She came forth and admitted it to me after about a year. I wasn't shocked as id been suspecting for awhile. She wanted to keep our marriage strong but not stop the affair with him. I admitted it turned me on thinking about her fucking her Black boss and let her dictate how it was going to go. She didn't want me seeing anyone else but her and her affair with Alvin lasted another year when his wife found out and she left the job. Since then,her passion is for younger,aggressive Black men and has had many in and around our area.