Do you believe that times are changing?

Times are always "changing".

The real question should be whether or not it's becoming more socially acceptable to date or fuck outside of ones race or if people who are into interracial relationships don't put as much credibility and consideration into the opinions of others.

Given the amount of Bulls, ladies, and couples who go to great lengths to keep their participation and interest in this lifestyle concealed from friends, family, and coworkers, we may not be as far out of the woods as some may think.
 
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Musings...

The times they are a-changin

Dick is dick

Love is Love

Sex is Sex

My family has been interracial for a very long time. That it is still looked upon as taboo is ridiculous. Why would it matter in 2018 that a white woman and a black man are having consensual sex? Because society still regards the black man as something to be feared and the white woman as something to be reverred. I’m not trying to be a Debbie Downer or political, I like writing eroticism and fantasy but when I hear over and over again about how people feel uncomfortable about being in public, I want to scream.
Hundreds of years since slavery and look how far we’ve come to accepting the black man as an equal partner in every aspect.

Getting off of my soap box but another thing...

As far as fucking people and not respecting them, that happens everyday. Sounds like a bad marriage or relationship. If you don’t like it or yourself—change it. Otherwise, there’s a kink or fetish for virtually everything. Put on your big girl panties, strap on and suck it up.
 

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Times are changing depending on Who you ask and what changes are you referring to?

If we are just taking about SEX? Sure. Porn has managed to exploit and monetize Black talent the same way music, arts, sports, etc...has done in the past. We call it INTERRACIAL, and white people are estatic to take part in the sex carnival of fucking the Black men they see in their favorite porn :)

If we are talking about RELATIONSHIPS, mixed couples happen organically... always have, always will. Mainstream society is finally catching up to what already transpired.

Chris Rock gave an interview 5 years ago in Europe. Made a very astute observation...

 
We call it INTERRACIAL, and white people are estatic to take part in the sex carnival of fucking the Black men they see in their favorite porn :)

It's a good thing this was brought up.

We're both socially conscious, progressive, liberal, snowflakes, or whatever the buzzword for "Not suck in the 1950s" is this week. As such, when we entered into this lifestyle, there was a certain level of apprehension and hesitation due to the fact that the BBC / hotwife / cuckold dynamic essentially involves compartmentalizing and fetishizing a specific race due to a commonly accepted sexual stigma.

In all reality, black men are just that; men. They are our teachers, fathers, friends, auto mechanics, doctors, etc... All men, regardless of their race, are more than their sexual prowess.

Is our sexual interest in black men exploitation? In the vanilla sense of things, yes. It most likely is. From that perspective, is it wrong? Probably. In the same light, are black men exploiting a deficiency in our marriage and the fact that we need something "more" in bed? That argument could be made as well.

With that in mind, nothing turns us on more. When the bedroom door closes, all of the moral and ethical arguments are muted. The "real world" itself ceases to exist for a few hours. That's both the beauty and the contradiction of it all.
 
Times are always "changing".

The real question should be whether or not it's becoming more socially acceptable to date or fuck outside of ones race or if people who are into interracial relationships don't put as much credibility and consideration into the opinions of others.

Given the amount of Bulls, ladies, and couples who go to great lengths to keep their participation and interest in this lifestyle concealed from friends, family, and coworkers, we may not be as far out of the woods as some may think.


yes we agree too. Times are changing. You see it more and more each day.
 
It's a good thing this was brought up.

We're both socially conscious, progressive, liberal, snowflakes, or whatever the buzzword for "Not suck in the 1950s" is this week. As such, when we entered into this lifestyle, there was a certain level of apprehension and hesitation due to the fact that the BBC / hotwife / cuckold dynamic essentially involves compartmentalizing and fetishizing a specific race due to a commonly accepted sexual stigma.

In all reality, black men are just that; men. They are our teachers, fathers, friends, auto mechanics, doctors, etc... All men, regardless of their race, are more than their sexual prowess.

Is our sexual interest in black men exploitation? In the vanilla sense of things, yes. It most likely is. From that perspective, is it wrong? Probably. In the same light, are black men exploiting a deficiency in our marriage and the fact that we need something "more" in bed? That argument could be made as well.

With that in mind, nothing turns us on more. When the bedroom door closes, all of the moral and ethical arguments are muted. The "real world" itself ceases to exist for a few hours. That's both the beauty and the contradiction of it all.
Keeping it real! I like that
 
It's a good thing this was brought up.

We're both socially conscious, progressive, liberal, snowflakes, or whatever the buzzword for "Not suck in the 1950s" is this week. As such, when we entered into this lifestyle, there was a certain level of apprehension and hesitation due to the fact that the BBC / hotwife / cuckold dynamic essentially involves compartmentalizing and fetishizing a specific race due to a commonly accepted sexual stigma.

In all reality, black men are just that; men. They are our teachers, fathers, friends, auto mechanics, doctors, etc... All men, regardless of their race, are more than their sexual prowess.

Is our sexual interest in black men exploitation? In the vanilla sense of things, yes. It most likely is. From that perspective, is it wrong? Probably. In the same light, are black men exploiting a deficiency in our marriage and the fact that we need something "more" in bed? That argument could be made as well.

