I've not been here a few weeks and I have more than 20. When I'm more active I get more but easier to manage, but it's also easy to keep up, from both sides...sometimes I don't remember someone or he doesn't remember me.I've messaged people who didn't reply but then contacted me as if the never saw the message. It has me wondering. How many DMs do women/couples get? Is it hard to keep up with them?
verifying helps a lotYou got me, I've been here a long time and I've never gotten a DM's ? Possibly a typing error, if not I've excluded.
You must get a lot. I've tried messaging you for over a year now. Haha. I think we frequent the same states.They're more frequent after I've posted somewhere but sometimes a message has very little to go on and I won't follow up - see my thread (I'll just get the link and put it in the edit...)
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Hi. I just want to give some advice to the lovely guys who send private messages. Personally, I will not, and I think many women on this site won't, respond to messages from men with no media/description of themselves/non-verified UNLESS... ...you say more than "Hi" or "Hello". The reason we...www.blacktowhite.net
Have you ever posted anything about you or pics at all? People need to see what they are engaging in and some, not all by any means, sometimes post stuff from the internet. Let me say it’s nothing wrong but I expect that the content you put up from you gathers more interest and hence DM’s? Just a thought no malicious intent meant.You got me, I've been here a long time and I've never gotten a DM's ? Possibly a typing error, if not I've excluded.
I just checked my messages. I have 5 pages of different men sending messages, and it doesn't show anything before friday.You must get a lot. I've tried messaging you for over a year now. Haha. I think we frequent the same states.
Wow! How about you change the script and DM me?I just checked my messages. I have 5 pages of different men sending messages, and it doesn't show anything before friday.
Oh we doIt depends if I am posting, some time I get so many messages, another time I wonder if black guy like Asian women
I only take the time if THEY have.I get quite a few DMs but I always reply.
It's rude not to.
If someone takes the time to write a message I feel it's only right to take the time to reply . . . .
So, I was thinking about what you said and felt a little guilty, so I set about answering some messages I hadn't responded to.I get quite a few DMs but I always reply.
It's rude not to.
If someone takes the time to write a message I feel it's only right to take the time to reply . . . .
That's why, I think, just ignoring those who are fishing is better than starting something that goes nowhere.Some of us can take No for an answer, don't be shy
If lucky maybe 1-2 a month.I've messaged people who didn't reply but then contacted me as if the never saw the message. It has me wondering. How many DMs do women/couples get? Is it hard to keep up with them?