I am a white male, engaged, and have been a swinger for over 20 years. I am curious why the rise in white women with black men is happening. Decades ago, I did not like to see it, but now, I can only cum thinking about it. I am just curious about why the increase in interest, as evidenced by we recently attended our 4th Splash Mocha, and now, they are having 4 hotel take-overs in the next year, vs. the regular swinger Splash, which is still 1 time a year. So many more women want black cock. Are they more interested, more willing, or just more are finding about the pleasure of BBC? Not sure, but it does not benefit me at all, but I still jerk about daily, and honestly cannot cum unless watching BMWW. The powerful, mostly in-shape, hung and confident black men, I have to say, are better than most, not all, but most, white or other race men. I will say they have an unbelievable way of talking to women; and yes, stereotyping, but they are able to sweet talk a woman better than most. Add that to the larger cock, again, not all have, some white guys have large cocks, but most black guys have large equipment from what I have seen at nudist resorts and swing clubs, they rule and can get all the white women they want. Plus, the number of black men that I have heard able to cum, (nut) 3 and 4 times, I just cannot imagine, but they can go on, like the Energizer Bunny. Sorry for the long note, but really curious about why it is so more common now than even 5 years ago. What is happening to make WW more attracted to BM?
Curious about the rise in IR
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It’s because white men are tired of the white woman drama and are letting the black guys have them. It’s sort of like a good riddance prize.
It's because white women are more attracted to black alpha men. They always have been. But society has just grown more open to interracial in the last few years.
The internet, has opened the eyes of white women to black dick more than anything else. White women have always been fucking black men, but it was kept secret for various reasons. Today, women have the ability to see things online that was not available to women in the past. Social media has also been a big reason for the shift in attitudes among many people.
I am a 60yo MWM, back in my day, we had to go to adult book stores to buy porn, or rent adult vcr tapes to watch at home. So much has changed with the availability of porn it amazes me and I love it. I have always liked to see white women with black men, but being raised in the south, it was not something I could talk to others about, it was my secret.
With sites like B2W, we can all be exposed to the wonders and amazement of BBC, looks like many white women are finding that out!!
I am a 60yo MWM, back in my day, we had to go to adult book stores to buy porn, or rent adult vcr tapes to watch at home. So much has changed with the availability of porn it amazes me and I love it. I have always liked to see white women with black men, but being raised in the south, it was not something I could talk to others about, it was my secret.
With sites like B2W, we can all be exposed to the wonders and amazement of BBC, looks like many white women are finding that out!!
Well let’s hear some of them.
I am not sure I understand the 1st mans comment, but otherwise, I agree with everyone and especially the last 2 posts. I never thought about the porn that can now be seen, and yes, at a young age to get them used to seeing it, and the internet in general, which exposes women to what black men have to offer, including between their legs. That is why I ask, I never thought of that. I will say specifically I have to agree with Nytscout, in that it is more open as I think it is wild his ******* had so many IR adventures. Oh, the stories he could tell! Wow, that would be interesting. Thanks for everyone's replies.
Its because of shows like the Kardashians and other shows that promote it and its different as some women love black men and that is great, but a lot just want to explore and we think that is on the rise too. Its just a curiosity and people who try it love it.
I think all humans are uniquely different when it comes to sex. Our society wants to place everyone into two or three neat categories, gay, straight, or bi. There are people who are turned on by almost anything you can imagine. Some guys like girls play with balloons, but it turns them off if the girls pop the balloons. There is another group that gets off on watching girls pop balloons. How many times have you heard that it's OK to have sexual fantasies, but never act out on your fantasy? Most people thought they were the only ones who had these dark fantasies. The internet changed all of that, as we found there were lots of other people who the same sexual desires. If you had a cuckold fantasy 20 years ago, you likely thought you were the only one who wanted black men to fuck your wife, let alone lick cum from her pussy. Most would never even tell their spouse or partner about these fantasies as it was just too weird! Things changed when we found out that there were lots of other people with similar fantasies. People started producing porn that focused on one particular fantasy. It's been the availability of information that has changed the way we think and have sex. In the last several years there has been a significant effort to suppress and control the information we see. If that campaign is successful, it would be interesting to see how that affects the sex lives or future generations.
