It's funny, I guess in some circles, depending on time posted and intent, they call it revenge porn, etc. I've seen so many pics of my previous party girlfriends and our parties (go to spankbang, it's free, find my profile, beach4black, see ,my videos, I didn't film it but I'm actually in it) that we take it as badge of honor. Ironically, I can't show my current girl my legacy stuff, because when I introduced her to BBC and interracial swing parties in south florida, she needed to know that she was the first. Well, she was the firstt under the age of 20, It's true, droolers. If you want to move your wife forward, some simple things, it's not heavy or threatening.