How Cuckolding Changes the Cuck?

I think sooner or later as the years pass everyone of us should be turned to cuckold..
Thats an interesting thought. My wife and I had sex seldom after 13 years but she needed it. I ignored it. Then she started cheating with a black guy at work. I found out and was hurt. She said what did I expect? I decided to live with it. Now he visits & stays the night & I get very turned on. He told me I was just a white cuckold and my wife was his.
 
My wife has always said that she has to be "a little bit in love," with a man to have a long term relationship with him so there is always that risk but she loves the cuckold lifestyle too much. Plus she said she doesn't need another husband. With me she always feels in the role of wife and mom but with other men she can let her inner slut out...even in public when friends are around.
There are so many factors
 
Thats an interesting thought. My wife and I had sex seldom after 13 years but she needed it. I ignored it. Then she started cheating with a black guy at work. I found out and was hurt. She said what did I expect? I decided to live with it. Now he visits & stays the night & I get very turned on. He told me I was just a white cuckold and my wife was his.
That’s a beautiful story !!!
 
Thats an interesting thought. My wife and I had sex seldom after 13 years but she needed it. I ignored it. Then she started cheating with a black guy at work. I found out and was hurt. She said what did I expect? I decided to live with it. Now he visits & stays the night & I get very turned on. He told me I was just a white cuckold and my wife was his.
This is the natural flow of things. Every married couple should be turned to a cuckold couple after a few years of marriage. It's natural.
 
Very true it took my wife and I 17 years of marriage but we now 40 yo and jumping in feet first as newbies ! It’s so exciting but also very nervous sexual feeling I can’t describe!
We were in a monogamous relationship for the first thirteen years of our marriage until we decided to follow the cuckold lifestyle. After all those years sex between us became boring and monotonous like a routine. My wife Maria had lost completely her mood for sex. I knew that we needed something to spice up our sexual life. Since we adopted the cuckold lifestyle and Maria started having sex with other men as well, besides me, she found her lost interest for sex. She became hot like a volcano, like if she was 25 again. The only thing we repent about is that we did not start our cuckold lifestyle ten years earlier. We "lost" thirteen years in a boring monogamous relationship.
 
We were in a monogamous relationship for the first thirteen years of our marriage until we decided to follow the cuckold lifestyle. After all those years sex between us became boring and monotonous like a routine. My wife Maria had lost completely her mood for sex. I knew that we needed something to spice up our sexual life. Since we adopted the cuckold lifestyle and Maria started having sex with other men as well, besides me, she found her lost interest for sex. She became hot like a volcano, like if she was 25 again. The only thing we repent about is that we did not start our cuckold lifestyle ten years earlier. We "lost" thirteen years in a boring monogamous relationship.
So as a newbie let me ask you this …. Was your wife a little hesitant at first off going straight to bbc? Did she sleep with other man before she decided to try bbc ? My wife is attracted to them as she has flirted w many of them and talked about them during sex between us but when I talked about it the other day she said she wasn’t sure if she would be grossed out by going black or not? Is that maybe something women want to try something they might think grosses them out to see if they would like it ? I was a lil confused ?
 
It makes me more relaxed not having the responsability and stress anymore to satisfiy her. It made me also feel less male/manly. I also lost more and more hard-ons, performance and stamina but that enforces the idea that it is normal and ok she has sex with another guy. When you become impotent you can not be angry that your wife seeks sex out of your relationship. I also got interested in gay sex or let say not having blocking thoughts about trying gay sex. I was also missing the intimacy with my wife and must say I found that in a way having sex with another guy being/becoming a gay bottom. It also made me understand that a lot of healthy women needs dick and semen to be happy. I leared that by also start to like dick, sucking it, taking it and also getting bred by a guy and getting addicted to receive semen in me. It changed me definitely but made me happy, more whole and realxed.
 
It makes me more relaxed not having the responsability and stress anymore to satisfiy her.
The same burden of satisfying her is gone from me.

It made me also feel less male/manly. I also lost more and more hard-ons, performance and stamina but that enforces the idea that it is normal and ok she has sex with another guy.
The same applies to me too.

When you become impotent you can not be angry that your wife seeks sex out of your relationship. I also got interested in gay sex or let say not having blocking thoughts about trying gay sex. I was also missing the intimacy with my wife and must say I found that in a way having sex with another guy being/becoming a gay bottom. It also made me understand that a lot of healthy women needs dick and semen to be happy. I leared that by also start to like dick, sucking it, taking it and also getting bred by a guy and getting addicted to receive semen in me. It changed me definitely but made me happy, more whole and realxed.
All these are 100% true
 
It makes me more relaxed not having the responsability and stress anymore to satisfiy her. It made me also feel less male/manly. I also lost more and more hard-ons, performance and stamina but that enforces the idea that it is normal and ok she has sex with another guy. When you become impotent you can not be angry that your wife seeks sex out of your relationship. I also got interested in gay sex or let say not having blocking thoughts about trying gay sex. I was also missing the intimacy with my wife and must say I found that in a way having sex with another guy being/becoming a gay bottom. It also made me understand that a lot of healthy women needs dick and semen to be happy. I leared that by also start to like dick, sucking it, taking it and also getting bred by a guy and getting addicted to receive semen in me. It changed me definitely but made me happy, more whole and realxed.
That’s interesting, are your gay tendencies only for BBC /black men or all men ? I’m not gay but worry about this also as my wife wants/is going to peg me
 
