You are so right my friend.
How Cuckolding Changes the Cuck?
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Cuckcowboy
Male
Ya...wouldn't take it lightly. You can have issues from aggressive anal.
In reality to what people think in this lifestyle, cuckolding has really helped our relationship.
Black guys will never understand what some of us go through in life. They show up to a date or one night stand with the absolute confidence that they are going to make a female orgasm without an issue. They have no doubt that once they lower their boxers any female will absolutely be impressed to say the least. They will never understand or feel how it is to really try to make a female enjoy a sexual experience, but fall short because of the sexual experiences she has had in the past. Mouth skills are not everything and will not compensate because eventually any female wants performance.
In a relationship, it eventually becomes very stressful and anxiety creeps in when one begins to notice that the wife needs more penetration or I simply cum too fast. That is when decisions are made that brings couples like us into this lifestyle. It eventually becomes obvious that another more endowed male has to come into a relationship and take care of business. Sadly, some guys decide to start categorizing the male part of the relationship with a homosexual etc etc. If they only understood why they are coming in to a relationship it would be even better.
Today, years after my wife went black I can say that life is a lot more pleasant at home and I live stress and anxiety free. My wife is still loving adorable and we still make love. But I know that when she is working overtime its because her bf is pounding the world out of her in his apartment. A very dark dark muscular black man.
This is just part of life for some of us and just like I had to understand it, I hope those of you reading this will learn to live with your personal situation. Size and stamina truly matter and I hope that you will cope with reality.
qoshotwife1982
Couple
It’s not all about size and stamina! I’m a well hung white man w no stamina issues at all fucked a ton of hot pussy in my life ! It was my idea to turn her on to fucking black men not because I couldn’t do the job it’s because I want to see her like the girls in porns n the contrast
You are so right and that’s why I always thank my wife’s Bulls for pleasuring her so well.
And with the added bonus of a truly sexually satisfied wife your life will be a lot easier now.
After seeing my wife enjoying fellating her many lovers and being cognisant of my own lovers pleasure from it my my changed. I met up with a bi guy and regretted waiting too long to discover that bi males add to their lives and I fully appreciate having bottom sex with my lovers as well enjoying fellating each other. Perhaps you can advance from pegging to enjoy enjoying the much better real thing. Don’t complain you obviously have a great and thoughtful wife there.
So much better with man full time caged
Totally agree with most of what you are saying here and lot more white guys need to accept this, it might be a bitter pill to swallow at 1st but it can be great fun for all involved if you can find the right bull for you.
For me I felt finally free. Free from worrying and insecure my woman would cheat on me with a better looking hung guy behind my back. Im attracted to beautiful high sexual energy woman out of my league but those come with a price.
I also felt liberated from worrying about pleasing her sexually, being good enough, lasting long enough for her. It felt like a natural relief to step aside from my role trying to be the insecure alpha male to a beautiful woman out of my league that every guy is hitting on to helping her pick out hung beautiful alpha males we both wanted her to have sex with and that we knew were the type of men with larger cocks and bodies that she deserved to have fuck her pussy and sexually please her and that they also deserved to have my wife/fiancee's beautiful pussy too.
It then felt good and helped me feel even better knowing my new role would both satisfy my sexual needs to watch them together but also be able to participate and get satisfaction that way by actively helping being there and playing up my role as beta sissy cuckold to its fullest extent which also pleased her and her bull but also had a side effect of making her want to have sex with her lover more by seeing me as a submissive cuckold she wasn't physically attracted to any more and seeing me that way she knew I couldn't satisfy her any longer and would feel better about her new feelings that her husband had now completely given up that role to another man and she would now have to accept and enjoy other man instead and them support each other in their new roles in the marriage.
So the cuckold changes and then the cuckoldress wife helps him change further to her needs with him supporting her in this along with dealing with what her lover bulls want from you both and if she wants that too.
Sucking bulls cocks, cleaning them afterwards orally, cleaning them both, holding her legs open and helping them couple and being up close to witness and smell and touch and then hear is how you change and then afterwards going back to somewhat normality and being flexible when he visits or she needs him and being just the right amount of submissive until they are together and then switching to full submissive when the alpha bull is around. Not being alpha or in control in those situations takes getting used to for both of you, especially for her seeing you react to him and her together and what those lines and limits are. If she doesn't back you up thats a problem. you either submit or it becomes an issue to be discussed.
