Encouraging her to go for it

[Allabouther65]

We have had discussions regarding her hotwifing, and she specifically showed an interest in BBC. However, things have stalled and I’m looking for advice on how to get her over the hump, (no pun intended), to go for it. She’s an attractive, mature (56), blonde with a strong sex drive and and I’m sure she’d love the lifestyle.

 

[NCcre8iveplay]

We have had discussions regarding her hotwifing, and she specifically showed an interest in BBC. However, things have stalled and I’m looking for advice on how to get her over the hump, (no pun intended), to go for it. She’s an attractive, mature (56), blonde with a strong sex drive and and I’m sure she’d love the lifestyle.

I would make a friend that you are open with about sharing /convincing your wife to open marriage. If you don't have one, simple start to discuss it with some of the real black men that are on B2W. Begin a sincere dialogue being very real and develop a plan with boundaries. Then simply introduce your wife to your new friend. She may not know all of your backstory with the new friend and that is ok. Just see how she reacts with the new friend and how their chemistry is. Then just let nature take over, and help encourage it by aiding in the creation of opportunities for your friend to develop a connection with her. Allow the connection evolve into trust and interest and help her dismiss the dangers in her mind and fears she may have. Encourage her to explore and she is safe in doing so, if you have the right friend and she has interest it will flower. And when it does, it is the most beautiful thing you will ever witness.

 

[Allabouther65]

I would make a friend that you are open with about sharing /convincing your wife to open marriage. If you don't have one, simple start to discuss it with some of the real black men that are on B2W. Begin a sincere dialogue being very real and develop a plan with boundaries. Then simply introduce your wife to your new friend. She may not know all of your backstory with the new friend and that is ok. Just see how she reacts with the new friend and how their chemistry is. Then just let nature take over, and help encourage it by aiding in the creation of opportunities for your friend to develop a connection with her. Allow the connection evolve into trust and interest and help her dismiss the dangers in her mind and fears she may have. Encourage her to explore and she is safe in doing so, if you have the right friend and she has interest it will flower. And when it does, it is the most beautiful thing you will ever witness.

 

[Allabouther65]

Thank you for the insight! I’ve been talking to a black gentleman who is a masseuse and he is interested. I’m hoping if she goes to him for a massage she’ll go back for more than just that…..

 

[hw mass cpl]

We have had discussions regarding her hotwifing, and she specifically showed an interest in BBC. However, things have stalled and I’m looking for advice on how to get her over the hump, (no pun intended), to go for it. She’s an attractive, mature (56), blonde with a strong sex drive and and I’m sure she’d love the lifestyle.

Let is always be up to her.
Don’t pressure her into doing things she’s uncomfortable with and assure her that you will love her whatever she decides to do.
Also assure her that you will stay extremely loyal to her and that this will be a one way street.

 

[Stag_husband]

We have had discussions regarding her hotwifing, and she specifically showed an interest in BBC. However, things have stalled and I’m looking for advice on how to get her over the hump, (no pun intended), to go for it. She’s an attractive, mature (56), blonde with a strong sex drive and and I’m sure she’d love the lifestyle.

How did your discussions start? How did you divulging your desire for her to have sex with other men?

 

[hw mass cpl]

How did your discussions start? How did you divulging your desire for her to have sex with other men?

I posted a story of how we started and my reaction to the phone call.
It could have gone very differently if i hadn’t felt the initial turn on to her being with another man.
Once we got past that point I became obsessed with the idea and started searching for articles online to read about others who experienced my our situation and my curiosity with it.
The original our hot wives not only provided plenty of articles that I would share with the Mrs but it led to meetings with other white guys and later her first black man. Once the Mrs was arroused by the articles pillow talk took its natural course. If you’d like to hear more let me know I don’t want to take over your thread.

 

[Allabouther65]

How did your discussions start? How did you divulging your desire for her to have sex with other men?

The first conversation happened after an afternoon in the sun and a few adult beverages. We’ve both had swinging experiences in past relationships, so a conversation about that led to a hot wifing conversation. I told her that it’d be hot to see her with another guy and suggested we find her a bull. Her next question was where do we find one and unfortunately at that point I didn’t have a good answer. So I sorta dropped the ball. I’ve reiterated the point, and that she’s allowed to have hook ups, each time she’s gone away for girls nights out and/ or vacations. When she returns I always ask if she met anyone but up to this point the answer has been no.

 

[Allabouther65]

Let is always be up to her.
Don’t pressure her into doing things she’s uncomfortable with and assure her that you will love her whatever she decides to do.
Also assure her that you will stay extremely loyal to her and that this will be a one way street.

Thanks for the reply! It’s definitely totally up to her and any pressure about it would probably squash the idea forever. She knows that it is all about her and that I have no desire to hook up with any women, unless it’s something she wants to see.

 

[Allabouther65]

I posted a story of how we started and my reaction to the phone call.
It could have gone very differently if i hadn’t felt the initial turn on to her being with another man.
Once we got past that point I became obsessed with the idea and started searching for articles online to read about others who experienced my our situation and my curiosity with it.
The original our hot wives not only provided plenty of articles that I would share with the Mrs but it led to meetings with other white guys and later her first black man. Once the Mrs was arroused by the articles pillow talk took its natural course. If you’d like to hear more let me know I don’t want to take over your thread.

Thanks for the reply! As I said in another reply here, we both have swinging experience from past relationships. That conversation led to a talk about hot wifing and some real interest from her initially. She knows the thought of her being with another man is a turn on for me and she is free to play. Unfortunately the topic has faded away and I’m looking for a way to restart it, without pressuring her or coming off as being pushy. We’ve talked recently but just generally about swinger clubs etc and I’m hoping that rekindles her interest and we can move forward.

