Just wondering how other people got started on the IR
We've answered this, or similar questions before, however I don't mind repeating it.
Where I grew up the only exposure we had to black people was in print media or in movies. Then in my early teens, just 13 in fact, I attended a summer Air Cadet camp. This was at a military air base. This was my first face to face with black people, and I hasten to add, were a great bunch of guys, several of whom have kept in touch over the years. Anyway, long story short, the second or third day at camp after an evening baseball game, several of us cadets headed for the showers. As you might imagine, or even know from experience, military showers were never designed with modesty in mind, quiet the contrary, they were simply shower heads spread evenly apart on all four sides of the wall with a simple wooded divider wall, about 2 ft. square and waist high. Anyway, we all got ready in the dressing room and ran to the showers. When we entered, in the far right rear shower there was this much older black cadet, old to us at least, about 19 or 20 years old, masturbating! I had never seen anything like this before, neither had any of my friends! I guess this guy didn't hear us come in due to being under the shower, or should I mention perhaps he was so busy with the matter at hand! Anyway, we watched as he ejaculated with absolute amazement. The size of his member was also worthy of mention and a hot topic amongst us for the following two+ weeks we were there.
One interesting side note, it seemed that every time this episode was talked about, this poor guys manhood just kept getting bigger and bigger with each passing conversation. Anyway, it was that background that later led to my fascination with wanting to see a white girl get laid by a black guy. Much later, after I married, that fantasy led to my sharing it, with initial outrage I must add, with my wife.
We had been married almost 8 years (I think) and were on a combined vacation/convention trip. The night prior to the convention commencement we were attending a cocktail party. It was here that I unexpectedly met an old university friend and roommate of mine, who happens to be black, Edwin. I introduced him to Pam, spent most of the evening reminiscing and talking about our old university years and what we've been doing since then, et al. Before we called it an evening we agreed to go out to dinner the next night and perhaps do some club hopping. We did just that!
That night, back in our room, Pam and I were in the mood for some play time. During our activity I mentioned to Pam, as I would quiet often, "Would you like to try a big black one right now?" When she replied, "Edwin?" I blew my load right then and there! My heart rate must had doubled in that nanosecond! Anyway, the next night we had a great dinner, did some club hopping and ended up back in our hotel suite for a nightcap! It was here that Pam got to play with her first strange cock, the fact that it was massive (a fact I was aware of but didn't tell Pam) and was black, was a real turn on! They fucked their brains out all the way to early dawn. As they say, a great time was had by all!