We're a bf/gf couple, not married in our 30s. This has been a kink of mine for a long time and I finally opened up to her about it just a few weeks ago. She's very sexual and open minded. I bought her a BBC dildo a few weeks ago when we first brought it up and have used it a few times now. She cums extremely hard from it when I use it on her, but says it's not the same when she tries to use it herself. I sent her some pics of QOS clothing and when I explained to her what the symbol meant, she said she'd totally be up for wearing it in public, but only if I was with her. Well, it came in today she's gonna wear one of the shirts when we go out. She seems a little hesitant to follow through on actually bringing another guy home, but I remind her I love the idea. We'll see how this plays out. Advice is always welcome