How did you get into IR

The wife dated almost exclusively black since her teens. Had a few bad apples make her want to try a white guy (me!)
we got married but she realized she could not give up black cock for the rest of her life and eventually started stepping out on me. I found out and we worked out our relationship to keep her happy and I’ve decided I quite like it too
 
I have always had an attraction to black men and in HS had a handsome young man ask me on a date. I accepted and on date 3 we fooled around. I was hooked ever since. It turns me on and now after being a QOS for a long time the uninhibited side of sex is out in the fullest sense with a BBC. I love the way a black cock looks and how i cum on them. Sex with my husband is great but a chocolate treat every now and then when I have my QOS fever on i the best.
 
One of my friends was with a black guy and when i was with my bf in a vacation in spain i kinda wondered how would it be! after a night out my bf and friends stayed at the party! but i wanted to go to the hotel! and there was one of those black guys who sell stuf! so we started to talk! and i sas i want him.., as a joke! but he ment it .. so he started to grab me and touch me! after some no no no no… i went yes yes yes! so we started making out and fucked in a hostel!
 
My high school was in a wooded area. So there were many liaisons in the woods. (In fact, a number of embarrassing discoveries when your patrolling administrator comes upon you with someone's penis in your mouth. You know that every time they see you afterwards...they cannot shake the image.) So my boyfriend and a black friend of ours were in the woods...my boyfriend started goofing sexually with me, pulling up my shirt....when our friend made a play for my breasts and I pulled back my bf said "I told him he could feel you up!".
With my shirt off....my bf pulled my mouth open and the black penis slid in....we were in a wild session. None of us made reference to the interracial aspect...but there was definitely something electric between the glint in his eye and my dry mouth just before I took him in my mouth. They both enjoyed me from behind and each came in my mouth. I wouldn't really say this got me "into interracial" and I wasn't exclusively black before my current sig other.
 
The wife dated almost exclusively black since her teens. Had a few bad apples make her want to try a white guy (me!)
we got married but she realized she could not give up black cock for the rest of her life and eventually started stepping out on me. I found out and we worked out our relationship to keep her happy and I’ve decided I quite like it too
Our exact situation over 20 years still going
 
For me as a white guy it was steps. First when I was around 14, some friends and I were hanging out at one of their homes. One of the guys puts a tape into the vcr (so awhile back :)). It was an amateur porn of this white woman and a black man. He took off his pants and it was a serious wtf moment, just a long fat black cock. Was just blown away. The woman in the movie was grinning from ear to ear. Eventually he's going to fuck her. There was no way she was going to that. It did take her some time but she did get it all in. The two things that I remember from that was the look on her face when he was really fucking her (she looked high, like she was in heaven) and how long he went before he came.

Flash forward two years, high school. This was kind of taboo then (80's) but there were several girls in our HS who were known to mess around with black guys. One of our buddies from youth football, black guy, got his fair share to say the least. He was hanging out with us one day after school when we asked him about the rumor with him and this one girl. We all thought there was no way she would go black. He said it was true. We started calling BS and what not. We're still sitting around talking and he had gone to the bathroom and come back. He's standing up with a grin on his face and asked, you ever wonder why I'm fucking theses girls? Well this is why and he pulls down his pants and a huge damn dick popped out. He was a skinny guy but he had to be 9" long and thick. He just shook it back and forth. He put his pants back on a sat down. I was at a loss for words. Sitting down you could see the outline down his pants. It really plants an image in your head. He said all he had to do was fuck one girl and the word got around. And turned out he really was fucking the girl we thought never would.

Now in my mid 20's and in my first serious relationship. We have a great sex life, do it all the time, like rabbits lol. Well many years into our relationship (late 20's), we're in bed getting intimate and she asks, have you ever thought about watching me with another man? I was shocked! Froze for a second. Wasn't sure where she was coming from. Of course I said hell no, why would I want that. She said it'd be hot. I wasn't having it. But inside a part of me got turned on by it.

