Hints on Learning Anal for BBC

Also ignore the nonsense about regular anal damaging your rectum.. If that was the case every gay man in existence would need a colostomy bag by age 30. Listen to your body and you'll be fine.
This 100% - I do a lot of anal & I do mean A LOT over the past 10 -12 years. Since I've been a convert to BBC for the last few years, I've had a good proportion of thick ones & although my anus does show some 'wear & tear', there's never been any issue with it not tightening up after sex.
There's a lot of nonsense talked, mainly by homophobic men or women who have a negative view of anal because they think it's 'dirty' or whatever.
 
First clean, then lube, lie on your back spread your legs & take the whole dick slowly penetrating your ass until he’s bass deep, then get him to hold it there until you both feel your ass hole relax then pound away from any position. Enjoy xx
Perfect. And that initial, slow one penetration is so good, feeling every inch of him going up inside you.
 
First clean, then lube, lie on your back spread your legs & take the whole dick slowly penetrating your ass until he’s bass deep, then get him to hold it there until you both feel your ass hole relax then pound away from any position. Enjoy xx
This woman (well, I assume it's the woman but @realslutwife is a couple) has hit the nail on the motherfucking head...starting with the first words "First clean..." I'm not a woman but I get so tired of hearing from women how not good their anal experiences are and then discover that "clean" wasn't in the scenario at all. I don't know what realslutwife meant by clean but let me be perfectly clear:

My dick doesn't like competition. It wants the entire asshole to himself. That means - literally - get the ******* out! I learned from a porn star (not personally, damn it!) that when she knows she's going to have an anal scene the next day, she cleans her ass canal out with 1, sometimes 2 enemas. If she knows she's going to have more than one anal scene, she'll also do the 'no solid foods after midnight' thing since the shoot would start in the morning. That way, along with plenty of lube (like everyone is saying here), she can relax and focus on the sex and not what's going on - or could be going on - inside her ass canal other than that cock that's about to savage her ass hole. Makes it easier to relax her asshole. It's not just a 'make room' or sanitary thing (ever notice how some porn has the woman sucking the cock right out her ass?) but it's also connected to the #1 sex organ - the brain. The mind must be at ease and in the game and it can't be helped - even subconsciously - to worry a little about if *******'s going to start coming out your ass and that makes her ass hole tighten up or at a minimum not relax for the cock.

There's a slew of other good ideas in this thread I would endorse (using toys, involving the clit, giving the pussy some good attention, etc. etc -- and lots of lube!!) so I'll quit with this. Besides, I'm too verbose as it is anyway.

(Damn! I suddenly have the strong, almost uncontrollable urge to find a well-defined, round white woman's ass to fuck...)
 
Oh, I do have one more thing (of course..I couldn't shut up for too long...)

Don't ever buy into the amateur or professional porn videos that make anal fucking seem like "oh, I have a good idea - let's fuck you in the ass!" like there's no prep necessary at all. Bullshit! Anal can be great for both but not without some prep beforehand (emptying out, using lube, foreplay, etc.) And don't think it's women who bear all the responsibility. Too many novice bulls or horny brothers think all they have to do is just flip the woman on her back and jam it in and start riding it. Just this week a girl friend (not girlfriend) of mine told me how she didn't like her first or second time. You guessed it: it was just 'mount up and ride!' Put in the little bit of work before hand folks. Don't contribute to giving the ass fuck a bad name.:cautious:o_O:(
 
Ah yes! Let's not forget that all important clean it out with an *******. Ladies, you don't want a guy to "fall into a mud hole" as one of my buddies puts it 🙂

I've had good luck over the years. But as I always say, if you're gonna fuck a lotta pretty white girls in the ass, then you're gonna have to take a little ******* every now and then 😆 After all, it's called a "poop chute" for a reason 😝
Accidents happen. I love fucking white girls up the ass.
 
You gotta prep like a pro. If you watch those very petite porn stars who do those gangbangs and take two 10" inch cocks in the ass they do it because they prep for it. If those little petite women can do it than any woman can as long as she preps for it. Look up legalporno gangbangs and watch how the smallest women take multiple big cocks in them at once.

The prep has to be done in general on a regular basis until having anal sex is one of the best sexual activities that you can look forward to. You should be wearing a butt plug when you and hubby are having sex whether you have anal sex or not. Prep is the key to loving bbc anal and not just surviving it!
 
It's better to do anal sex with a condom. If you use a latex/rubber condom don't use oil/fat based lubricants because they would affect/destroy the condom. Water-based lubricants can be used, but they don't last very long. So you would have to relube inbetween the sex session. Silicone based lubricants are better for that, but don't use them with a silicone toy.
Regards.
Reading that has me thinking im not normal. When i get fucked i only have to lube enough to get started good, the longer i get fucked the wetter i get.
 
@BeantownBBC mentioned the use of a butt plug already. It can be nice for a start. But it doesn't train/prepare the anal muscle for the purpose of anal sex well. What it does is get you acquainted with the thought of some "object" entering the rectum from the outside.
The anus can purposely be relaxed in order to "let something in", however that's not what humans are used to from the start, as typically we are used to only let something pass through from the inside out. ;) There is a mental barrier that will make the anus tighten itself at an attempt of pushing something in inside - it is like a reflex - that you will have to overcome. A plug can help you with that. Once used to it you will be able to relax more easily for penises and/or toys. ;)

However a plug does not imitate the in-and-out movement of a penis. They are designed to be placed easily but to be held inside instead of permanent penetration. You will have to practice that with a toy (dildo) that's more penis-like. Most anal plugs have a conical form and are very thin at the tip for easier insertion. Penises typically have a bigger head. Start training your anal muscle with a rather thin toy and move on to thicker ones once you've accommodated the thinner ones.

Some safety suggestions: 1. Like @HardBlackCandy said, empty the rectal tract with an ******* (after emptying it "in the usual/natural way":) ). Those can be purchased from a health provider or an adult shop. 2. Never safe on the lube! 3. Always use condoms during anal sex! If you use toys that you won't use for anal penetration exclusively, also use condoms with the toys. 4. Make sure the lubricants used are compatible with toys and condoms(!) in use. Same for the fluids used with the *******. ;)

There is no way to clean the rectum on a microbial level. There are bacteria there you don't want to have anywhere else, especially not inside your vagina. Make sure to never put anything that had been in your a$$ in your pu$$y afterwards! Not before thorough disinfection, changing or removing condoms. You don't want to contract some bad infection inside your vag. ;)

Additional hint for using enemas: Environment and timing are key. Only use them in a private environment where you can relax and have access to the washroom at any given time. ;) If you use them in preparation for a meeting make sure to not apply them too early or too late before your playdate. My advice would be somewhere in between four and three hours in advance of the event.

For best anal experiences it is important to put some effort into it, but you'll find it will pay off in a multitude. ;)
Have a lot of fun with your backdoor game! :sex:
The doctor has spoken!
 
I'd say that to best enjoy anal, do a lot of foreplay. Be with a guy who are really into. Whose dick you fucking love. A guy who you can't wait to have inside you. Because the more you want him, the faster your butt loosens for balls deep.
 
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