Whatever floats your boat man. It's something you want to do. Most people don't do things they aren't wanting to do. You could always grow a pair and say "Bitch!!! Are you out of your RABID ASS MIND!!" AND THE FACT THAT YOU GO TO GAY SAUNAS PROVES THAT YOU ARE GAY! But hey "HAPPY WIFE HAPPY LIFE." WITH A DICK IN YOUR ASS AND ONE IN YOUR MOUTH AND YOU LICKING ANOTHER MAN'S ASSHOLE.It’s not something I’d ever choose to do, for sure I could have a serious chat with her and have it not happen, but it’s our agreement that I do whatever she says (apart from unprotected sex in the gay saunas she sends me to) - that’s it really.