How does one find a Hotwife

Simple. Do you have married friends. Now wait a bit. One of these couples will get divorce. You will be given a choice stay friends with him or with her. If the divorce is because he cheated, or came out of the closet stay friends with her. She will want to get even.

Or if you male friend in the couple passes away or has a stroke after three months the females in their circle will distance them and their husbands from her. So she cannot steal their husbands.

this is an overly simple explanation. However it is true.
 
It's not much harder than to find a girlfriend actually. :D Look out for a Woman who has an obvious attraction for men. There is a difference how Women would eye men in public! Also: Is she dressing confidently and in a way to attract (y) or rather to hide her body behind her style (n) ?
When you start contact with her, test if she is also okay with having a conversation of a more sexual nature. Well, perhaps that should not be the first sentence! But if you have a convo going already, try to subtly change it into that and see if she goes along with it (y) or rather tries to change the topic (n) . - i have found that many Women are very curious and would ask questions, perhaps about a male perspective on something. It could even develop into talking about each other's past experiences, likes and dislikes, or types of porn you watch. o_O
If something develops from there (a ONS perhaps?; exchanging numbers, a second "date", ...) you are on the right track. ;)

Observe if she is a high-libido person. How does she act/react before and during sex? Is she aroused easily? Is she jumping right in (y) or playing hard-to-get (n) ? Does she develop lots of pussy juices (y) or is she rather dry (n) "down there"? Does she orgasm easily (y) or not (at all) (n) ? Is she open to experimenting and role playing during sex (y) or not (n) ? Does she like talking about fantasies during sex (y) or would that be awkward and/or make her feel uncomfortable (n) ? When you're together, how often do you engage in anything sexual? Is there a rather high frequency (y) or low frequency (n) ? Is sex sometimes initiated by her (y) or only you (n) ?

If you are at the stage of developing a relationship it is essential that sex makes a good portion of it but does not build the fundament. You should be a good match apart from the sex too! Only if the two of you feel comfortable with each other, have open communication channels without taboos and a commitment built on mutual trust and respect, there is a chance of opening the relationship sexually without challenging it.

But perhaps she might not be the right Woman for a wifesharing lifestyle. :( What if she falls in love easily over sex? 🤔 So... what was her sexual past and relationship(!) history like? Was she more or less moving from one relationship on to another (n) or had there been a time that she would enjoy her single life and the freedom of having sex with men without a commitment (y) ?

i find it rather easy to open up a relationship sexually with (a) a Woman who is eligible for that kind of lifestyle, and in (b) a relationship with "parameters" as described above. But it is not like searching for a Woman just to fulfill your sexual kink. We're talking relationship here! Your (and her) sexual desires might change over the years. Also libido is a question of biorhythm and naturally changes during life. You can only have a strong relationship as a couple in the long run if you are a good match in all important aspects of relationship life including all parts besides the bedroom.

Also... her desires and fantasies might not be the exact same as yours. Don't push your kinky fantasies on her but instead understand/accept that hers are as important as your own and also deserve fulfillment. ;)

i hope this was not TL;DR and makes some sense to you. :LOL:
 
The Arranger said:
Simple. Do you have married friends. Now wait a bit. One of these couples will get divorce. You will be given a choice stay friends with him or with her. If the divorce is because he cheated, or came out of the closet stay friends with her. She will want to get even.

Or if you male friend in the couple passes away or has a stroke after three months the females in their circle will distance them and their husbands from her. So she cannot steal their husbands.

this is an overly simple explanation. However it is true.
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I hope you're joking with this advice. Lmao
 
You got to have game to land any woman, and major game to land a hot wife, i.e., be a financially rich white boy who can bankroll a wife and her lovers. Via friends and social media, let your intentions be known... and develop a screening system to ween out the fakes. And away you go.
 