Where I live Asian, Filipino, black, and mexican women love the white dick as their life depended on it.
Why didn't you like to see it . And why wait 100 yrs to like someone. Starting to see a trend here
It's just society is changing to be more sexually open in general as we move away from religious based morals. Swinging used to be taboo, and now it's just another hobby you don't need to hide.
Being gay or bi had to be hidden from employers. Now being bi or gay is protected by affirmative action.
My wife got pulled into her bosses office and warned at work for being a swinger and having a profile on swinger sites. She is bi and the conversation ended as soon as she mentioned she is part of a protected class ( plus her husband is a lawyer ).
One could even argue that liking BBC is a sexual orientation, and hence legally protected.
Being gay or bi had to be hidden from employers. Now being bi or gay is protected by affirmative action.
My wife got pulled into her bosses office and warned at work for being a swinger and having a profile on swinger sites. She is bi and the conversation ended as soon as she mentioned she is part of a protected class ( plus her husband is a lawyer ).
One could even argue that liking BBC is a sexual orientation, and hence legally protected.
One word......Internet. Curious white women, white men and white couples can in the privacy of their own room check out if the stereotypes are true about black men and black sexuality. Of course, porn plays on these stereotypes for better or worse. In the swinging world, well-hung black men can take advantage of this. I'm sure this hurts black men who are "smaller" or "average" as people expect them to live up to these fantasies and stereotypes. But for the black men who fit the fantasy stud role for white couples.....the Swinging World is theirs for the taking and their services will only become more in demand in the future as it becomes more and more popular.
Yes and no it takes more than size I know . White women in America are picky. Sometimes it has nothing to do with dick size . Sometimes it's height are something dumb like that.
Easygliderpro
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False, it’s NOT the rise of white women into IR, but rather it’s the other way around, it’s because of white men like yourself, engaging, watching, fantasizing n feeding your brain ? this IR porn garbage ?..... oh, did I hurt ? your feelings now? Good, because this lifestyle starts as a deceptive, it looks n sounds hot, but most likely it will end up in disaster....
The smart person rather have his feelings hurt ?, than his life n relationship destroyed.
Everyone says, I want this lifestyle to see my wife/ gf sexually happy n satisfied. Truth of the matter, it’s a lie, because most men will pull back, or they will change their mindset. The wife/ gf she will become emotionally attached to her lover, n she could careless about her husband/ bf, and now you want her to stop ? and come back to you..... your nightmare ?? has begun.... lol ?.
Sooner or later, you and others will be back here looking for an advice, on how to win your wife/ gf back...... a smart person takes heed to warning
, but a fool one ignores them.....You become what you feed your brain ?, choose wisely. A mind is a terrible thing to waste.....
Good observations! We only play when we travel and tend not to circle back. Prefer to keep it anonymous. Also, we keep it MMMF so it’s not really a “boyfriend” experience. I think frequently it’s the husbands that drive it and put their wife’s up to it.
In our case we have been using others to enhance our own sex life for over a decade. We both fuck others, but have a list of rules to keep it in check.
Rules to prevent getting attached, such as only playing 4 times a year, never the same person twice in a row. Veto power over any playmate, always just sex, no socializing with our playmates, both of us always present and participating. No dating, dinners, drinks, or overnights. Just an extra dick in the room to help push my wife beyond what I can alone.
We make it clear to our potential partners, they are a "sex toy" for us. Having a guy over to help fuck my wife is no different than pulling a dildo out of the drawer in our eyes.
Our sex life is fantastic between us. We don't play the game unless we are the ones controlling all aspects and the outcome of it.
