Welcome! A few tips for you..
Message couples and other females in the AR area who are gold and verified (real) members of B2W. Ask them for recommendations of men on this site and in your area who have proven themselves worthy of their time. Also, don’t feel like you have to stick to just this site. SDC.com and SLS.com are other great sources for people in the lifestyle. When you’re really ready to take a big leap, look into Splash Mocha parties in FL or ATL. It’s a hotel takeover/sex convention geared towards meeting attractive, single black men to play with.
Good luck!