For the Cucks and wannabes that are actively trying to bring their wife around to the idea, what has worked for you? I see the pinned "how to" thread, but I'm interested not in the overall beginning to end, but the specific things you've done at each step that have worked really well for you. I think the overall threads and advice have some gaps in them.
To my wife, my desire to see her fucked by black men would be way out of nowhere. For us wannabe Cucks we have a very specific fetish that we want to share with our wives, but we can't risk turning them off to us in the process, each step needs to be done delicately. So I'm interested in the minute details.
Example, we all know watching interracial porn with your wife is an important step. My wife and I have watched porn together in the past, and if you're like me I only watch IR and am not aroused at all by porn with white guys.
If you choose IR everytime your wife is going to notice and ask about it, and this is where advice falls short. Your answer has to a) make clear it was intentional, b) explain why you prefer IR, c) make clear that you only want to watch (or at least prefer) IR moving forward, but also VERY important d) can't blindside her too much. This early in the process I can't just tell my wife I'm only turned on by watching white girls fuck BBC.
That's where I've choked in the past. She's asked me what type of porn I watch, and maybe even been a little intrigued after noticing I always "happen" to pick IR, but without a good reason for why it needs to be BBC I've acted like it just happened to be what I picked. That doesn't establish the specific turn on with her at all. How do you explain it to her while also being clear you're not gay, freaking her out, etc.? Same thing with cuckold, which she once asked me about after a radio show was talking about it. She asked if I thought it was crazy, in that moment you want to crack the door open that it is interesting without kicking it down that you're obsessed with the idea of her riding black cock.
So I'm curious where people have had success doing these things specifically. What do you tell her why you only watch IR porn, why you got her a realistic black dildo, etc., things to tackle before you fully open up about cuckolding. Even if we never got all the way to cuckold it would be a huge turn on just getting her on board with watching IR porn exclusively.
To my wife, my desire to see her fucked by black men would be way out of nowhere. For us wannabe Cucks we have a very specific fetish that we want to share with our wives, but we can't risk turning them off to us in the process, each step needs to be done delicately. So I'm interested in the minute details.
Example, we all know watching interracial porn with your wife is an important step. My wife and I have watched porn together in the past, and if you're like me I only watch IR and am not aroused at all by porn with white guys.
If you choose IR everytime your wife is going to notice and ask about it, and this is where advice falls short. Your answer has to a) make clear it was intentional, b) explain why you prefer IR, c) make clear that you only want to watch (or at least prefer) IR moving forward, but also VERY important d) can't blindside her too much. This early in the process I can't just tell my wife I'm only turned on by watching white girls fuck BBC.
That's where I've choked in the past. She's asked me what type of porn I watch, and maybe even been a little intrigued after noticing I always "happen" to pick IR, but without a good reason for why it needs to be BBC I've acted like it just happened to be what I picked. That doesn't establish the specific turn on with her at all. How do you explain it to her while also being clear you're not gay, freaking her out, etc.? Same thing with cuckold, which she once asked me about after a radio show was talking about it. She asked if I thought it was crazy, in that moment you want to crack the door open that it is interesting without kicking it down that you're obsessed with the idea of her riding black cock.
So I'm curious where people have had success doing these things specifically. What do you tell her why you only watch IR porn, why you got her a realistic black dildo, etc., things to tackle before you fully open up about cuckolding. Even if we never got all the way to cuckold it would be a huge turn on just getting her on board with watching IR porn exclusively.