I think this is a valid question and can be answered by either the men or women here. I was reading some comments on here and it got me thinking about something that happened to us.
I was chatting with a younger couple in their late twenties that wanted to try swinging for the first time. They were both good looking and very fit and had been college athletes. They seemed to be very mature and ready. I gave them my husbands cell number so we could talk on the phone and everything went well. She was bi-curious and told me how beautiful she thought I was. We all just clicked well. We decided to meet at a resort and we got a cabin while they got a room. We started out meeting for drinks with the goal being dinner later. We wanted to socialize.
As hubby and I arrived at the bar the other couple was sitting at a keno machine. They had just won 400 dollars and were in great spirits. They said dinner was on them and we sat down to talk. Everything went well with some light flirting. We went to dinner and then decided to go soak in the hot springs. We all liked what we saw. They both had great bodies and we aren’t bad ourselves. Everyone was sober and had their faculties. The other husband eventually asked if we could all go to our cabin as it had more room. They went to their room to clean up and would meet us. When they arrived they looked great. Hubby and I could both tell that she was suddenly nervous. Completely understandable to us. The young hubby wanted to move forward at warp speed. My husband said let’s slow down a little and move at the pace of the person that’s the least comfortable in the room. We both were telling her how beautiful she was.
We decided to play a game of d rink or dare. It’s like truth or dare but if you don’t take the dare you d rink. My husband went first and started slow. He dared me to kiss her. I made it a very sensual kiss and caressed her the whole time. She said it was amazing and I thought it was a good first step for her. Now it was her turn, she dared need to kiss her husband. He was very eager and that went as expected. We played this game for over an hour. We went slow. The only drinking that took place is when we dared the guys to do something together. Eventually her husband dared her to go down on me. He said it differently. She was still nervous as she did it. She asked the guys if they liked that. They both nodded yes and stated how hot it was. She reached for my husband's hand and pulled him towards her and they kissed.
I reached for young hubby and we started making out. I eventually pushed her head back down on me and my husband was licking her from behind. Eventually he asked if she wanted him inside her. She said yes. So my hubby is taking her from behind as she is going down on me and I’m sucking her husband. This was all on a couch Well things just got better from there. We ended up going to the loft which had two beds. We eventually paired off in separate beds.
Young hubby was fun to play with. He was very eager and he had an average size package. He was about my height at 6ft so we matched up well. We enjoyed each other. The normal talk. Telling each other how amazing we were and exploring each other. My hubby and her seemed to be having a fun time. Lots of screaming. I didn’t hear a lot of talking. I later found out they talked a lot quietly. I don’t have an issue with that. I get it when a woman likes to have a guy looking in her eyes and tell her how amazing she is and how good she feels. So that’s what my husband did for her. We all had a great time. They even broke their bed. We ended up sleeping with each others significant other. Having sex throughout the night. It’s not anything we haven’t done before. We all went to breakfast and had great conversation. Then said our goodbyes (she hugged the stuffing out of my hubby and said thank you) and exchanged all phone numbers. It went really well.
Apparently she started struggling with feelings. About two weeks later she called me and told me she has never had a man make love to her that way. I told her that’s what the lifestyle was all about. The best thing was that you get to go back to your hubby and relive it and talk through it. I told her that she was lucky to have a guy that was willing to experience that with her and let her experience it. She kept telling me how lucky I was. I agreed and thanked her. She eventually called my husband and they had some nice chats. She kept telling him how much she loved how he made her feel. That her husband didn’t make her feel that way. It made my husband feel uncomfortable. A couple months later young hubby called my husband to let us know they had split up. We felt horrible.
I view it as someone that’s young and didn’t know how to deal with her emotions. She didn’t realize that she was very lucky to have a husband that was willing to let her have fun with others. She eventually called my husband to thank him again and say she’d love to see him again but he’s married. She clearly didn’t understand the lifestyle. She approved to be ready and they both thought they were ready but they obviously weren’t. Anyway, how about you? Anything similar? The ironic thing to me is, if they had stayed married, she could have had sex with my husband anytime she wanted. Just with all involved.