With that in mind, nothing turns us on more. When the bedroom door closes, all of the moral and ethical arguments are muted. The "real world" itself ceases to exist for a few hours. That's both the beauty and the contradiction of it all.

There are different issues here. Firstly, the fact that interracial mating is more common due the growing racial diversity of Western societies. Secondly, the evolution of that BBC/hotwife/cuckold dynamics, something that it is not the same. Finally, the popularity of some porn genres, that may have cultural roots but does not implies that those sexual practices are common.
 
There are different issues here. Firstly, the fact that interracial mating is more common due the growing racial diversity of Western societies. Secondly, the evolution of that BBC/hotwife/cuckold dynamics, something that is not the same. Finally, the popularity of some porn genres, that may have cultural roots but does not implies that those sexual practices are common.

Along with growing diversity comes growing resistance to that diversity. We live in a semi-affluent suburban neighborhood. The amount of Confederate flags on vehicles in the area has increased significantly in the past few years. If you didn't know better, you'd think the Virginia Regulars were recruiting. Sadly, the pendulum seems to swing in both directions.

The "evolution" of the dynamic sparks a thought; your second and third points may be correlated. Our generation (people in their 30s) were the first generation to come of age with the internet. We grew up chatting in Yahoo user rooms, "cybering" on AOL, and looking at porn that previous generations couldn't even imagine. With that in mind, the popularity of IR porn could be both a cause and an effect.
 
Along with growing diversity comes growing resistance to that diversity. We live in a semi-affluent suburban neighborhood. The amount of Confederate flags on vehicles in the area has increased significantly in the past few years. If you didn't know better, you'd think the Virginia Regulars were recruiting. Sadly, the pendulum seems to swing in both directions.

The "evolution" of the dynamic sparks a thought; your second and third points may be correlated. Our generation (people in their 30s) were the first generation to come of age with the internet. We grew up chatting in Yahoo user rooms, "cybering" on AOL, and looking at porn that previous generations couldn't even imagine. With that in mind, the popularity of IR porn could be both a cause and an effect.


I work as a teacher in a secondary school and for me it is obvious that teenagers are using porn as an educational tool. If there is not a proper sexual education, because it is a forbidden subject, youths have to discover sex by other means. Porn is mostly intended for male's arousal and in the videos women are always 'serving' the male actors. I'm 40 and modern girls obviously have a very different concept about what is normal in sex than my generation. There is a growing problem of 'toxic masculinity' and girls that just don't dare to say no to any sexual demand of their partners. Girls that want to be socially acepted having sex will all the boys of the classroom. This is not a problem of morality, but I don't think that watching porn with no criteria at an early age is so fantastic.

Identicy politics and mass immigration are fueling racial conflicts, but I don't think interracial sex or its cuckoldry version are opposed to racism. The BBC/hotwife/cuckold dynamics are rooted in racial esterotypes. But all these cultural factors depend of the country. It is obvious that in the USA interracial sex is a great taboo, and white man's fear about his wife being blacked is greater than in other countries. Political correctness and the enmasculation of the white male seem to be more common in Northern Europe, where women are more promiscuous and sexually liberated than in the South of the continent.

I don't think interracial sex is as popular as we tend to think. There is an obvious bias in our perception. People who have this kink perceive sexual connotations even in pictures where a white woman is just standing close to a black man.
 
People who have this kink perceive sexual connotations even in pictures where a white woman is just standing close to a black man.

Your entire post is extremely well stated. The insight is greatly appreciated!

Some of the things that are fetishized or sexualixed by folks who are into this kink tend to take things a bit far, in our opinion.
 
I work as a teacher in a secondary school and for me it is obvious that teenagers are using porn as an educational tool. If there is not a proper sexual education, because it is a forbidden subject, youths have to discover sex by other means. Porn is mostly intended for male's arousal and in the videos women are always 'serving' the male actors. I'm 40 and modern girls obviously have a very different concept about what is normal in sex than my generation. There is a growing problem of 'toxic masculinity' and girls that just don't dare to say no to any sexual demand of their partners. Girls that want to be socially acepted having sex will all the boys of the classroom. This is not a problem of morality, but I don't think that watching porn with no criteria at an early age is so fantastic.

Identicy politics and mass immigration are fueling racial conflicts, but I don't think interracial sex or its cuckoldry version are opposed to racism. The BBC/hotwife/cuckold dynamics are rooted in racial esterotypes. But all these cultural factors depend of the country. It is obvious that in the USA interracial sex is a great taboo, and white man's fear about his wife being blacked is greater than in other countries. Political correctness and the enmasculation of the white male seem to be more common in Northern Europe, where women are more promiscuous and sexually liberated than in the South of the continent.

I don't think interracial sex is as popular as we tend to think. There is an obvious bias in our perception. People who have this kink perceive sexual connotations even in pictures where a white woman is just standing close to a black man.

It logically follows that we can identity the aroused racist white boys by how strongly they object to interracial advertising, present our findings and humiliate them publicly, breaking their resistance to interracial sex.

If the public becomes aware that any white male who objects to black men standing near their women is an Interracial cuckold Fetishist the supposed masculinity of the remaining white males will be destroyed and they will be ****** to be silent.

Leading to more interracial conquests.
 
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