Also, when issues arise, how you handle it now as the cuckold and her in the middle since you aren't the primary sexual provider. If she wants it too then you may need to submit in some way or find a happy medium.
Pregnancy for instance. Maybe he wants it. She is unsure and talks to you. If you draw a hard line what does she do? If you do not, then whats your role there? And what does it mean going forward if he doesn't live up to his end of the deal?
What if she breaks the rules of the agreement? The cuckold role can be difficult and have sacrafices but well worth it in the end if there is respect and understanding.
Children would also change the cuckold. Having your own children and a baby from a lover could change you as a cuckold. The cuckold would then be in it for life, intimately and jealousy could be an issue, especially when she feels entitled to give herself to her lovers ******* and loves him too and expects you to accept and figure it out together what works for you as a couple understanding she might have to put your needs behind her babys ******* sometimes regardless of how you feel.
Then the cuckold would officially be owned by the baby's ******* and have to allow him more freedom and unfettered access to his wife and baby at your home and his home with them together with or without you and you naturally being submissive to them both more freely holding their baby while they mate or tending to their baby while they please each other at your home or his place and more accepting and used to your wife being naked around you both and them fucking openly around the home with you doing dishes, clothes or watching tv
I also felt liberated from worrying about pleasing her sexually, being good enough, lasting long enough for her. It felt like a natural relief to step aside from my role trying to be the insecure alpha male to a beautiful woman out of my league that every guy is hitting on to helping her pick out hung beautiful alpha males we both wanted her to have sex with and that we knew were the type of men with larger cocks and bodies that she deserved to have fuck her pussy and sexually please her and that they also deserved to have my wife/fiancee's beautiful pussy too.
It then felt good and helped me feel even better knowing my new role would both satisfy my sexual needs to watch them together but also be able to participate and get satisfaction that way by actively helping being there and playing up my role as beta sissy cuckold to its fullest extent which also pleased her and her bull but also had a side effect of making her want to have sex with her lover more by seeing me as a submissive cuckold she wasn't physically attracted to any more and seeing me that way she knew I couldn't satisfy her any longer and would feel better about her new feelings that her husband had now completely given up that role to another man and she would now have to accept and enjoy other man instead and them support each other in their new roles in the marriage.
So the cuckold changes and then the cuckoldress wife helps him change further to her needs with him supporting her in this along with dealing with what her lover bulls want from you both and if she wants that too.
Sucking bulls cocks, cleaning them afterwards orally, cleaning them both, holding her legs open and helping them couple and being up close to witness and smell and touch and then hear is how you change and then afterwards going back to somewhat normality and being flexible when he visits or she needs him and being just the right amount of submissive until they are together and then switching to full submissive when the alpha bull is around. Not being alpha or in control in those situations takes getting used to for both of you, especially for her seeing you react to him and her together and what those lines and limits are. If she doesn't back you up thats a problem. you either submit or it becomes an issue to be discussed.
Also, when issues arise, how you handle it now as the cuckold and her in the middle since you aren't the primary sexual provider. If she wants it too then you may need to submit in some way or find a happy medium.
Pregnancy for instance. Maybe he wants it. She is unsure and talks to you. If you draw a hard line what does she do? If you do not, then whats your role there? And what does it mean going forward if he doesn't live up to his end of the deal?
What if she breaks the rules of the agreement? The cuckold role can be difficult and have sacrafices but well worth it in the end if there is respect and understanding.
Children would also change the cuckold. Having your own children and a baby from a lover could change you as a cuckold. The cuckold would then be in it for life, intimately and jealousy could be an issue, especially when she feels entitled to give herself to her lovers ******* and loves him too and expects you to accept and figure it out together what works for you as a couple understanding she might have to put your needs behind her babys ******* sometimes regardless of how you feel.
Then the cuckold would officially be owned by the baby's ******* and have to allow him more freedom and unfettered access to his wife and baby at your home and his home with them together with or without you and you naturally being submissive to them both more freely holding their baby while they mate or tending to their baby while they please each other at your home or his place and more accepting and used to your wife being naked around you both and them fucking openly around the home with you doing dishes, clothes or watching tv