 

[hw mass cpl]

Thanks for the reply! As I said in another reply here, we both have swinging experience from past relationships. That conversation led to a talk about hot wifing and some real interest from her initially. She knows the thought of her being with another man is a turn on for me and she is free to play. Unfortunately the topic has faded away and I’m looking for a way to restart it, without pressuring her or coming off as being pushy. We’ve talked recently but just generally about swinger clubs etc and I’m hoping that rekindles her interest and we can move forward.

Early on in our journey I would screen potential bulls for the Mrs and introduce her after there were possiblities. Once she would get to the talking on the phone stage and a guy would take a little time to get to know her she would become more comfortable with going forward.
In some cases she would consider going further then we had previously discussed.
Neither of us had ever done any online dating as it came after we were established but I would imagine that it would be even more prone to phonies.

 

[Allabouther65]

Early on in our journey I would screen potential bulls for the Mrs and introduce her after there were possiblities. Once she would get to the talking on the phone stage and a guy would take a little time to get to know her she would become more comfortable with going forward.
In some cases she would consider going further then we had previously discussed.
Neither of us had ever done any online dating as it came after we were established but I would imagine that it would be even more prone to phonies.

You’re absolutely right. I suggested we find a bull online and she was a firm “ no”. She has done some online vanilla dating years before we met without much success. I on the other hand had great luck online when being in the bull role. I’ve put her in a couple of situations to get to know friends of mine who are very interested in her and who have sone swinging experience. Hopefully planting a seed here and there will sprout hot wife situations. I’m also wanting to take her to one of upscale swingers clubs here in Ohio, but ones away from home so she has no worries of seeing anyone she knows. Just a couple tactics I’m employing at this point but other’s ideas etc are always welcome

 

[robbiewillsuck]

Every woman should have lots of lovers. November-2022 Hello Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her sucking and fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.

If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.

When she does go out - tell her to have a good time and ride your face when she returns and shares the details.

Next step: I want you to try this on your wife of GF -- suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Do this every time when you suck her tit. Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- may I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock.

Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.

I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail

 

[Stag_husband]

The first conversation happened after an afternoon in the sun and a few adult beverages. We’ve both had swinging experiences in past relationships, so a conversation about that led to a hot wifing conversation. I told her that it’d be hot to see her with another guy and suggested we find her a bull. Her next question was where do we find one and unfortunately at that point I didn’t have a good answer. So I sorta dropped the ball. I’ve reiterated the point, and that she’s allowed to have hook ups, each time she’s gone away for girls nights out and/ or vacations. When she returns I always ask if she met anyone but up to this point the answer has been no.

Have you considered setting up a profile on SLS.com or SDC.com? If she's good with it that's a route you two might consider. Just state what you are looking for and I imagine you will get a fair share of interest on either of those sites. Then you both can filter through the candidates and decide which ones may work.

 

[hw mass cpl]

You’re absolutely right. I suggested we find a bull online and she was a firm “ no”. She has done some online vanilla dating years before we met without much success. I on the other hand had great luck online when being in the bull role. I’ve put her in a couple of situations to get to know friends of mine who are very interested in her and who have sone swinging experience. Hopefully planting a seed here and there will sprout hot wife situations. I’m also wanting to take her to one of upscale swingers clubs here in Ohio, but ones away from home so she has no worries of seeing anyone she knows. Just a couple tactics I’m employing at this point but other’s ideas etc are always welcome

It seems like you have a ways to go.

 

[hw mass cpl]

Every woman should have lots of lovers. November-2022 Hello Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her sucking and fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.

If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.

When she does go out - tell her to have a good time and ride your face when she returns and shares the details.

Next step: I want you to try this on your wife of GF -- suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Do this every time when you suck her tit. Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- may I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock.

Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.

I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail

That is a very orchestrated sex life.

 

[Allabouther65]

That is a very orchestrated sex life.

I’m sure my wife wouldn’t be into most of that

 

[hw mass cpl]

I’m sure my wife wouldn’t be into most of that

My advice, get good at oral

 

[hw mass cpl]

I would make a friend that you are open with about sharing /convincing your wife to open marriage. If you don't have one, simple start to discuss it with some of the real black men that are on B2W. Begin a sincere dialogue being very real and develop a plan with boundaries. Then simply introduce your wife to your new friend. She may not know all of your backstory with the new friend and that is ok. Just see how she reacts with the new friend and how their chemistry is. Then just let nature take over, and help encourage it by aiding in the creation of opportunities for your friend to develop a connection with her. Allow the connection evolve into trust and interest and help her dismiss the dangers in her mind and fears she may have. Encourage her to explore and she is safe in doing so, if you have the right friend and she has interest it will flower. And when it does, it is the most beautiful thing you will ever witness.

That could work actually.
It may help if she were to notice a semi erect cock going alongside the zipper of his pants.

 

[Dom-one]

I just finished this scenario, My GF was a one man girl, until now, we talked about it for months, porn helped alot it allowed her to see that alot of other women really enjoy it and that it is not a bad or dirty thing, We have a little different relationship now, it was easier for her to get around the idea of being with another man when it was my idea and I asked her to do it, so we have taken the Dom, Sub lifestyle, and really became quite easy after that, she can really separate the asks from other times and it really works for her when I tell her to do really dirty things, she has blossomed into a tru BBC whore, and is going back to the buffet of life anytime I would like,

Not saying the Dom/ Sub lifestyle is for everyone, but u dont know until you talk it our, it just seemed to be better for her to know she was being tole rather then making the decision to in her own mind... hope it helps, its an amazing journey once she opens that door...enjoy.