That’s interesting, are your gay tendencies only for BBC /black men or all men ? I’m not gay but worry about this also as my wife wants/is going to peg me
My gay interests are not especially for black men. All big cocks are good for me! :) One of my ex-girlfriends in fact awakened my (sleeping) gay tendencies starting with fingering my buthole, starting to use one of her dildo's on me and then starting to peg me. It was awkward but I liked it. She used all this to label me as alt least bi or gay and encouraged me to have gay dates. She then used all this as the perfect excuse to have lovers herself...
 
Oh yea I know that we have done our research

oh I know we have done our research, plus I feel it’s a risk worth taking , what’s the worst that can happen she fall for sum black guy that fucks her in ways I never could ? My wife and I are best friends she even calls me her GF sometimes cuz she can talk about guys with me, dicks , sex everything ! We are super supportive of eachothers wants n needs ! The fact that it’s a possibility that you could loose her is part of the excitement!
My wife has talked about divorcing me so she can marry her bull, she said I wouldn't have to move if this happens, she said that she would want me to move into the guest bedroom when he moves in, she said that it would be my duty to serve his and her wants and needs, it sounds strangely exciting and I'm actually looking forward to this happening
 
You're so right about that!
They need it alot sometimes and it's just nature.
Semen changes her...and you!
That's a great insight you have to the chemistry of it.
It makes me more relaxed not having the responsability and stress anymore to satisfiy her. It made me also feel less male/manly. I also lost more and more hard-ons, performance and stamina but that enforces the idea that it is normal and ok she has sex with another guy. When you become impotent you can not be angry that your wife seeks sex out of your relationship. I also got interested in gay sex or let say not having blocking thoughts about trying gay sex. I was also missing the intimacy with my wife and must say I found that in a way having sex with another guy being/becoming a gay bottom. It also made me understand that a lot of healthy women needs dick and semen to be happy. I leared that by also start to like dick, sucking it, taking it and also getting bred by a guy and getting addicted to receive semen in me. It changed me definitely but made me happy, more whole and realxed.
 
I knew that my small white penis was not satisfying my wife sexually although she would say she was satisfied with it . The only way I could get her to orgasm was playing with her clit . Giving her oral, fingering her or using vibrators ~ Realistic dildos or watching porn and she would play with her pussy .
When she eventually met the black guy Del who has become her bbc lover we both get satisfaction with her being fucked by his much larger penis that gives her multiple orgasms as they fuck and I get satisfaction masturbating as I’m watching them fuck .
 
The relationship with my girlfriend changed to me more being in the role of a kind of roommate and her gay best friend with whom she has intimacy. We have also more a kind of dynamic as being best girlfriends supporting and understanding each other with a lot of complicity. Although I am the submissive and like to serve her and also her lover when he comes, to me she "uses" her lover for the sex part and the relationsship with me feels as much "deeper" ( I like the word... :) although you would think normally that I am the one who gets (ab)used. In a way I am a kind of her affectionate trusting butler that completes her life and is a reliable constant in her life.
 
my wife and I are newbies but have gotten off to a fast start this past month and I’ve already noticed big changes !! One I’m soo into her n love looking at her when we go to bars n clubs looking for guys she would fuck and I’m not allowed to look at any other girls except her !! She is also noticing more black men and verbalizing it to me and this has made me become more submissive to black men when they come to talk to my wife , I will excuse myself n go to bathroom for several mins so they can flirt b talk ! I’ve also have gotten receptive to the idea of her wanting to peg me n make me suck her strap on dick !!
How about making you suck the black cock that’s about to enter her, hopefully with you holding her legs open for him to enter?
 
We were in a monogamous relationship for the first thirteen years of our marriage until we decided to follow the cuckold lifestyle. After all those years sex between us became boring and monotonous like a routine. My wife Maria had lost completely her mood for sex. I knew that we needed something to spice up our sexual life. Since we adopted the cuckold lifestyle and Maria started having sex with other men as well, besides me, she found her lost interest for sex. She became hot like a volcano, like if she was 25 again. The only thing we repent about is that we did not start our cuckold lifestyle ten years earlier. We "lost" thirteen years in a boring monogamous relationship.
Exactly the way I feel about wasting 10 years swinging, before going to cuckolding. I didn’t care that much about fucking other wives, I just wanted to watch my wife get fucked!
 
How about making you suck the black cock that’s about to enter her, hopefully with you holding her legs open for him to enter?
I don’t know if I’m ready for all that but I feel like maybe she has that in mind or worse ?!? She tells me that she is training my ass n that she’s gonna teach me how to suck dick on her strap on n fuck me with it after ! I’m thinking maybe she has a fantasy about us fucking a bull together ? What else would she be training g it for lol … the crazy part is I’m fully compliant in letting her take charge and “train” my asshole , she loves to finger me n I started to like it ! Lol
 
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