Around 6 months later we're lying down and she said I need to talk. She said remember that business trip last week I? I said yes. She really tried to be careful and not hurt me, but she said she slept with someone else. I froze. For like 2 minutes I just sat there. She said I'm so sorry and kept apologizing. I finally rolled over asked who was it, like I'd know some random guy from another city. She said a guy that worked at the bed and breakfast where she stayed. I asked her to tell me about him. Don't know why I wanted to know, just did. She said he was just this nice black guy she hung out with while she was there, it just happened. When she said black guy the prior memories came back. I looked at her and just asked, so was he big? She just smiled and said why do you want to know that? I said I just do. She said why do you want to put yourself through this? Just tell me please. She paused and said, well, yes, he was big. I said how big, she turned away a little as if to hide it. She said around 8". I'm around 5.5". I asked so was it good, and you can be completely honest with me. She said well to be honest it was great. I'm not going to lie to you. Guess she could tell I was ok with the her opening up. So I roll back over on my back for a minute. Just lost in thought. I then after some reflection roll back over and looked her in the eyes and said you needed it didn't you. She was confused and said what do you mean? I said you needed his big black cock didn't you. She looked down and back up and said yes I did. I said you've needed that for awhile haven't you! She said for quite awhile. I don't go deep enough do I? She said I'm sorry baby you don't. We proceeded to have the best sex we'd ever had.

I realize why some wives entertain this. It is a real need. I never got to explore this with her because she moved due to work and I wouldn't move. But it planted a seed.
Kind of an update. Talked to the one ex gf from my 20’s. She was in town and we caught up over lunch. Finally was able to admit to her that when she suggested me watching her with another guy that it actually turned me on. Thought of her with the bm she met on her trip. Told her I find it hot but also makes me feel like I’m strange for it and kind of ashamed. Turns out she is a therapist and without revealing patient info, she said you’d be surprised at how many men are into this. It’s more normal than you think. So don’t feel ashamed at all. That was very refreshing 😀
 
Sounds like my path was like a lot of others' here. I liked big dicks and, in particular, size contrast (tall guys, petite girls). We had opened up our relationship and settled into a stag/vixen dynamic, but at first only with hung white Bulls (not that we were specifically seeking white guys, we just live in an area that is sadly not super diverse). We also like to watch porn from time to time so as we sought out porn that fit that size contrast bill, lots of interracial started to show up and I found myself increasingly turned on by it. That eventually led to buying BBC dildos. Which eventually led to seeking out a Black bull. After one false start (I wrote about that in another post), I had my first true BBC experience and was a changed woman. Haven't looked back ever since.
 
Sounds like my path was like a lot of others' here. I liked big dicks and, in particular, size contrast (tall guys, petite girls). We had opened up our relationship and settled into a stag/vixen dynamic, but at first only with hung white Bulls (not that we were specifically seeking white guys, we just live in an area that is sadly not super diverse). We also like to watch porn from time to time so as we sought out porn that fit that size contrast bill, lots of interracial started to show up and I found myself increasingly turned on by it. That eventually led to buying BBC dildos. Which eventually led to seeking out a Black bull. After one false start (I wrote about that in another post), I had my first true BBC experience and was a changed woman. Haven't looked back ever since.
You are a great storyteller. You voice comes through. A great communicator with a great body. The total package.
 
Talked/convinced my wife to have a mmf threesome…..started with white guys…..after a year or so of that, talked her into trying BBC and that was all it took….within a few months after her first BBC, she was cuckolding me regularly with black bulls and has consistently kept that up the past 12 years approximately. She has a complete insatiable appetite for black cocks and their cum and can’t get her hunger and thirst quenched…..seems the more she continues to suck and fuck, the more she wants. Good with me, I love it and I’m as addicted to black cocks unloading in and on her as she is! Best sex of my life has been the day she converted to BBC’s.
 
