Flakes

[flordcpl]

So wife and I have chatted with a few gentlemen and then had them disappear. A third might be doing that to us now, is there a way to spot the flakes beforehand?

 

[just_jenna]

 

[blackpole334]

No pics or unverified is your answer.

 

[SheLikesItHard]

I think that this fetish is extremely exciting to a lot of people; more people than would admit to it perhaps. And this applies to both genders and all races.

However, I think a lot of people find the fantasy exciting but are a bit scared to put it into practice. So be patient.

Also, play it cool with any potential Bulls. If you act like an online pervert, rather than a healthy couple looking to add a bit of spice to the bedroom, you might inadvertently be scaring them off (not saying this is necessarily true of you, but something to bear in mind).

Best of luck

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

As an aspiring bull I can tell you that the fear or rather the sentiment is that it must be 2 good 2 be true,or its a setup, for most black men if you can make them feel comfortable it should work out

 

[flordcpl]

As an aspiring bull I can tell you that the fear or rather the sentiment is that it must be 2 good 2 be true,or its a setup, for most black men if you can make them feel comfortable it should work out

That’s fair. So how do we do that? The plans we had today was a meet up for lunch at a public setting, even offered to cover drinks. No other promises. Idea was that since my wife and I are new to the lifestyle we meet with someone and see if there is even chemistry

 

[flordcpl]

I think that this fetish is extremely exciting to a lot of people; more people than would admit to it perhaps. And this applies to both genders and all races.

However, I think a lot of people find the fantasy exciting but are a bit scared to put it into practice. So be patient.

Also, play it cool with any potential Bulls. If you act like an online pervert, rather than a healthy couple looking to add a bit of spice to the bedroom, you might inadvertently be scaring them off (not saying this is necessarily true of you, but something to bear in mind).

Best of luck

I don’t think we acted like perverts. We discussed boundaries and the like but weren’t trying to engage in dirty talk. It was a normal conversation I believe.

 

[flordcpl]

No pics or unverified is your answer.

We verified with all of them over kik.

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

That’s fair. So how do we do that? The plans we had today was a meet up for lunch at a public setting, even offered to cover drinks. No other promises. Idea was that since my wife and I are new to the lifestyle we meet with someone and see if there is even chemistry

It's a bit of cold feet I believe it is still not a normal situation for most men let alone black men

 

[What150]

Many flakes out there. Last two bulls both full on flakes

 

[HungCuck9]

So wife and I have chatted with a few gentlemen and then had them disappear. A third might be doing that to us now, is there a way to spot the flakes beforehand?

You can’t rely on anything where it’s free to meet someone.