Do Black Men Get Women Because They Are Black Or Because They're Good Looking ?

It's just a thing I've noticed over the years when I hear BM (Black Men) talk about non black woman wanting them ?

I've noticed that's not really the whole truth because I think women like BM that are handsome and in shape just because they are handsome and in shape period not so much because they are black.

I've worked a doorman at a nightclub (And in this job you REALLY get to see the men women truly desire) and I've noticed that the BM who are liked by WW (White women) are also the ones liked by BW (Black Women) are also the ones liked by MW (Mixed Women) and other races of women. It seems like good looking in shape men are a race of their own. Even when I look the pics in here. They are not black guys like this


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banging the sh*t out of these white women and wives.

It's usually in shape good looking black guys. Like this

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Even in porn it's the same thing. Good looking, shredded, tall black dudes. That is, not average BM. And when I worked as a doorman I saw the same. The average BM would get shot down by woman (and that is shot down by women who like BM). She didn't care about his game, his swag, his confidence, his dress sense, his cologne, his watch. Nope it was just the usual "I've got a boyfriend" "O I love this song I'm gonna dance" the usual lines women give to guy they don't like.

But then a guy like the one in the above picture would roll up and as long as he didn't say or do something stupid, it was a wrap or she was a lot more welcoming to his approach even if he didn't get that ass.

So is it really like anywhere else ? That is, the top 5% of BM get to have all the choice ?
 
Mutual attraction is important when it comes to relationships. If the man isn't attracted to the woman, or if the woman isn't attracted to the man, there won't be an opportunity for them to determine compatibility in other areas e.g. hobbies/interests, occupation, educational background etc. When it comes to normal dating, most black men (except for athletes and rappers/entertainers), for a variety of reasons, lag behind the men of other racial groups when it comes to their overall attractiveness. Either they are unemployed/poorly-compensated, have a poor/non-existent educational background, or a criminal record. This makes them less attractive to women. Sexual attractiveness is not judged using the same criteria that women use for selecting their male partners in marriage/relationships. It is judged using the physical attributes of masculinity: a fit body, high athleticism, and sexual prowess. On this criteria, black men stereotypically outperform men of other races which is why women seek them out for "bulls", but not necessarily for standard relationships/marriage.
 
I have to be sexually attracted to the black guy who find him very attractive. I ever seen the average looking black guys with very big cocks as well as attractive guys with an average sized cock. I would much rather be fucked by guy that I was attracted to Cause I would enjoy his black cock and my pussy even more. Luckily for me I've had the opportunity to be with some very attractive black men that also had very big black cocks and yes I enjoyed them the most
 
It's just a thing I've noticed over the years when I hear BM (Black Men) talk about non black woman wanting them ?

I've noticed that's not really the whole truth because I think women like BM that are handsome and in shape just because they are handsome and in shape period not so much because they are black.

I've worked a doorman at a nightclub (And in this job you REALLY get to see the men women truly desire) and I've noticed that the BM who are liked by WW (White women) are also the ones liked by BW (Black Women) are also the ones liked by MW (Mixed Women) and other races of women. It seems like good looking in shape men are a race of their own. Even when I look the pics in here. They are not black guys like this


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banging the sh*t out of these white women and wives.

It's usually in shape good looking black guys. Like this

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Even in porn it's the same thing. Good looking, shredded, tall black dudes. That is, not average BM. And when I worked as a doorman I saw the same. The average BM would get shot down by woman (and that is shot down by women who like BM). She didn't care about his game, his swag, his confidence, his dress sense, his cologne, his watch. Nope it was just the usual "I've got a boyfriend" "O I love this song I'm gonna dance" the usual lines women give to guy they don't like.

But then a guy like the one in the above picture would roll up and as long as he didn't say or do something stupid, it was a wrap or she was a lot more welcoming to his approach even if he didn't get that ass.

So is it really like anywhere else ? That is, the top 5% of BM get to have all the choice ?


Of course if this guy is available he can have me, but he is not always available so don't worry some other guys are there
 
It's just a thing I've noticed over the years when I hear BM (Black Men) talk about non black woman wanting them ?