Where i grew up in California for did not look at, talk to, or even think about white women. They were the biggest no no ever. When your living in California you're going to see white women all over the place and i would always wonder why. Why are they so off limits what did they do to not be talked to or looked at.

Going to school you look at all the girls just like any man but you notice yourself looking at white girls different that you do everyone else. It was like that all throughout my life white girls just had this pull on me that no one else had.

Being black and being into white girls not everyone accepts Interracial. I don't think i fully accepted the whole thing until i found AFF when i was a Senior in High school. What!? Their is a community of women that just like black men.

Changed my life forever being able to be open about it and not have to hide from their family or keep secrets.
 
The wire and I are swingers. I’m a thick 7, so she is use to a certain standard. Sadly, when you date couples it’s more about personality and looks, but you don’t generally get to choose cock size. She was disappointed one to many times. We looked for single men. The first two (W&H) were ok, but nervous and average. Then we met our first BBC bull.
From the moment we met him at dinner, he was tall, muscular, and overall very attractive. More importantly, he was a mature professional w strong confidence and attentive to her. In a rare occurrence, she wanted to play that night. She wasn’t disappointed when she pulled out his 10” cock. He remained our bull for many years. When he finally moved away for a while, we just stuck w what we knew worked. She hasn’t played w a white guy in a long time!
 
The wire and I are swingers. I’m a thick 7, so she is use to a certain standard. Sadly, when you date couples it’s more about personality and looks, but you don’t generally get to choose cock size. She was disappointed one to many times. We looked for single men. The first two (W&H) were ok, but nervous and average. Then we met our first BBC bull.
From the moment we met him at dinner, he was tall, muscular, and overall very attractive. More importantly, he was a mature professional w strong confidence and attentive to her. In a rare occurrence, she wanted to play that night. She wasn’t disappointed when she pulled out his 10” cock. He remained our bull for many years. When he finally moved away for a while, we just stuck w what we knew worked. She hasn’t played w a white guy in a long time!
Personality, looks, cock size and black.
Will three out of four work?
Smiles.
 