StevieGirl said:
You got to have game to land any woman, and major game to land a hot wife, i.e., be a financially rich white boy who can bankroll a wife and her lovers. Via friends and social media, let your intentions be known... and develop a screening system to ween out the fakes. And away you go.
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If that's the kind of "relationship" you'd like to have... 🤔 To each their own. Not my thing at all! ;)
 
Trayreloaded said:
Mufucka aint arranging ******* but funerals and divorce paperwork.
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ok let’s take the first one. A divorce.
what happens.
all their married friend choose sides.
correction all the wives choose sides.
either the former wife or husband keep most of the friends
quickly the former wife can be isolated.
if she works and who does not her co workers will stop hanging around with her for a few reasons. They have listened to her story over and over. They see her as competition to their relationship. When she stumbles to move on they also don’t like her stories. She will make bad retationship decisions.

now be the friend that lends and ear not an opinion. Take her out for a meal. Introduce her to people out side her former group of friends. Suggest new places and activities.
that’s the way to slowly turn her your way.

let her know you see her as sexy but in a different way. Have an opinion on shoes, dresses, pants. Let her know you think she can do better than her ex.
take her to a club and encourage her to dance like no one is looking. By her the wrong kind of clothes. Something a bit to tight, a bit to thin (see thru) some thing in the wrong colour. Break her out of her shell.

just like like her you have to find a bull a real bull. Not just some guy with a big cock. A guy that gets turned on by the thought of fucking a lady in front of her husband or friend. Yes they exist

now become their goat. (goats are used in horse racing to keep horses calm before the race a barn friend.)

Help them meet up.
you don’t need great wealth you need time.
after my wife passed away other than family I had few friends out side of work.
I helped (arranged) my First Lady friend to have a date following her divorce. It was a trip to a ballroom dance competition. About a month before I commented on a “rumour” that her ex had a social disease and that she might want to get checked out. I bought three tickets to the event and sat her next to a bull I had met, interviewed. He by chance had his tests in his pocket. We lucked out as her period was the week before. A few short dances during the breaks. A ******* on the walk back to the hotel.
a quiet talk. And it happened.

so no I was not joking.
 
The Arranger said:
ok let’s take the first one. A divorce.
what happens.
all their married friend choose sides.
correction all the wives choose sides.
either the former wife or husband keep most of the friends
quickly the former wife can be isolated.
if she works and who does not her co workers will stop hanging around with her for a few reasons. They have listened to her story over and over. They see her as competition to their relationship. When she stumbles to move on they also don’t like her stories. She will make bad retationship decisions.

now be the friend that lends and ear not an opinion. Take her out for a meal. Introduce her to people out side her former group of friends. Suggest new places and activities.
that’s the way to slowly turn her your way.

let her know you see her as sexy but in a different way. Have an opinion on shoes, dresses, pants. Let her know you think she can do better than her ex.
take her to a club and encourage her to dance like no one is looking. By her the wrong kind of clothes. Something a bit to tight, a bit to thin (see thru) some thing in the wrong colour. Break her out of her shell.

just like like her you have to find a bull a real bull. Not just some guy with a big cock. A guy that gets turned on by the thought of fucking a lady in front of her husband or friend. Yes they exist

now become their goat. (goats are used in horse racing to keep horses calm before the race a barn friend.)

Help them meet up.
you don’t need great wealth you need time.
after my wife passed away other than family I had few friends out side of work.
I helped (arranged) my First Lady friend to have a date following her divorce. It was a trip to a ballroom dance competition. About a month before I commented on a “rumour” that her ex had a social disease and that she might want to get checked out. I bought three tickets to the event and sat her next to a bull I had met, interviewed. He by chance had his tests in his pocket. We lucked out as her period was the week before. A few short dances during the breaks. A ******* on the walk back to the hotel.
a quiet talk. And it happened.

so no I was not joking.
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Not gonna lie. Stopped reading after the 1st line. No interest in reading your reasoning or justification. I'll jus say ok your strategy MAY work. Definitely a long shot though.

I'm sure there are alternative options that are 10x easier. What you're asking for is for all the stars to align. A lot of "what if's" and maybes. Like really bro, u banking on a stroke from a husband to swoop in and take her away? How realistic are any of your scenarios? Not to mention a pretty shitty "friend".
 
