Ashley95QOS
Female
I want to get my bf involved involved in my fantasy. i DO NOT want to break up, but I want him to let me experiment. If any women have explained this to their boyfriends/husbands, how did you go about it?
How do you tell your bf about your fantasy?
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I'm a man, so take it with a grain of salt, but you want him to know you're interested, without him thinking you would leave him., Let him know this is about the sex. Some may disagree, but for a guy to feel secure, he has to feel like he is the one you will confide in.
Now, how far do you want to take the experiment? Still have sex with him? No sex, but still blow jobs? Cut him off totally? That will have to mesh with what he may consider okay, and you may have to compromise
I'm not one to feel much jealousy, but that is based on it being about the sex. If he thinks you are looking for another boyfriend this way, he would likely object.
You'll probably hear experiences across the spectrum, from that he mentioned it, to she decided and told him it's this or he hits the road. How you do it will depend on what your guy is comfortable with.
Similar to what some say, do you watch porn together? If so, have you watched interracial porn? If you have or do, mention how yummy it looks. Do you two play with a dildo? If so, get a big black dildo. Those are non-threatening ways to break the ice.