I've noticed that's not really the whole truth because I think women like BM that are handsome and in shape just because they are handsome and in shape period not so much because they are black.

I've worked a doorman at a nightclub (And in this job you REALLY get to see the men women truly desire) and I've noticed that the BM who are liked by WW (White women) are also the ones liked by BW (Black Women) are also the ones liked by MW (Mixed Women) and other races of women. It seems like good looking in shape men are a race of their own. Even when I look the pics in here. They are not black guys like this


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banging the sh*t out of these white women and wives.

It's usually in shape good looking black guys. Like this

View attachment 5715471

Even in porn it's the same thing. Good looking, shredded, tall black dudes. That is, not average BM. And when I worked as a doorman I saw the same. The average BM would get shot down by woman (and that is shot down by women who like BM). She didn't care about his game, his swag, his confidence, his dress sense, his cologne, his watch. Nope it was just the usual "I've got a boyfriend" "O I love this song I'm gonna dance" the usual lines women give to guy they don't like.

But then a guy like the one in the above picture would roll up and as long as he didn't say or do something stupid, it was a wrap or she was a lot more welcoming to his approach even if he didn't get that ass.

So is it really like anywhere else ? That is, the top 5% of BM get to have all the choice ?
 
Since school integration began in the 60' I found that Blacks, even back in jr high, had a self-confidence, ego and cockiness that the white bois couldn't match and I was attracted to it, in fact I loved it. The attention they gave me heightened my desire for them. Their looks really didn't matter, of course gruesome is another thing, nor did their bodies just as long as they were hygienic. I found their dark complexions attractive too. It was a combination of these things that was intriguing and engaging for me.
 
Might be an unpopular opinion but if I have to be 💯 honest, I care pretty much only about the cock at the end of the day, not so much the package it comes in. I could care less if someone was fat or whatever, if they possessed impressive equipment :) But that's just me.
No, it's not just you, it's me too! The best guys were those who never expected they can fuck me.
 
No, it's not just you, it's me too! The best guys were those who never expected they can fuck me.
It might sound silly but I am with you there 100%. The guy who is not the best looking or in the best shape or the age range gap be it up or down and just the guy who honestly looks like he isn't getting any even are the guys that quite often I get even hotter and more turned on hooking up with just for that fact that I am slutty enough to give it up to them.
 
It's just a thing I've noticed over the years when I hear BM (Black Men) talk about non black woman wanting them ?

I've noticed that's not really the whole truth because I think women like BM that are handsome and in shape just because they are handsome and in shape period not so much because they are black.

I've worked a doorman at a nightclub (And in this job you REALLY get to see the men women truly desire) and I've noticed that the BM who are liked by WW (White women) are also the ones liked by BW (Black Women) are also the ones liked by MW (Mixed Women) and other races of women. It seems like good looking in shape men are a race of their own. Even when I look the pics in here. They are not black guys like this


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banging the sh*t out of these white women and wives.

It's usually in shape good looking black guys. Like this

View attachment 5715471

Even in porn it's the same thing. Good looking, shredded, tall black dudes. That is, not average BM. And when I worked as a doorman I saw the same. The average BM would get shot down by woman (and that is shot down by women who like BM). She didn't care about his game, his swag, his confidence, his dress sense, his cologne, his watch. Nope it was just the usual "I've got a boyfriend" "O I love this song I'm gonna dance" the usual lines women give to guy they don't like.

But then a guy like the one in the above picture would roll up and as long as he didn't say or do something stupid, it was a wrap or she was a lot more welcoming to his approach even if he didn't get that ass.

So is it really like anywhere else ? That is, the top 5% of BM get to have all the choice ?
Being an overweight BM myself, I agree 100%. I noticed since I started a weight loss journey, been getting more attention from woman especially at the gym.
 
For me
1 be polite, respectful, no crude language, an all round nice guy.
2 good orally, be able to make me squirt repeatedly!
3 well endowed min 8"-10" with some thickness!
4 reliable, not flaky with stamina to go none stop for hours
5 STD free
Good looks aren't as importent .
 
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