The Arranger said:
ok let’s take the first one. A divorce.
what happens.
all their married friend choose sides.
correction all the wives choose sides.
either the former wife or husband keep most of the friends
quickly the former wife can be isolated.
if she works and who does not her co workers will stop hanging around with her for a few reasons. They have listened to her story over and over. They see her as competition to their relationship. When she stumbles to move on they also don’t like her stories. She will make bad retationship decisions.

now be the friend that lends and ear not an opinion. Take her out for a meal. Introduce her to people out side her former group of friends. Suggest new places and activities.
that’s the way to slowly turn her your way.

let her know you see her as sexy but in a different way. Have an opinion on shoes, dresses, pants. Let her know you think she can do better than her ex.
take her to a club and encourage her to dance like no one is looking. By her the wrong kind of clothes. Something a bit to tight, a bit to thin (see thru) some thing in the wrong colour. Break her out of her shell.

just like like her you have to find a bull a real bull. Not just some guy with a big cock. A guy that gets turned on by the thought of fucking a lady in front of her husband or friend. Yes they exist

now become their goat. (goats are used in horse racing to keep horses calm before the race a barn friend.)

Help them meet up.
you don’t need great wealth you need time.
after my wife passed away other than family I had few friends out side of work.
I helped (arranged) my First Lady friend to have a date following her divorce. It was a trip to a ballroom dance competition. About a month before I commented on a “rumour” that her ex had a social disease and that she might want to get checked out. I bought three tickets to the event and sat her next to a bull I had met, interviewed. He by chance had his tests in his pocket. We lucked out as her period was the week before. A few short dances during the breaks. A ******* on the walk back to the hotel.
a quiet talk. And it happened.

so no I was not joking.
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Ok I decided to read it. Lmao. Felt like I was reading a script from a cheesey rom-com.

"He by chance had his tests in his pocket". 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
 
The Arranger said:
Simple. Do you have married friends. Now wait a bit. One of these couples will get divorce. You will be given a choice stay friends with him or with her. If the divorce is because he cheated, or came out of the closet stay friends with her. She will want to get even.

Or if you male friend in the couple passes away or has a stroke after three months the females in their circle will distance them and their husbands from her. So she cannot steal their husbands.

this is an overly simple explanation. However it is true.
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Is this a joke?? LOL. Do it my way. Have loads of single girlfriends and just ask them casually over a *******. Simple.
 
Trayreloaded said:
Not gonna lie. Stopped reading after the 1st line. No interest in reading your reasoning or justification. I'll jus say ok your strategy MAY work. Definitely a long shot though.

I'm sure there are alternative options that are 10x easier. What you're asking for is for all the stars to align. A lot of "what if's" and maybes. Like really bro, u banking on a stroke from a husband to swoop in and take her away? How realistic are any of your scenarios? Not to mention a pretty shitty "friend".
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It was a joke. Can’t be any other reason.
 
Trayreloaded said:
Ok I decided to read it. Lmao. Felt like I was reading a script from a cheesey rom-com.

"He by chance had his tests in his pocket". 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Yup. It was at this point I had set her up on a sex date. It was now her choice. Yes it does sound like a cheese rom com.

no it’s not just gold diggers. We talked about it. I could go for a *******. I could stay in his room. I could stay in the bath room while they played. I could sit and watch. i could sit in a dark room and listen. It was their choice.

:unsure:
 
bpwhiteboi said:
Apparently the only way is with money. It looks like only gold diggers are open to a white cuck husband. Otherwise pretty much impossible
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Man I ain't no cuck, but I can imagine there are ways to make that happen that doesnt involve money. Lol. U gotta crawl b4 u walk and run. Try finding a woman u click with 1st. Its plenty of dating sites out there.

I'm bout to give yall some free game.

After talking to a vanilla chick for like a week or so and getting them to really like me, I hit them with this line right here... "ok tell me something about yourself that many people dont know about you". She's gonna tell u something then say ok now it's your turn. Then you reply with "ok I have this fantasy of xyz".... boom conversation started right there. Either she's gonna be open and accepting or she's gonna lose interest. Either way u laid the cards on the table. Keep shooting your shot. In a lot of cases if the chick is feeling you she'll be open to the idea and respect u for being vulnerable and honest.
 
Most guys here seem to think Hot Wives are money grubbing trophy wiVee. That spend their days doing lunch with thugs, while wearing micro bikinis. Well that ain’t the case. They are nurses, librarians, doctors, dentists. School teachers. Married with *******. A mortgage some times soccer moms. They are any colour and bored with life.

the ones I have found have felt betrayed by life, be it their husband/boy friend, their job, their friends their family. They don’t run around wearing the tee shirt.
 
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