I was chatting with a younger couple in their late twenties that wanted to try swinging for the first time. They were both good looking and very fit and had been college athletes. They seemed to be very mature and ready. I gave them my husbands cell number so we could talk on the phone and everything went well. She was bi-curious and told me how beautiful she thought I was. We all just clicked well. We decided to meet at a resort and we got a cabin while they got a room. We started out meeting for drinks with the goal being dinner later. We wanted to socialize.
As hubby and I arrived at the bar the other couple was sitting at a keno machine. They had just won 400 dollars and were in great spirits. They said dinner was on them and we sat down to talk. Everything went well with some light flirting. We went to dinner and then decided to go soak in the hot springs. We all liked what we saw. They both had great bodies and we aren’t bad ourselves. Everyone was sober and had their faculties. The other husband eventually asked if we could all go to our cabin as it had more room. They went to their room to clean up and would meet us. When they arrived they looked great. Hubby and I could both tell that she was suddenly nervous. Completely understandable to us. The young hubby wanted to move forward at warp speed. My husband said let’s slow down a little and move at the pace of the person that’s the least comfortable in the room. We both were telling her how beautiful she was.
We decided to play a game of d rink or dare. It’s like truth or dare but if you don’t take the dare you d rink. My husband went first and started slow. He dared me to kiss her. I made it a very sensual kiss and caressed her the whole time. She said it was amazing and I thought it was a good first step for her. Now it was her turn, she dared need to kiss her husband. He was very eager and that went as expected. We played this game for over an hour. We went slow. The only drinking that took place is when we dared the guys to do something together. Eventually her husband dared her to go down on me. He said it differently. She was still nervous as she did it. She asked the guys if they liked that. They both nodded yes and stated how hot it was. She reached for my husband's hand and pulled him towards her and they kissed.
I reached for young hubby and we started making out. I eventually pushed her head back down on me and my husband was licking her from behind. Eventually he asked if she wanted him inside her. She said yes. So my hubby is taking her from behind as she is going down on me and I’m sucking her husband. This was all on a couch Well things just got better from there. We ended up going to the loft which had two beds. We eventually paired off in separate beds.
Young hubby was fun to play with. He was very eager and he had an average size package. He was about my height at 6ft so we matched up well. We enjoyed each other. The normal talk. Telling each other how amazing we were and exploring each other. My hubby and her seemed to be having a fun time. Lots of screaming. I didn’t hear a lot of talking. I later found out they talked a lot quietly. I don’t have an issue with that. I get it when a woman likes to have a guy looking in her eyes and tell her how amazing she is and how good she feels. So that’s what my husband did for her. We all had a great time. They even broke their bed. We ended up sleeping with each others significant other. Having sex throughout the night. It’s not anything we haven’t done before. We all went to breakfast and had great conversation. Then said our goodbyes (she hugged the stuffing out of my hubby and said thank you) and exchanged all phone numbers. It went really well.
Apparently she started struggling with feelings. About two weeks later she called me and told me she has never had a man make love to her that way. I told her that’s what the lifestyle was all about. The best thing was that you get to go back to your hubby and relive it and talk through it. I told her that she was lucky to have a guy that was willing to experience that with her and let her experience it. She kept telling me how lucky I was. I agreed and thanked her. She eventually called my husband and they had some nice chats. She kept telling him how much she loved how he made her feel. That her husband didn’t make her feel that way. It made my husband feel uncomfortable. A couple months later young hubby called my husband to let us know they had split up. We felt horrible.
I view it as someone that’s young and didn’t know how to deal with her emotions. She didn’t realize that she was very lucky to have a husband that was willing to let her have fun with others. She eventually called my husband to thank him again and say she’d love to see him again but he’s married. She clearly didn’t understand the lifestyle. She approved to be ready and they both thought they were ready but they obviously weren’t. Anyway, how about you? Anything similar? The ironic thing to me is, if they had stayed married, she could have had sex with my husband anytime she wanted. Just with all involved.
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