Our story is probably no different from many.
We decided some years ago that it may be fun to spice up our sex life. My hubby showed a distinct interest in seeing me have sex with another guy. He said I was soo good at sucking and fucking (isn’t he a darling ! Lol),he said he’d love me to show my expertise to other men.
We thought if we were going to try that,it may as well be someone different from my hubby. That was going to be a challenge,as 99%+ of males in Australia are white,just like him. We thought it’d be different to try someone black,but the black population in Australia is pretty small,especially down south in Melbourne.
And we’d heard that saying that “once you go black” - what an interesting scenario ! So we went about finding some black gentlemen to enjoy sex with. They were respectful,quiet,intelligent,not desperate just to fuck any woman with a pulse, interesting and were very appreciative of my advances. These guys were gentlemen and were very different from your usual white guy in our country,which was enlightening.
They told us that they found it hard to find women who liked to fuck black guys,women who were able to take and accommodate their big cocks (so that folklore was true),and where their hubby was not jealous and was happy for their wife to fuck another guy,let alone a black guy - we ticked all 3 boxes !
I had sex with a few of these black guys and found it was very pleasurable,satisfying and fun. My hubby enjoyed seeing me enjoying myself too. The size of their cocks was impressive to say the least, and my pussy got very wet and felt incredibly horny when faced with enjoying sex with them. It was a bit of a give-away. My body was obviously telling me that I was very well suited to enjoying sex with these black gentlemen,which was a revelation to both of us !
After our experiences with these black gentlemen, both my hubby and I were coming to the conclusion that me having sex with them was extremely enjoyable for both of us,and that maybe we could look at it as an on-going activity for us. The more we engaged in this very pleasurable and satisfying pastime,the more we enjoyed it,and the more that I became hooked on the idea of continuing enjoying other sex partners on top of my hubby.
It got to the stage that my pussy craves black cock, and bbc at that ! My pussy became really horny for bbc and my need and desire for bbc was becoming insatiable. My hubby was fabulous in this awakening for me,and understood,supported and encouraged me to enjoy all the bbc I felt I needed.
My wanton and horny pussy was now controlling my desire for bbc. My hubby and I discussed my feelings,and we both happily accepted my increased sexual preference for bbc sex. Without making a conscious decision,we’d realised I’d become a Queen of Spades. We’d also realised that my hubby was a Stag.
So our sex life had changed. We appreciated that our sex life was enhanced by accepting what we had unwittingly but happily become,and that enjoying bbc sex was now our lifestyle,and that we should embrace all that it offered ! We had a beautiful gentleman in particular,originally from Ghana in West Africa,with whom we had particularly developed a strong friendship.
We’d sort of fallen into a bond with one another, where we were spending more and more time together socially and sexually,which are both equally important to us. The friendship that we had built up over recent years was fabulous. We had become lovers without even knowing it. We would be out socially showing our affection for one another,and people didn’t know which one of the 2 men I was with was my hubby. He had become my black lover. My relationship with my hubby was never threatened,and we were as strong together as we were before I took my black lover as my sexual preference. Sex with my hubby had not changed - it was still great,but my desire for bbc and sex with my black lover was simply now an integral part of my ses life and our bbc sex lifestyle.
The 3 of us have a lot of fun together. In our big spa (of course wearing bathers is not required),on our massage table,playing our adult sex board game, going out socially to restaurants,cafes or clubs, dancing,drinking,nude beaches,bbq’s & picnics, and of course passionate pleasurable satisfying powerful sensual intimate sex - lots of milking his bbc,sucking and fucking until my mouth and pussy is soo full to overflowing with his delicious spunk - god the sex is soo beautiful,I feel euphoric and in heaven. Sometimes my hubby joins in,me having 2 cocks to enjoy is fun,other times he just simply sits back and enjoys seeing me enjoy my beautiful black lover together.
It’s now time for me to “come out” publicly and be proud,expressing my deep love and enjoyment of bbc with my black lover. My hubby and I have decided together to adorn my slim mature white bod with some QoS tattoos. One on public display on my right ankle,telling the world that big black cock is my sexual preference,one just above my pussy/clit,showing my black lover that my horny pussy craves his bbc and my pussy is his,and one over my heart on my left breast,which may be publicly visible depending on the the clothing I wear at the time,expressing my deep felt love for bbc and my black lover. This is a decision my hubby and I have made together,and clearly demonstrates and expresses our bbc sex lifestyle and our true acceptance and realisation that my body is made for bbc and that my life is devoted to being a Queen of Spades ♠️ enjoying my sexual preference for bbc sex with my black lover.
Once I accepted and realised who I am,and am happy to express it publicly,along with my wonderful hubby together with my black lover,our life is a lot of fun full of enjoyment in and out of the bedroom. That is our story - we hope it’s been of interest,and may help some women and couples with their own situations moving forward.
Thank you for listening to my very personal situation,expressing my feelings and opening up my heart to you all. A&N& my bbc xxx
Oh! How We can relate to this , so beautifully put. In a way it could be us 👌
 
A mutual friend had her first black in h.s. and went to black fraternity parties in college. We were out at a jazz concert one night and she was telling us about those parties. Got me thinking about wife doing it to. Eventually she did and she loved it and now they go out together sometimes. I can't complain because she loves it and we have more fun now. And I have had several black women myself since she started and loved that to.
My wife met a black bull on line met in a bar for drinks and he fucked her that day in a hotel, I never knew.
 
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every time i watched porn some IR stuff was always recommended. i never thought it was for me and didn't look at it but then like decided to check it out one day cause with lockdown i was home more and bored and it became something i watched more and more and now its kinda the only thing i watch for porn

do you have a favorite interracial situation or scene you look for and enjoy?
 
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