It’s definitely you!
Why she doesn’t want sex with you:
You have a tiny cock
You don’t turn her on in the slightest way
You keep a faggy cage on your little dick and she thinks you are gay because guess what, that’s not a turn on for women who want sex
You spend your free time on the computer asking the same question over and over instead of paying attention to her or doing anything even slightly manly
You have embraced the lamest part of cuck/hotwifing and what turns you on is completely fucking retarded
She doesn’t want to be part of your kink because it does nothing for her
The real question you should be asking and be extremely thankful for is why is she with you? I got no answers for that. You rich?