I have had relationships with a couple guys over the years. One in particular shortly after we started in the lifestyle. I began to see him regularly and did start developing feelings for the guy, great lover but also funny, nice guy.
I was bit upset when he ended it, not so sure I would want to get into a relationship again. Prefer the occasional meet. But it was fun also.
Hubby supports me either way.
Many women fantasize about sex with well hung black men. Many wives are sexually frustrated with their husbands. I have a good friend whose hub lasts less then one minute. He comes, rolls over, goes to sleep. She never orgasms with him.