StephandJay
Couple
Curious to how you guys started your BBC fantasy? Who brought it up? How? How was it? I want to get a better understanding of other people's process. Or is there a link to a discussion of this nature already? Thank you
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Accidentally ordered a dildo larger than we thought it was, then played with it, liked it, and gradually became a little infatuated with bigger toys, BBC dildos and the idea of a real one...
Wife had a brief 3 minute encounter with her highschool boyfriend's best friend and teammate, in the bathroom at a house party after a football game. Both were buzzed and ended up in the bathroom together. It went something like this....kissing, groping, fingered, sweat pants down, panties to the side and full length penetration into places she did not know existed inside her body. People started banging on the door so it was over as quick as it started...they never talked about it again...ever...although remained friends. We met in college and were married 4 yrs later. We always had a fantastic sex life from the beginning of our relationship, we always pushed our boundries with kinky sex and began to share and explore fantasies even before we were married. 15 yrs into our marriage and 3 ******* later, she told me about this encounter...but not everything at first...eventually she purged the entire 3 minute encounter...I couldn't believe she had kept it suppressed for all of those yrs from me with the trust in sharing our most intimate thoughts, fantasies etc with each other. Just goes to show how real the fear of racism, exclusion, and rejection was for both she and her classmate. It took some time at to convince her it was ok with me and that what happened in that bathroom 15 yrs earlier was her natural desire to explore surfacing for the first time. We had been in a swinging relationship with a married couple we were really good friends with, and it all happened very much like her bathroom experience. It was crazy fun, however the new did wear off pretty quickly when out friends began to show jealousy if we weren't "always" willing to spend our free time with them so we just had to stop before long time friendships were wrecked. Overtime I convinced my wife she should reach out to her highschool classmate to at the very least, talk about what they both experienced that night. Having been raised in a military family, after playing college football he too had joined the military, was married with a family and living in California. Again it was something she wanted to do but took some time to find the courage...after all, he had the same experience she did, and had not reached out either. She finally did and after the normal "Hey long time no see" small talk just came out with it. He was ecstatic to finally talk about that night. They ended up having Skype sex...and for both of them the release was incredible. He is happily married living 3000 miles away and although we have seen he and his family at a class reunion, nothing physical has happened, nor will it unless his marital status changes which they both agreed to eventhough she would happily have had sex with him initially. From there we began to learn about the Hotwife lifestyle and she made the decision because it was hers to make, of allowing me to be in control of the sharing process and to participate when I want to, if I want to. We arent veterans in this lifestyle, but we have had a few experiences, when schedules allow, and have enjoyed it immensely. Yes the sex is great, but we also have made really cool friendships with the black men we have played with. She is strictly a BBC Hotwife or selectively bi females also but we've never been happier.
OwnedWife4good
Female
We had played a bit with some of his friends, just 3-ways mostly. My husband had pushed the idea of BBC a few times as he wanted to feel my pussy really used, and see how good it would make me cum. It wasn't until I got a black man as my boss did I seriously entertain the idea. That boss somehow could tell he aroused me, maybe it was my eye fucking his body all the time. Finally during a seminar out of town he saduced me, quite easily I may add. Since then I have been hooked on black cock.
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Haha seems like he didn't need to do much of seducing
I’ve had the buzz for it for 20yrs. Recently my wife found my small collection of large black dildos. At first she thought they were my old girlfriends. Then she figured out they were mine. She had already made me throw them out by that time. She had me order a new one. She told me I couldn’t use them myself, only she could fuck me with it. She likes being in control. Since then she’s got another one and we get them out and watch IR porn and get each other off or even watch while we fuck. So it’s an ongoing process at this time.
After three years into our marriage, I introduced my Wife to BDSM lifestyle.....we would "switch" roles for a couple years, until She decided that She wanted to be the Dominant in the relationship. After living that lifestyle for several more years, She had watched some cuckold videos online, and decided that She not only wanted to try Her first Black lover, but She wanted to watch me surrender myself to Him.....I resisted this for quite awhile, but through lots of Orgasm Control, Tease & Denial, She eventually "persuaded" me to fulfill Her desires.
(Hubby). It was my fantasy. I told her about it early on in our relationship and she was like nope not gonna happen. So I left it alone for a few years and brought it up again. We started watching IR porn and started playing with toys. Then having fantasy talk in bed. Them progressed and found this site. Then 2 months ago it happened and now she is my cuckoldress
mrandmrsbusty
Couple
it started after conversations of how to spice up sex life, knowing i didn't fulfil her needs, so we talked about her taking a lover ,and initially she agreed to a white guy she knew, but after a few meets she loved it and she came up with the fantasy of going black, to which i agreed n she is now black only
