Been trying for sometime...we talk about it often and she even tells me hot stories about black men as she rides me...any comments would be appreciated!
How did you get your wife started?
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He asked me for a few yrs if I wanted to try a Mfm. Finally said sure lol.
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It was simply my turn to be in control sexually in our marriage. For a decade I full filled every perverted sexual whim of my husband. A marriage is a partnership for both to enjoy and I did things I had absolutely no interest in for his entertainment. The next 10 years are to please my desires. This was mutually agreed upon after a long heart to heart talk.
It took me two years to convince my wife to try it. Be persistent, but try not to be too annoying. There are tons of small things you can do to push her in the right direction. You can pm me if you like for more details.
Totally agree.
It took a good two years for me to convince as well.
Persistence, patience and understanding. And as mentioned, don't be annoying.
Half the battle is already won when you admit to her that you would like to see her with black AND she finds it exciting.
Why not just be open and honest. She may say no at first, but give her time to think and she may surprise you. In the meantime talk to her about how she feels about stretching her pussy. Some like it, some don't. If you all get into stretching, get some black dildos. Incorporate the dildos into role play if she is into it. Your wife has to be willing to play along. Don't ever ******* her to do anything. Sometimes it's just not meant to be.
would love to hear more details!!!!
We are very open, we have a large black dildo, watch porn, share our fantasies in bed which always turns her into an ******* and she whispers in my ear about how she is going to suck and fuck black men....she is close...but no cigar so far...lol
It seems you are very close. So she's definitely into it it seems. Have you two created an account on a swinger website or anything like that? I would say bring that up to her so you can both look together. Once you do that and she gets to chatting with someone, it will be a done deal.
It was a really big step for us, as we had talked and fantasized about it for several years. We've been partnered since 2006, but didn't decide to open our relationship until 2013 or so. She began dating black men that same year, and she seemed to enjoy the attention. Over time, though, her health concerns began to take over, especially since one guy turned out to be carrying the HPV virus (STD, so far as we know). That slowed things down considerably. We still turn on to her erotic liasons, but it's been about a year since her last experience. Oh yes, and we were once on AdultFriendFinder, which was the source of most of our explorations.
Yep... you're definitely getting there!
Keep it up and soon you'll have your badge!
Soooo worth it, my friend.
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