacking your little white dick, you never had a choice.. and dont worry about telling your gf about it. that'll happen too. you'll tell her about it, she'll be into it more that you expected, and she will become more "sexual", as you put it.. sooo yeah, just buckle up cuck! lol you're not in control here. and there's no going back, so you might as well enjoy the ride.. your gf will be

 

[AnnieS]

And another piece of advice- 99% of the replies here, by men, have no interest in helping you. They have only thier wierd oerverted I’m inferior and I don’t count mentality and are reveling in your predicament because it brings some kind of odd pleasure to them. Want to resolve your issue- communicate, no matter how uncomfortable it seems. It’s not comfortable because neither of you talk about it. Once you do it’s not odd and easier to do.

 

[Lovelixer]

I know and that sounds so easy but she’s not really a sexual person so it’s difficult to have these conversations

How old are you? It just takes some experience. You also don't need to have conversations. When you have sex just explore her body.

My wife requires clitoris stimulation to orgasm. It is not difficult after exploring her body. I give oral sex with my tongue or a small vibrator while we have intercourse.