Fake Profiles and People

MrBBC941

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As someone who is verified, I think at this point it should be mandatory that ALL profiles should be verified. People get on here and fake intentions with fake wives, only to waste your time. If they aren't verified, probably would be best to have them send you a personal verification before even conversing with them. Anyone else having this issue?
 
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MrBBC941 said:
As someone who is verified, I think at this point it should be mandatory that ALL profiles should be verified. People get on here and fake intentions with fake wives, only to waste your time. If they aren't verified, probably would be best to have them send you a personal verification before even conversing with them. Anyone else having this issue?
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Agreed. Instead of photo verification, video verification should be the standard. Many people have mentioned live video chats which would instantly verify who you say you are.
 
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PinkDaisy21 said:
Agreed. Instead of photo verification, video verification should be the standard. Many people have mentioned live video chats which would instantly verify who you say you are.
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I don't mind doing a video verification. It shows authenticity and will definitely filter out the fake profiles.

How about during the verification process, one has to do specific poses, just like they do on dating apps for their verification process
 
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Strongblk said:
what kills me is why would a dude want to fake being a couple or wife , it's beyond me how they benefit from that *******
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I suspect they get some sort of thrill. It has always been a problem . More of one on the net. I think back to all the discussions on the most popular posting and exchange sights. Adults discovering that they in fact were chatting with children as young as nine. Boys and girls claiming to be adults Playing a game. Why is this relevant, think it was a very popular thing to do and those children are now young adults. maybe the love of the game is too much to give up. Some of course have other motives. Myself I'm just a little more concerned by those who seek information unrelated to making a connection. How do you dress, your exact location, are you a professional, how much money do you make.All of them ask on this forum. Personally i think it is unwise to put too much personal information out there. I understand the real people who get mad or frustrated but too much information to get verified to ease that frustration might be the biggest mistake ever.
 
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artgirl said:
I suspect they get some sort of thrill. It has always been a problem . More of one on the net. I think back to all the discussions on the most popular posting and exchange sights. Adults discovering that they in fact were chatting with children as young as nine. Boys and girls claiming to be adults Playing a game. Why is this relevant, think it was a very popular thing to do and those children are now young adults. maybe the love of the game is too much to give up. Some of course have other motives. Myself I'm just a little more concerned by those who seek information unrelated to making a connection. How do you dress, your exact location, are you a professional, how much money do you make.All of them ask on this forum. Personally i think it is unwise to put too much personal information out there. I understand the real people who get mad or frustrated but too much information to get verified to ease that frustration might be the biggest mistake ever.
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Do you think asking for video verification is asking for too much?
 
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MrBBC941 said:
Do you think asking for video verification is asking for too much?
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Too much, Kind of depends on the video. Consider this someone sends a video nude explicit so you return with same. One could pay a model to make that video, send it to hundreds of people. Those who responded with a like video might find themselves on some porno sight or being passed around on the dark web. Those who do those things for money will do whatever it takes. Consider this idea for your peace of mind. The sight could charge a minimal amount for a verified account membership. Paid with a verified credit card. Unless they used a stolen card you might have a real person but then your real name would be exposed. If only a photo or short video were required understand the real names might not be used.
The truth is where verification is done electronically there is no absolute certainty. That is why identity theft is so common.
 
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artgirl said:
Too much, Kind of depends on the video. Consider this someone sends a video nude explicit so you return with same. One could pay a model to make that video, send it to hundreds of people. Those who responded with a like video might find themselves on some porno sight or being passed around on the dark web. Those who do those things for money will do whatever it takes. Consider this idea for your peace of mind. The sight could charge a minimal amount for a verified account membership. Paid with a verified credit card. Unless they used a stolen card you might have a real person but then your real name would be exposed. If only a photo or short video were required understand the real names might not be used.
The truth is where verification is done electronically there is no absolute certainty. That is why identity theft is so common.
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AttaGirl, You don't appear to be verified like I am not. There are actually some on here that like the subject and hope to either gleam more knowledge or to share some experiences. Personally we don't bother other members and if driven away, what has the forum gained?
 
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This place has a LOT of lurkers, which are typically white men caught in their own imaginations (and likely not getting much sex, which makes them obsess all the more).

I'm getting enough dick where I'm long past the stage of needing "likes" to photos, so we use this site to find the occasional gem (whether its a local playmate or someone we hook up with when traveling or going to a party like Splash).

All about culling down the users and focusing on verified real people.

The incels can go wank on Reddit for all I care.
 
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As a non-verified, we are here to share experiences and possibly learn from the experience of others, not necessarily here to meet anyone. We prefer other venues for that.

We don’t post pictures online and don’t even take pictures or videos during our encounters due to the risk of these unintentionally being posted or seen by others.

Both of us are active members of the community, church, PTA and have professional lives where our lifestyle will not only be frowned upon but shunned.
 
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I am not verified because I can't lol.
And that's not really a problem since I don't try to scam people using my GF.
This is a site for a specific kind of kink and purpose so it's ok.
I am in other site that let everyone verify, I rarely take non verified people into consideration.
After the first contact, I always suggest to check with simple methods that don't put privacy at risk.
For example, you are on Kik with someone.
Both can take a piece of paper. Then each ask the other to write a specific word, and take a pic with that piece of paper where they can see something (for example genitals to check if you're talking with a woman.
All should be done in less than a minute to prevent fakes, even if it's hard to do create a fake pic ok the fly.
Privacy safe, at least some aspects of identity checked.
 
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txskipper said:
AttaGirl, You don't appear to be verified like I am not. There are actually some on here that like the subject and hope to either gleam more knowledge or to share some experiences. Personally we don't bother other members and if driven away, what has the forum gained?
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No i am not verified, I came to this forum by invitation to do my photo alteration. People have difficulty accepting the fact that no amount of verification really means anything. So they do all the things ask send video or whatever there is no certainty they are 100% honest. You can route your connection to be located in the place of choice. You can use a fake name and everything they tell you on this so called verified link could be a lie.
I played the game and told the truth on a previous sight and i paid the price. The sight was compromised and i had six months of the stalker from hell. It was the legal system that educated me about the idiocy of giving too much personal information to any web sight. They all exist with the threat of being compromised at any time. A personal profile for who knows who with details, well I'll just say they said my stalker was my fault.
My feeling is this sight has never been a dating or swinger sight. It has always been about all aspects of interracial relations. The connection or possibility of finding playmates is only one piece of the pie. Those not seeking personal contact should not be required to verify.
I've read the words of those so distressed by dishonest people, i understand the frustration. My years in the swinger or open sex relationship thing was before the internet. First contact was by mail or phone. The mail contacts you had a verified address but there was no assurance that anything they said or wrote was the truth. The photo collectors and liars were there, not as many as now as this internet gives faster broader access to those game players and you don't even have a verified address to start with.
There are good people, honest and looking. The thing is you have to be willing to do the work to hook up. If there's a place where every person on the list is 100% share it. There appears to be a lot of people looking for it. I never found one but i had a lot of great times over the years that make the bad ones seem like a drop in the pond.
 
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